Which path?

[baltoman]

First, a little background and I’ll try to keep it short. I’m married but have had a bi-lover, Glen, for some time now. My wife and I have always enjoyed watching bi, gay porn together. She loves the sight of men fucking and sucking each other. Anyway, yesterday since it wasn’t raining for a change I called my wife at work to ask her if she’d like to meet me at the marina to take the boat out. She replied she had to work late so I called Glen up and asked him if he was interested in joining me, which he was. He met me at the marina, we took the boat out, had fun, (no sex though) and on the way back in my wife called to say she was leaving work and would meet me at the bar on the marina grounds. Anyway, I introduced her to Glen, we had drinks, light fare and despite the awkward first time of trying to introduce Glen as “just a buddy” it was an enjoyable evening. We called it a night, Glen went his way, my wife and I drove back home and went to bed (again, no sex).

Anyway this morning I got up early, made coffee and was reading my emails when my wife came into the room. She walked up behind me and started hugging and kissing on me like a horny school girl. When I questioned her actions she said she had a wet dream last night, when I pressed for details she said she had dreamt that Glen and I were taking turns fucking her. Her nipples were rock hard and pussy soaked so I knew she wasn’t kidding so off to the bedroom we go. While in bed she starts filling me in on details while I’m playing with her. Then she gets to the, “You’re licking my pussy and Glen is kneeing next to me fucking my mouth with his cock. Then you slowly work you’re way up to take his place”. I added, “And what was Glen doing now?” my wife replied, “He was behind you sliding his dick up your ass”. Well I just about came right there. The details continued for a little more than we got down to business. Now, after we finished I joked that I’ll have to make a point of inviting Glen over for more boat rides and my wife added that that would be great as long as she was invited along.

My issue now is I have mixed feelings if this is a path I want to do down IF it presents itself. My wife and I have always had great sex together and Glen and I have had fun too but I’m not sure I want to mix the two together. It could all be just another one of my wife’s fantasies and she my not want to act. It’s nice to think about it but I’m not sure if I’m ready to take that step if it should present itself, which it may or may not. I emailed Glen about it this morning and of course he’s ready (men are such pigs, lol) but he also understands my concern.

Anyway, I’m a little confused right now and sorry for the long story.

 

[SouthernAlberta]

One word...

Launch!

 

[Programmer Cat]

Launch!

I'd say that those through should get together and talk it over, first. If everybody wants to, then by all means do it. Baltoman, does your wife know that you and Glen play together?

 

[emap]

Yes you want to include your wife in your bed with Glen. For one simple reason, she will find out. If you don't tell her first she will be all sorts of pissed off and you end up with a divorce.

Now as for how you tell her, there's really three ways you can do that. First way would be to talk to Glen and tell him not to let on you two are lovers and sit him down with your wife to talk about adding him to your bed. Other way would be invite her along on your next boat trip with Glen and let the sex ensue. Last way is probably the best, just out and out tell her, Glen has been hiding his meat in you or vice versa and you would want to include her in the fun. Obviously not how I put it would be how you tell her of course, or you can, kinda depends on your wife I guess.

 

[baltoman]

Launch!

If it was only that easy.

I'd say that those through should get together and talk it over, first. If everybody wants to, then by all means do it. Baltoman, does your wife know that you and Glen play together?

I think my wife has a idea that something has been going on between me and Glen but I can't be certain. She has never met him before but knew he was the guy I'd go out for drinks with. Apparently when I went back to the boat to lock it up my wife asked him if he was married, gay or straight. His reply was, "a little of everything".

Yes you want to include your wife in your bed with Glen. For one simple reason, she will find out. If you don't tell her first she will be all sorts of pissed off and you end up with a divorce.

Now as for how you tell her, there's really three ways you can do that. First way would be to talk to Glen and tell him not to let on you two are lovers and sit him down with your wife to talk about adding him to your bed. Other way would be invite her along on your next boat trip with Glen and let the sex ensue. Last way is probably the best, just out and out tell her, Glen has been hiding his meat in you or vice versa and you would want to include her in the fun. Obviously not how I put it would be how you tell her of course, or you can, kinda depends on your wife I guess.

I think you pretty much spelled out what has been bothering me since this morning and the thought process I have to put into this. It would be tough to pretend Glen and I never had a relationship if he were to join my wife and I in bed and I think lying about it would be apparent once we got started. On the other hand I'd have to find a way to tell her that this is the guy I've been fucking and sucking.

I really didn't expect my wife and Glen to meet. I called Glen later in the day to talk about it more and mentioned that I wasn't sure how to handle this if my wife is seriously interested. My wife hasn't said much after we had sex this morning but she did ask if I heard from Glen today and what did he think of her.