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I recently told my daughter, when she was trying to get back in my good graces after being a bitch about helping me with our taekwondo form, that if she couldn't be consistent/dependable, I just wasn't interested in her help. She did not care for the dismissal. Tough.

I have come to realize that this is true of everyone, and it's across the board. I'd rather make do without assistance than have to pester someone for their help. However, that also means I stop bending over backwards to make their lives easier, too. I'll rely on the most reliable person in the room: me.
 
I recently told my daughter, when she was trying to get back in my good graces after being a bitch about helping me with our taekwondo form, that if she couldn't be consistent/dependable, I just wasn't interested in her help. She did not care for the dismissal. Tough.

I have come to realize that this is true of everyone, and it's across the board. I'd rather make do without assistance than have to pester someone for their help. However, that also means I stop bending over backwards to make their lives easier, too. I'll rely on the most reliable person in the room: me.
I've also learned to accept the ball-droppers and move on. It definitely saves time cutting out the middle man. :rolleyes: And, your daughter will probably learn from this. Wish my mom would've done similar with me. I was a really irresponsible young adult and had to learn a work ethic from people in the workforce. It was a pretty hard road.
 
*Snerk* You shoulda seen me when I was carrying the girls! Amy kept asking me if I was going to get training wheels for my belly! :rolleyes:

hehehee...:p you're so titchy, i bet you looked like a beachball :D

Yup. You are going to be big and fat, Gracie. Add in a sore back, lack of sleep, indigestion, super sensitive titties (not in a good way) and gallons and gallons of hormones that make you completely insane. You are going to be an absolute mess! :D

So helpful...:p

THEN Misty is going to walk up to you, run her hand over you belly, kiss your neck, start rubbing your back and you are going to feel happier than you ever have in your entire life. Word! :heart:


:kiss: i hope you're right.

I agree with Betsy...wives are great for clearing away the pregnancy blues. I was only pregnant briefly, but Eden kept me entirely sane when I was a ball of hormonal crazy. She made me believe I was beautiful. And even when we were grieving the loss, she was crazy strong for both of us.

So bottom line? Your Misty seems like an awesome chick. She'll never find you anything but gorgeous.

:rose: and thank you :rose:
 
88 Days, 2128 hours etc etc until i get to see her.
yes i'm sad, i made a countdown timer.
Looking at it in hours makes it feel so much closer. :)
 
I recently told my daughter, when she was trying to get back in my good graces after being a bitch about helping me with our taekwondo form, that if she couldn't be consistent/dependable, I just wasn't interested in her help. She did not care for the dismissal. Tough.

I have come to realize that this is true of everyone, and it's across the board. I'd rather make do without assistance than have to pester someone for their help. However, that also means I stop bending over backwards to make their lives easier, too. I'll rely on the most reliable person in the room: me.

Don't know the situation exactly but from what I see you're being a little hard with your expectations. There's a fine line between not getting hurt and hurting someone by putting up too many defenses.
 
I honestly don't know if I'm wrong or right. I just know that she doesn't seem to want to compromise, won't listen and address what I'm talking about and seems be be the biggest narcissist I've ever met in my life!
 
I got some very cool pics today.

Who knew 2 black straws in a glass of Archers and Lemonade could be so much fun? :D

And Y has the most amazing Iris'. I am so going to do some more shots with him.

I've already told him, he's going to be my guinnea pig for portraiture. :D
 
Don't know the situation exactly but from what I see you're being a little hard with your expectations. There's a fine line between not getting hurt and hurting someone by putting up too many defenses.

depends how many times they have let you down, how many times you have helped them out, and how close you are supposed to be

sometimes, you just gotta call 'em, no matter how much it hurts, and it does, not just them, but you too
 
depends how many times they have let you down, how many times you have helped them out, and how close you are supposed to be

sometimes, you just gotta call 'em, no matter how much it hurts, and it does, not just them, but you too

Kids?

What about forgiveness?
 
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