First Kink

[YourCaptor]

Hello folks, just a little fun thread and something I am curious about.

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)?

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)?

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in?

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise?

Nothing too in depth, just wondering how you all do it.

and if you are wondering, by nilla disguise I mean your public presentation, you know with edges rounded off... if that applies.

 

[MisterSir]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)? - Not applicable.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)? - Not applicable.

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in? - Not applicable.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise? - Not applicable.

...well, this was an entertaining diversion, five seconds out of my life. Thanks!

 

[WriterDom]

Hello folks, just a little fun thread and something I am curious about.

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)?

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)?

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in?

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise?

Nothing too in depth, just wondering how you all do it.

and if you are wondering, by nilla disguise I mean your public presentation, you know with edges rounded off... if that applies.

My very first was a grad student in Athens. I didn't know what bdsm was at the time. I don't think she did either. But she wanted spankings and I wanted someone to spank.

I've always dove in. Twice we had dinner first. It usually takes 6 weeks at least of phone before I met anyone. Since I can't find anyone close. We both are ready by the time we meet. It might be nice to have a vanilla date but not always practical.

 

[BiBunny]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)? CollarMe, of all places. I met Master first and Mistress much later.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)? The very night we met, for both of them.

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in? Jumped in with both feet. I'm not a "do things half-assed" kind of person.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise? We didn't meet dressed in black leather or anything like that.

 

[00Syd]

Do you mean our current significant other or the first person we got into kink with?

 

[YourCaptor]

Do you mean our current significant other or the first person we got into kink with?

Can be anyone

 

[YourCaptor]

CollarMe, of all places. I met Master first and Mistress much later.

Lucky, the only person I found there was a girl who was not ready for anything.

 

[BiBunny]

Lucky, the only person I found there was a girl who was not ready for anything.

Yeah, I got *really* lucky.

 

[YourCaptor]

My very first was a grad student in Athens. I didn't know what bdsm was at the time. I don't think she did either. But she wanted spankings and I wanted someone to spank.

I've always dove in. Twice we had dinner first. It usually takes 6 weeks at least of phone before I met anyone. Since I can't find anyone close. We both are ready by the time we meet. It might be nice to have a vanilla date but not always practical.

Damn, collector.

 

[satindesire]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)? I was working for Hewlitt Packard and had the entire North Bay area of California as my territory. I went to various technology stores like Circut City, Best Buy, etc, and did presentations on different computers, printers, cameras, etc. Mister was working at the Best Buy that I made most of my commission out of, in Santa Rosa.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)? We dated for five months, moved in and lived together for three more months before I told him. A total of 8 months before I let him know.

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in? We're still taking baby steps to this day, after over three years of living together.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise? We met as a vanilla couple.

 

[Netzach]

The first guy I ever did anything powerplay with was a gf's bf. She knew, but not the extent, probably.

I'm not proud.

As for the rest, I met them at the local munch in person, or then H who was a client I liked so much I grabbed up.

 

[00Syd]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)?
On the floor, on my knees, being presented to him as a plaything for the night by a mutual friend. Said mutual friend was not very good with rope at the time but I really, really wanted rope, and Seb was and is very good with rope, and so mutual friend invited him over for the night for some rope bondage play time.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)?
Uhm, haha, I would say we dived right in.

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in?
We jumped right into BDSM and into our relationship. I felt a connection the night we met but it wasn't until a few months later that the situation was right for us to get involved in a real relationship. Pretty much as soon as it was, though, we got together.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise?
No.

 

[KorAzor]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)? She posted a personal ad on an erotic role-play forum as a dare/joke. I answered it and piqued her curiosity enough to do the role-play even though she hadn't intended to. We started talking on the phone the next day which immediately let to a long-distance BDSM relationship. We met in person 3 months later, and married a year after that.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)? About 2 days.

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in? Dived right in.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise?No

 

[FurryFury]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)?

At a role playing game.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)?

22 years

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in?

Well we weren't actually together for ten years. I was married to someone else. When that ended we got together pretty fast but I didn't admit to myself my kink side for another 12 years.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise?

I'm going to go with yep.

 

[graceanne]

I was 15, and we met at his brothers house. I used to babysit for the man who is now my brother in law, and it was his twins first birthday.

We didn't start dating until three years later (K's nine years older than me. When I was 15 and he was 24 my step dad would have cut his dick off.) We dated a year before we were married. We were married awhile (years) before we got kinky. And we're taking it slow; mostly because of time, energy, and budget constraints.

 

[Primalex]

How did you first meet your kinky significant other(s)?

A housewarming party. I was a guest and she was a guest. I actually didn't want to go to the party, but I had a date in the area the next day, so I decided to invite myself as sleepover guest.

When you first met, how long did it take to dive into BDSM (or whatever you do)?

Hmm..some weeks.

Did you take baby steps or just jumped right in?

I would rate it as adult steps.

and did you meet as nillas, or in a nilla disguise?

It wasn't the housewarming party of a BDSM club, so..