Wife seeks out ex-boyfriend on Facebook

[Mick1963]

I made an interesting discovery yesterday while looking through the History on our family PC.

My wife has 'friended' an ex-boyfriend. When my wife and I began dating, I didn't know this under years later that she was still seeing this guy. Having dual boyfriends lasted for a couple of months until they drifted apart.

I'm amazed by the fact that she sought him. She sent a 'friend' request to him and he accepted.

I should be angry about this, but something tells me to go along with it and see what develops. I'm curious to see if there's the flame still burning for both of them.

It also helps that I can access her account. Hell, she asked me to set it up and hasn't changed the original password.

What do you think?

 

[klippert]

have you confronted her yet?......be careful though.....she may flip that you are reading her "Private" STuff.....if she wigs, then I would push the issue.....WTF women......I know of few of our friends that have "secret" face-space book thingies...this is bound to blow up...funny thing......two of the three are women.....

 

[Mick1963]

have you confronted her yet?......be careful though.....she may flip that you are reading her "Private" STuff.....if she wigs, then I would push the issue.....WTF women......I know of few of our friends that have "secret" face-space book thingies...this is bound to blow up...funny thing......two of the three are women.....

Haven't confronted her yet. I'm more curious to see how this plays out between them. As for reading her private stuff, it can be done without her knowledge. My wife - who's 45 - had something close to an online fling with a younger guy a few years back, but because she's so inconsistent in her web usage the web relationship didn't last long.

My wife is the 'Roseybabe' in the photo posting thread.

 

[85bird]

...remember, shes married to you....

 

[Mick1963]

Use it to your advantage dude!...bring in the ex-boyfriend and you guys can tag team her.....think how awesome that would be!....remember, shes married to you....

Great idea. The guy lives about a 2-hour drive from us.

I'd rather find a way for him to join in than me throw a hissy fit and kick her out of the house. I can't say I've been a perfect angel myself.

 

[85bird]

There 'ya go, don't let your insecurities get in the way of giving her unimaginable pleasure...

 

[popcorn2721]

I made an interesting discovery yesterday while looking through the History on our family PC.

My wife has 'friended' an ex-boyfriend. When my wife and I began dating, I didn't know this under years later that she was still seeing this guy. Having dual boyfriends lasted for a couple of months until they drifted apart.

I'm amazed by the fact that she sought him. She sent a 'friend' request to him and he accepted.

I should be angry about this, but something tells me to go along with it and see what develops. I'm curious to see if there's the flame still burning for both of them.

It also helps that I can access her account. Hell, she asked me to set it up and hasn't changed the original password.

What do you think?

The question that your asking is subject to variables that you may not be aware of...such as why did they split, was it a bad break up, what are you hoping to gain out of this?
You need to find these things out, post them here and well give you some honest feedback.

 

[Mick1963]

The question that your asking is subject to variables that you may not be aware of...such as why did they split, was it a bad break up, what are you hoping to gain out of this?
You need to find these things out, post them here and well give you some honest feedback.

They split because they were, to use an old cliche, going in different directions. He was working and she was in college. They were seeing less of each other, and she was seeing more of me at the college. As far as I know, it was a mutual parting.

One humorous note: Her dad - my future father-in-law - kept calling me by the ex-boyfriend's name the first few months my wife and I dated. The ex-boyfriend and I have similar first names. I just laughed it off and politely corrected him. He's been awfully good to me the 26 years I've known him. Can't say the same for the mother-in-law.

What am I hoping to gain out of this? To know for certain she still has feelings for this guy. I think she does. If she wants to carry on some sort of old-flame romantic relationship with him - whether it's online or personal - then fine. I won't get in their way. I know she fantasizes about other guys or talked about what it would be like to be with another lover, but never allowed herself to go through an actual affair (I think).

I welcome your honest feedback.