Closet sub?
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myinnerslut
His chains. His lash.
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so (to stick a label on it, which isnt always the wisest of ideas) your a switch
Sir_Winston54
Assume the position!
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Think about the first time you had sex. Weren't you "overwhelmed and preoccupied" by the thought of getting more, at least for a few ... weeks, months, years, decades?
Why are you surprised that when you've discovered a new facet to your sexuality, it's been at the forefront of your thoughts?
Why are you surprised that when you've discovered a new facet to your sexuality, it's been at the forefront of your thoughts?
Hmm, I'm not sure about that. Sex for the first time was a great experience, but it didn't consume me.
ammre
ani and griselda's child
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Hey! I'm sort of on the same boat, but heading in the opposite direction.
I used to think of myself as a total hardcore sub. Lately all my play has been as a top.
Because I'm not partnered with anyone, I find myself meeting new folks and playing publicly a lot. I feel that it's easier to find people to top then to bottom to. I'm very picky about who I bottom to. So i either top people or i get very bored watching everyone else play.
I hesitate to use the term switch. I'm more of a service top and reaction junky. Say a person wants a damn good spanking. I can give them a damn fucking good spanking. I may seem like i'm topping them but I'm actually doing as they wish. I'm not switching from one role to another. I'm both at the same time. I like their reactions, the screams, the laughs, the moans, the smiles, I just want to cause them all.
Even sometimes when I bottom I feel a little more powerful then the top becasue I'm the one taking what they have to give and still going.
I can't just switch those parts on and off in myself. They exist together.
I used to think of myself as a total hardcore sub. Lately all my play has been as a top.
Because I'm not partnered with anyone, I find myself meeting new folks and playing publicly a lot. I feel that it's easier to find people to top then to bottom to. I'm very picky about who I bottom to. So i either top people or i get very bored watching everyone else play.
I hesitate to use the term switch. I'm more of a service top and reaction junky. Say a person wants a damn good spanking. I can give them a damn fucking good spanking. I may seem like i'm topping them but I'm actually doing as they wish. I'm not switching from one role to another. I'm both at the same time. I like their reactions, the screams, the laughs, the moans, the smiles, I just want to cause them all.
Even sometimes when I bottom I feel a little more powerful then the top becasue I'm the one taking what they have to give and still going.
I can't just switch those parts on and off in myself. They exist together.
