new sub to the scene, looking for training...

[pupgirl4u]

hello. i'm new to the scene, having only a little experience with an ex boyfriend after he got a mainstream "how to" book on BDSM... I'm posting here because the replies one gets on Craigslist are... a joke. to say the least.

After a lot of thought, I'd like to be trained as a submissive. I'm fairly rebellious, and I want to quell that. I feel like I'll be a better person in my day-to-day life if I can learn how to control my desires and serve another.

I don't want to put TOO too much information here, but i am looking for someone who would be willing to take me in for some time this summer and train me.

Personal Info available upon request... willing to travel...

I'm not sure what else to say, but... I hope to hear from you!

 

[youngrabbit]

where are you from pup?

 

[pupgirl4u]

I'm from Baltimore, MD

 

[youngrabbit]

thats a shame, I havn't trained anyone for a long time, such a pleasure to do

 

[pupgirl4u]

As I said, I'm willing to travel! I have the summer off for once, and I think it would be a perfect time to do it...

 

[Primalex]

As I said, I'm willing to travel! I have the summer off for once, and I think it would be a perfect time to do it...

Do you seek personal training or would you also join a poly household?

 

[pupgirl4u]

I am open to all options; I would like some level of personal training whatever the arrangement.. even if it's provided by more than one person.

 

[RawHumor]

I suspect that this will be a very popular thread. I also suspect you'll get a lot of fake doms in here wanting to try to get free pics or a quick jerk-off session just to test you, when they really aren't in a position to offer you what you seek.

 

[pupgirl4u]

I suspect that this will be a very popular thread. I also suspect you'll get a lot of fake doms in here wanting to try to get free pics or a quick jerk-off session just to test you, when they really aren't in a position to offer you what you seek.

Well, i've gotten fairly adept at weeding out the fakes (stupid Craigslist and it's stupid fake Doms)... i don't send pics until i've chatted with someone for a while, and i most definitely don't cyber or anything of the sort.. thanks for the advice, though RawHumor..

 

[RawHumor]

Well, i've gotten fairly adept at weeding out the fakes (stupid Craigslist and it's stupid fake Doms)... i don't send pics until i've chatted with someone for a while, and i most definitely don't cyber or anything of the sort.. thanks for the advice, though RawHumor..

You're welcome, but that wasn't so much advice as it was an observation and somewhat a prediction.

Here is some advice, however - be very patient. Very patient. If you're going to travel to meet someone, make sure that what he wants is the same thing that what you're wanting to do for him.

 

[pupgirl4u]

You're welcome, but that wasn't so much advice as it was an observation and somewhat a prediction.

Here is some advice, however - be very patient. Very patient. If you're going to travel to meet someone, make sure that what he wants is the same thing that what you're wanting to do for him.

Well, then.. allow me to correct myself. Thank you for the original prediction and the new advice

I've found a couple of prospects, but I'm putting them through the ringer to make sure they we're on the same page about things.

 

[RawHumor]

Also - some basic details may help reduce hurt feelings and/or rejection down the road.

Your age, if there's an age you're looking for, your general body type (some guys are really into BBWs, for others it's a deal-breaker, etc), also if you're looking for a male or female dominant, or if that doesn't matter to you.

 

[pupgirl4u]

Well, I'm 22.. I don't care about age so much.. I'm a BBW (sort of.. I mean, I don't think I am, but I might be..)... and I'm looking for either.