I need a MAN to share

[justeasing]

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[specter170]

Non-sexual. Say thank u for regular stuff. Stroke my arm while driving. Scratch my neck/hairline while sitting next to me. Simple non-sexual contact.

Sexually. Ask what I really want and be clear that you may have trouble providing it the I (he) should never be afraid to ask.

Oh yeah. Oral sex isn't just physical. Talk to me. Be slutty and wanton. Be a woman. If your those things to me I will be your man.

Last but not least. Be independent. Needy is a natural repelent to us guys.

 

[justeasing]

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[Mr.G]

Good to better

Staying alive with me would have been nice.

Seriously when she was with me things were just getting better by the day.

What does/could your wife do to make you feel really happy to be hers?

Pretty much anything and enthusiastic. Shyly horny. Open. Curious. Loved to orgasm. Loved making her.

Sexually?

Became increasingly affectionate. Not clingy just wanted to be close.

Non-sexually?

Huh? Well, I guess she could have shoved a big knife in my eye. What does THAT have to do with your earlier questions.

What does/could she do to make you regret your commitment?

 

[justeasing]

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[SweetErika]

Well, I just don't want to do anything to push him away unknowingly.
(puts knife away)

Then have you asked HIM these questions?

Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but I'd think if you're married (or close to it), there shouldn't be any question about what he likes sexually, non-sexually and what you might do to push him away or regret his commitment to you. It seems like these are things that should be talked about thoroughly and often in any committed relationship that's somewhat healthy.

Survey strangers on here all you want, but the only way you're going to know what your partner's likes and dislikes are is talking to him. His answers could very well be completely different from ours.

 

[justeasing]

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[TheSavagePlanet]

Not exist.

 

[fireymatt]

What does/could your wife do to make you feel really happy to be hers?
when she puts on a happy face and something sexy....

Sexually?
Wake me up with a suprise! Be eager and pretend (lol) you like it...lol

Non-sexually?
Just do lots of simple things .... like buy some beer if she is buying wine...lol

What does/could she do to make you regret your commitment?
Sometimes that attitude... ohhh man!

 

[fireymatt]

Then have you asked HIM these questions?

Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but I'd think if you're married (or close to it), there shouldn't be any question about what he likes sexually, non-sexually and what you might do to push him away or regret his commitment to you. It seems like these are things that should be talked about thoroughly and often in any committed relationship that's somewhat healthy.

Survey strangers on here all you want, but the only way you're going to know what your partner's likes and dislikes are is talking to him. His answers could very well be completely different from ours.

Very true! But i think also that there might be something that someone else might provide as a great idea that even HE might not have thought about. The more information the better

 

[bobinks2]

There's a comedian named Rob Becker. He has a routine called 'Defending the Caveman'. As part of his routine, he talks about his wife getting amorous one night. They were laying in bed. She was laying behind him. She started rubbing his shoulder seductively. After rubbing his shoulder sensually for about fifteen minutes, she wispered in his ear in a sexy voice, "So honey, how does that feel?" To which he replied, "Uhhh, it feels like you're about three feet away."

Behold the penis!
We're not women. We're different. If my wife was rubbing the back of my knee or some such nonsense, I would be noticing that the ceiling needs a new coat of paint, thinking she's one and a half feet away, wondering if we were ever going to have sex.

Guys need a little reacharound. During any type of foreplay, massage, backrub, you should be trying to figure out how to stroke the penis. A hand, a foot, a boob, butt... We're not picky. You shouldn't be trying to get him to bust a nut at all times, just a little stimulation. Just enough to keep him in the game.

A couple of years ago, somebody wrote a book about people who had been married for over forty years. They interviewed a bunch of couples who had been together for over forty years. I never read the book, but I saw the press release. The had a list of eight things that successful couples do. I only remember one. Some old guy basically said, "Couples think that marriage is a 50/50 proposition. It's not. It's 60/40. And, you both have to give 60."

I hate to argue. I've never lasted long with women who argue. My wife and I haven't argued in nineteen years. I really don't even have any idea what people argue about. Just have bias against arguing. If you've ever heard the saying, 'Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff". Don't argue about small stuff.

 

[mickwannabe]

What does/could your wife do to make you feel really happy to be hers?

Sexually?

Non-sexually?

What does/could she do to make you regret your commitment?

Sexually: That's pretty personal, like what makes me blow might not work for your guy...but for me it's slow handjobs and dirty-talkin doggy-style love making.

Non-sexually: She cleans a lot. I'm not trying to be a dick, but she does. She cleans more than I ever could. And she's good at it. She's also really good at cooking. Afterall, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. She also is genuinely interested when we talk, not just sitting there going "uh huh....uh huh". We can talk for hours and have deep conversations about almost anything.

To make me regret being together...the only things that have come close to making me regret being with her is when we get into fights...i hate confrontation & tension. So when we fight I just get twisted and won't eat. One thing that really ate me up was she non-chalantly accused me of wanting to sleep with one of her friends. She apologized because it's not true, but still, hurtful.

 

[culloden]

The main thing about my wife, more important than the great sex, or the great cooking, is that she has my back. Without her believing in me as she does, I'm not sure I'd have had the confidence to take the risks that have brought me some measure of success.

 

[prostation]

And honestly, too ...

What my wife could do :

Sexually:
Nothing. Nothing at all. Regular sex is fine for me. <b>Vanilla</b>, as it were, will do just fine. And that is precisely why I would choose to get married to somebody - because we would be at a point where we would be past the need to "do" stuff for each other. You can only "do" stuff for so long. And then you'll get tired, and then comes the alimony hearing. Me and my one and only love, ever, - were so close you won't even believe it. She was like a lighthouse in a storm for me - she would ALWAYS be beaming whenever I met her - I mean always. No fights, no arguments - nothing at all. We didn't sleep together - she was deeply religious, and I could have waited forever for her. She used to shake my hand with such emotion that it far superceded anything we could have done in bed - I kid you not. See - it was not as much about giving and sharing - in a word, compromising - as it was about being together. I had told her a million times how much I loved her before she said it back, but it mattered little to me. Just the fact that I was in love, and that she knew it, was all I ever really needed. We used to spend a lot of time together - we discussed everything from sex to politics to religion to love - and she used to hold my hand, and a lot of times we just sat there, staring at each other, while the world passed us by.

Coming back to the original discussion at hand, I want to point out simply that, for example, consider anal. Suppose he wants it, and you don't. If you let him do it, and if he <b>really</b> doesn't talk much, then after he cums in your ass and pulls out, it would be really uncomfortable for you ( I'm guessing ), and if you don't discuss it, you'll end up hating it and him.

Non - sexually:
Again, it's not really what you "do"; it's who you are, and who he is. You <b>can</b> pretend, but you <b>can't</b> pretend forever.

In my ( humble ) opinion, sex is perhaps the most powerful and most intimate bond two people can share with each other, and if it involves "doing" things, then you're probably not doing it with the right person.

A marriage is ( hopefuly ) to be forever. If you have sex with him, and afterwards you're lying on your side of the bed, thinking what more you could have done, you will eventually get tired of it all.

I would love to make love to my wife - do things to her - lick her, rub her, explore all her spots, find out what she likes and how she likes it, and make her orgasm so many times that she would need a cpu with a math co-processor to add 'em all up ( all modern cpu's have math co-processors, by the way ). I would love to dominate her - to use her body to gratify my deepest urges and desires, and hopefully she'll do the same to me. But, more importantly, when we finish making love, I want her to hold my body against hers, and put my head on her shoulder, and touch my face with hers, and wipe away my tears.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

What does/could your wife do to make you feel really happy to be hers?

I'm answering from the female end of the spectrum and I'm also very submissive but I think that domestic service is what's most appreciated by a guy because it's what he notices and what he's least willing to do himself. I may do the lion's share of the housework but I get the lion's share of appreciation, affection, reward and praise. Incidentally we live together, have no kids and both work full time so it's a choice thing on my part rather than my designated jurisdiction as a home-maker.

Sexually?

Master and I's agreement/contract means that there is nothing I can really refuse him sexually. Having said that, I chose to submit to a man whose tastes and limits mirror my own so in many respects there's little for me to worry about. I have found overwhelmingly however, whether the relationship is kink based or not, that being a giver and pleaser in bed gets me a great deal of attention in return. Men are supposed to be all new age and metrosexual these days but the fact remains that there is very little they won't do in return for an enthusiastic and skilled BJ or vigorous sex. When they are forced to always take the lead it can make them resentful and giving a guy a vacation from that, taking initiative and then serving his needs by being enthusiastic and riding him can go a very long way. Many passive women store up resentment in their partners without realising it because they don't appreciate what a burden it is to lead all the time. Guys also learn about my body and what makes me tick far faster if I show initiative. Leaving a man to figure things out with a minimum of red-faced verbal or physical feedback can be very unfair.

Non-sexually?

Our agreement/contract means that I am always at his disposal. He rarely interferes with my career, friends or family but I negotiate my time away from him and friends are used to me deferring to his authority and are equally used to me being happy to do so. If he has issues they're swiftly resolved and I think we have more frank conversation than a lot of vanilla couples I know. He values my opinion, especially when my knowledge of a subject is greater than his own. I am a first mate rather than a captain but I am also privy to all the knowledge he uses to make his decisions. I may not always like everything he decides but I stand by and support it wholeheartedly because I know he ahs my best interests at heart, even if I don't always agree with his methods. He wants me to be fulfilled 100% as an individual as well as as his slave.

What does/could she do to make you regret your commitment?

Nothing. Nothing of any substance that can't be negotiated or worked around.

I agree wholeheartedly with the 'both giving 60%' quote. If both give generously, the relationship will thrive regardless of the dynamic. My agreement/contract with Master means that I have to make my 60% evident first but he has never let me down and I have no regrets about choosing to serve him. That may not be the case forever but I've been his owned slave for upwards of 18 months now and would not change a thing. It's not that i expect quid pro quo but I'm fortunate in that he rewards effort as well as success.

 

[SweetErika]

Prostation, HTML doesn't work here. You have to use vBcode, which can easily be accessed through the expanded/advanced text editor on the top of the post field (you might have to change the option in your UserCP to get it to show up on every post). If you want specifics on using vBcode, you can find them in the forum FAQ (link at the top left of each page).

What my wife could do :

Sexually:
Nothing. Nothing at all. Regular sex is fine for me. <b>Vanilla</b>, as it were, will do just fine. And that is precisely why I would choose to get married to somebody - because we would be at a point where we would be past the need to "do" stuff for each other.

You can only "do" stuff for so long. And then you'll get tired, and then comes the alimony hearing.

I guess if regular, traditional, vanilla sex is your (and your partner's) ideal, it will be just fine for you.

From your profile and post, it sounds like regular sex is not your ideal, though - it's something you'd settle for (at least at this point) based on inexperience and the notion that sexual fulfillment isn't critical or perhaps an attainable goal.

If you're going to get married for plain vanilla when you want and need chocolate, you're going to find yourself terribly unhappy.

And love and sex ARE about doing things for ourselves and each other.

Or am I missing something?

Non - sexually:
Again, it's not really what you "do"; it's who you are, and who he is. You <b>can</b> pretend, but you <b>can't</b> pretend forever.

Who we are impacts what we do. Actions--positive or negative--are critical to the success (or lack thereof) of our relationships.

Who's pretending? I have to say I find it very interesting you bring that up given your profile.

In my ( humble ) opinion, sex is perhaps the most powerful and most intimate bond two people can share with each other, and if it involves "doing" things, then you're probably not doing it with the right person.

Can you give some examples of what you mean by "doing things" and/or explain it further? I think that's probably where I'm getting hung up.

A marriage is ( hopefuly ) to be forever. If you have sex with him, and afterwards you're lying on your side of the bed, thinking what more you could have done, you will eventually get tired of it all.

Then again, thinking about what you could have done or forgot to do could very well mean you're looking to keep the sex as exciting and satisfying as possible; that you value the sexual part of the relationship and your partner.

Again, maybe I'm missing your point, but I've thought, 'Oh, we should have done XYZ. It would have fit into this session perfectly, but I'll have to remember it for next time,' on many occasions. Sometimes I have ideas/plans that get forgotten in the heat of the moment, we inadvertently fall back into our routine, or something that would have been a lot of fun occurs to me in the aftermath.

But, you know, we've been having lots of sex for close to 11 years now, and we're still not tired of it, probably because we keep growing sexually as individuals and commit to trying new things as a couple. If we didn't keep trying things, it'd get stale regardless of how great of a match or who we were. And part of keeping it fresh and being a strong couple is being flexible enough to think, 'his/her idea doesn't excite me on the surface, but I'm going to try it anyway and take pleasure in the pleasure s/he gets from it and/or figure out ways to make it fun for me.'

 

[JHarrison01]

"Doing things" means being creative, inventive, exploring new things, having fun together. I can speak from personal experience: if this is what one person enjoys and the other doesn't, there will be problems ahead.

I agree, sex/making love is the most powerful thing two people can do together - which means if you are not aligned (and willing to talk about what that means) there will be trouble. Justeasing, you need to get your man to open up and talk about it

 

[Submission13]

What does/could your wife do to make you feel really happy to be hers?

She is honest and straight forward with me!

Sexually?

She initiates sex frequently!

Non-sexually?

A Hug, or unexpected kiss are wonderful!

What does/could she do to make you regret your commitment?

No sex tonight.

Talk to each other, perhaps you need a romantic weekend! Always fun!

 

[prostation]

HTML doesn't work here. You have to use vBcode

I wasn't trying to do html - I thought "VBCode" would parse so common a markup tag - perhaps it uses some other symbol to differentiate between the pages' own tags and the users' tags ( Maybe [] instead of <> )

I guess if regular, traditional, vanilla sex is your (and your partner's) ideal, it will be just fine for you.

To adequately post a response, we must now ascertain a definition of what we can call "vanilla". I would regard the following as commonly prevalent sexual practices ( or, atleast those which do not fall into "fetishes":

-> Vaginal intercourse ( duh )
-> Anal ( perhaps, with prior discussion and mutual consent )
-> Licking pussy to orgasm
-> Fingering and rubbing the clit with ( maybe ) a finger up her ass
-> Her lying on her back, you're between her legs. Rub her till you just tip her over the edge, and then stop all stimulation. She'll try to rub herself with her hands. Hold both of hers in yours, and do NOT let her ride hr orgasm. And then, after a couple of minutes, make her orgasm and this time just keep on going. Hold her down and rub and rub her clit until she somehow manages to kick herself free
-> Positions - doggy, missionary and the complete assortment
-> Tie both her hands together to the head board, keeping her legs free, so that you can turn her over to her side. Do that, and spoon her from behind, and slip inside her ass. Slip a vibrator in her pussy, and turn it on to a low speed. Now, the first time, I'll cum quickly. So, I'll just move around a little in her ass, gently, of course, as I always am, and then push myself as deep inside her as I would go, and then just feel the vibrator in her pussy until I cum - I'll cum from that too, young men are built that way. Ater I've shot my first load into her, I'll increase the speed of the vibe by one step and hump her ass until I cum again. Then again increase a step and hum till I cum. When I jerk off, I can do it four times in a session, so, the fourth time the vibe would be at full throttle. Now, the most important point in this exercise is that I will take no heed about when she cums, and when she becomes too sensitive. In fact, when she does cum, the way her ass wiull clamp down on my cock will make me cum even quickier.

-> We could have special "days". I get high on delayed gratification. Many times I'll just make her cum, and not cum myself - I'm talking about non-penetrative things, 'cause with me would always probably be - in # bam # out - and as such, foreplay becomes that much more important. So, when we're in bed, I'll make her lie on her back, slip down between her legs, pull down her panties and take them off, put my face to he cunt and her legs on my back, and lick her slowly to orgasm, taking my own sweet time. When I tip her over the edge, I'll still go as slow. She'll want to rub herself, but she won't, 'cause she knows how I like to make her squirm. But she'll whimper ! Ah, that whimper !

-> Often, when I'll be on top, she on her back ( the good old missionary ), her legs on he backs of mine, her feet just touching me, I'll just lie there, buried deep inside her, looking into her eyes, gently kissing her lips, her neck, smelling her hair, whispering the real deal about data structures and pointers to functions in ISO C 90.

-> I'll hug her more than anyone has ever hugged anyone on this earth.

Yeah, I think I'll be pretty satisfied with Vanilla.

based on inexperience and the notion that sexual fulfillment isn't critical or perhaps an attainable goal.

For me, the very "act" of sexual intimacy is fulfulling. For me, it's NOT about WHAT you do, it's about WHO who do it with.

If you're going to get married for plain vanilla when you want and need chocolate, you're going to find yourself terribly unhappy.

Have you ever been so desolate that you've thought to yourself - all right, then, these 20 - something years have been fine - give or take a few things, but let me have no more ! And then, time eventually heals some of the wounds - make your heart beat a little deeper, but ultimately leads you to eternal loneliness. Believe me, if I ever fall in love with a woman, I'll never be unhappy - terribly or otherwise - and the least of all because of sexual reasons. And I'll tell you why - see, I'm probably the one of the most horniest men on this message board, and sex is a very important part of my life, or at least it will be. Right now I mainly practice on my own My relationship will be an intimate one - if she doesn't like me in her ass, maybe she'll let me rub it a little instead of putting a finger inside - but only if wants to. A woman is the finest and most magnificent creation of nature - all of her - including things other than her orifices, and even more so a woman you love. So instead of focussing on one particular aspect, I would rather enjoy the meal as a whole - up, down, middle, down, down, down, down

And love and sex ARE about doing things for ourselves and each other.

No, they are not. Love is a fantastical alternate reality where you detach yourselves from the constraints of space and time. This time, I do NOT speak from inexperience. I have felt love as strongly as anybody else, perhaps, and further, I've felt it move past me. I ahev loved and lost, and perhaps this is why I can appreciate it better. It's not love if your husband yells at you.

Or am I missing something?

Ignorance is bliss.

Who's pretending?

People who spend more time on erotic message boards than they do with their SO's.

I have to say I find it very interesting you bring that up given your profile.

So, when you're bi, it's cute and sexy, but if I'm bi, being a man, I'm ugly and disgusting ? That's one less christmas card I'll be sending out this year.

Can you give some examples of what you mean by "doing things" and/or explain it further? I think that's probably where I'm getting hung up.

Refer above.

... to keep the sex as exciting and satisfying as possible; that you value the sexual part of the relationship and your partner.

For me, ALL of my relationship is sexual, and not just the part where I "enter" her.

Again, maybe I'm missing your point, but I've thought, 'Oh, we should have done XYZ. It would have fit into this session perfectly, but I'll have to remember it for next time,' on many occasions. Sometimes I have ideas/plans that get forgotten in the heat of the moment, we inadvertently fall back into our routine, or something that would have been a lot of fun occurs to me in the aftermath.

Routine ?

Who's pretending?

Perhaps you've just answered your own question.

If we didn't keep trying things, it'd get stale regardless of how great of a match or who we were.

It'd get stale, eh ? Towards the end of my relationship, I used to write down the things that I wanted to say to her before I called her up, so that I wouldn't forget something and fret about it afterwards.

Love and sex are completely different things. Your husband doesn't hump you because he loves you; give him a clean chit - tell him to go fuck anybody he wants for one night - no questions asked. See if he does that.

I'll ask you one last thing. Suppose, due to some cause, you can never have sex again. You can do everything else, but no penetration, anywhere. Would he still love you ? Even better - suppose you become chronically depressed and don't want any kind of sexual contact anymore. Would he still love you then ? Or would he leave you - or even worse, cheat ? This was actually a question asked by some guy a couple of years ago. I ( under a different sign name ) ventured to side with his wife, telling him to stand by her, no matter what. People flamed me like there was no tomorrow. Well, after some three (~) years, I still side with the wife.

 

[SweetErika]

I wasn't trying to do html - I thought "VBCode" would parse so common a markup tag - perhaps it uses some other symbol to differentiate between the pages' own tags and the users' tags ( Maybe [] instead of <> )

No, it doesn't. When HTML was enabled, a few unscrupulous people used it for evil, so the admins disabled it completely.

And, yes, the more common HTML tags (b, i, u, quote) can be used with brackets instead of arrows.

It's not love if your husband yells at you.

Are you asserting that people who yell at each other don't love each other?

Ignorance is bliss.

Not for me, but perhaps it is for you.

People who spend more time on erotic message boards than they do with their SO's.

I agree that can be problematic. Fortunately, most of the HT regulars don't seem to allow Lit to have a negative impact on their real life relationships.

So, when you're bi, it's cute and sexy, but if I'm bi, being a man, I'm ugly and disgusting ? That's one less christmas card I'll be sending out this year.

No.

But do feel free to show us where you got that idea. I know you didn't get it from me because I've never said or thought anything of the sort.

Perhaps you're projecting and/or baiting.

It'd get stale, eh ? Towards the end of my relationship, I used to write down the things that I wanted to say to her before I called her up, so that I wouldn't forget something and fret about it afterwards.

Good for you?

Love and sex are completely different things.

That's true sometimes, but in many solid LTR's they're heavily intertwined.

I won't bother elaborating because you don't seem terribly receptive to getting new perspectives or learning.

I'll ask you one last thing. Suppose, due to some cause, you can never have sex again. You can do everything else, but no penetration, anywhere. Would he still love you ? Even better - suppose you become chronically depressed and don't want any kind of sexual contact anymore. Would he still love you then ? Or would he leave you - or even worse, cheat ? This was actually a question asked by some guy a couple of years ago. I ( under a different sign name ) ventured to side with his wife, telling him to stand by her, no matter what. People flamed me like there was no tomorrow. Well, after some three (~) years, I still side with the wife.

Not being able to have sex doesn't make the love disappear.

My husband and I have talked about these scenarios, and we're confident we could work it out. We love each other enough to try to fulfill those needs, even if that means supporting the other person in getting their needs met elsewhere.

 

[Eilan]

This was actually a question asked by some guy a couple of years ago. I ( under a different sign name ) ventured to side with his wife, telling him to stand by her, no matter what. People flamed me like there was no tomorrow.

Link?

 

[prostation]

When HTML was enabled, a few unscrupulous people used it for evil, so the admins disabled it completely.

Watch out people , it's the attack of the HTML hackers.

Are you asserting that people who yell at each other don't love each other?

Yes.

Not for me, but perhaps it is for you.

Are you supporting domestic violence ?
What about hitting? Maybe you consider that as tough love? What about hitting the kids? Perhaps you consider that as Spare the rod and spoil the child. What about man-slaughter? A sacrifice to the gods?

Perhaps you're projecting and/or baiting.

Yes, that's right. I spend the better part of each day trying to bait strangers on erotic message boards.

Good for you?

It wasn't. Believe me.

I won't bother elaborating because you don't seem terribly receptive to getting new perspectives or learning.

Did you not read the definition of vanilla I posted above ?

Not being able to have sex doesn't make the love disappear.

Now you're being self-contradictory. First you say that if one doesn't experiment, then the sex becomes stale and eventually one gets irritated and remains unsatisfied in their relationship. This is exactly what I've been saying all along. Sex and love are completely different things. Sex with someone you love is like an anal creampie, for example - it's like snow on christmas. It's totally fucking awesome ( pardon my french ). But there is something known as Platonic love; love doesn't need sex. It can be elevated by it, but it doesn't need it. And when you're in love, sex is in itself a whole new dimension of existence. It doesn't matter what you do and don't do. If you both enjoy BDSM, good foryou. If you don't, then simply doing it because your husband likes it doesn't imply love. Doing so will only fester a deep rooted frustation.

My husband and I have talked about these scenarios, and we're confident we could work it out. We love each other enough to try to fulfill those needs, even if that means supporting the other person in getting their needs met elsewhere.

Are you fat, or otherwise unattractive ? Why would you possibly say that ? If I were your husband, and you wouldn't want to have sex, it wouldn't bother me. I would go celibate for the sake of love than be unfaithful.

If you really do believe that last quote, why don't you implement it unconditionally. Surely you understand that no matter how much your husband loves you, he would still want to sleep with other women. Why don't you let him do that, then? Why wait till you somehow get the humors ? I mean, could you really stand him coming home each night smelling like some whore? I mean, come on woman, stand up for yourself! Do you have low self-esteem? Don't accept things because of a defective point of view. You are definitely worth more than you think you are. Why would you want to settle? Don't you wish for more? And that's what I'm been saying all along - that the lady who started this thread should not - must not marry some idiot who doesn't even know how to open up to his to-be wife. The bond between a husband and wife is the highest social instituion in all of the human civilization; not withstanding the state of mockery that it has been reduced to today, one must certainly not reduce it to terms such as compromise.

In a few words - if you and I were married, I would:
-> Be as much kinky as would or would not want me to be.
-> Certainly not sleep with other people.
-> Talk to you.
-> Give you respect and admiration.
-> Most certainly not yell at you.

Your partner would be with you 24/7, and not just 3 minutes in bed four times a week. You might do stuff in bed that you don't want to to satisfy your partner because that's what you do in understanding relationships. But what about all the time when you're not having sex?

There has to be something in the world that we can call true love. There just has to be. Otherwise, what's the point of going on? If you haven't found it, that doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

getting their needs met elsewhere.

Seriously, what is the matter with you?

We love each other enough to try to fulfill those needs ...

Have you ever heard of Love is all we need ... ?

I might not be prone to learning, but I would never, ever, cheat. Never. I simply can't even imagine it. Have you watched Forest Gump? Shrek? Titanic? If you don't believe in the ideal concept of love, then don't. But don't burn me for doing so. This is a sad, pathetic, mundane little world we live in - a crumbling and heading for eventual doom - that which we call humanity. It's a rickety old building about to fall. Love is perhaps the only brigde on a stormy river. Don't snatch that away from us.

 

[SweetErika]

You're too young to be such a bitter, miserable, cold, ignorant ass. I hope you're getting professional help for that.

Good luck finding anyone worthwhile who is willing to put up with you and your antics.

 

[MisterSir]

You're too young to be such a bitter, miserable, cold, ignorant ass. I hope you're getting professional help for that.

I just want to lodge an objection to the insinuation that mook is in any way like me. Ignorant, maybe, but bitter and miserable is my turf consarnit. he says, tongue planted firmly in cheek

 

[SweetErika]

I just want to lodge an objection to the insinuation that mook is in any way like me. Ignorant, maybe, but bitter and miserable is my turf consarnit. he says, tongue planted firmly in cheek

Alright, alright! You can keep miserable and bitter, if you'll give Prostateboy foul, antagonistic and negative in trade.

Sound like a plan, man?