Watersports stagefright??

[Shalrath]

...and how to overcome??

Young lady is quite up for it, but early experiences have indicated there might be a certain amount of stage fright (b2b with frustration, giggling, etc etc). Obviously this is somewhat suboptimal and needs to be improved upon (apart from her drinking until fluid is coming out of her pores).

So any tips on how to do so?? Abdominal pressure and tickling have been vetoed. Maybe there's some better positions where "going" is harder to avoid (this is in a shower/bath btw)?? Or general relaxation methods??

 

[PurpleTiara]

All I can suggest is practice, practice, practice.

 

[WriterDom]

I don't like to piss on demand but I have had to go so bad I pissed in the shower with a hard on. When you have to go, you have to go.

 

[Cattypuss]

I had major stage fright: even though I was bursting I couldn't go. But he was patient and spoke softly to me and gently stroked my pussy and thighs and tummy in a sort-of gently affectionate way and made me feel relaxed and "safe" and accepted..............and all this took a few minutes and then.........Lo! I got over my stage fright and pissed all over him lol.

He said it was incredibly sexy and intimate, watching me struggle to let go, and immensely gratifying for him when I did manage to let go. i.e. in a way my stage fright added to the sexiness and intimacy of it.

For me the key had been knowing he was happy to wait and was enjoying caressing me while he waited... took the mental pressure off me enough to allow me to relax and let go. If I'd felt the clock was ticking I probably would have never been able to let go.

This was him lying on his back in the bath and me standing with my feet either side of his head, as he wanted me to piss on his face and into his mouth.

I've only done it that once in my life - but I'd do it again. For him, anyway, because of how he was about it. His patience and acceptance of my struggle enabled me to open up.

 

[Hotch]

Run the faucet?

 

[RawHumor]

Baby steps. Start with peeing next to each other... relaxation, as Cattypuss suggested... you could even try playing with a little beer or wine to help loosen inhibitions a little. Plus, beer's good at getting that seal broken.

 

[HarlotMinx]

*snickers* A catheter might help..... *looks up with her best semi innocent face* Catheters are the solution to every known problem..... well except urinary tract infections. The don't help that problem much.

 

[Etoile]

I had major stage fright: even though I was bursting I couldn't go. But he was patient and spoke softly to me and gently stroked my pussy and thighs and tummy in a sort-of gently affectionate way and made me feel relaxed and "safe" and accepted..............and all this took a few minutes and then.........Lo! I got over my stage fright and pissed all over him lol.

He said it was incredibly sexy and intimate, watching me struggle to let go, and immensely gratifying for him when I did manage to let go. i.e. in a way my stage fright added to the sexiness and intimacy of it.

For me the key had been knowing he was happy to wait and was enjoying caressing me while he waited... took the mental pressure off me enough to allow me to relax and let go. If I'd felt the clock was ticking I probably would have never been able to let go.

Oh my GOD I could have written the above. That's exactly how it was before I was trained to pee in a cup. That relationship is long over but I could probably still do it today. It took weeks of exactly what you describe before I was ever able to do it, and for a long time I had to do it in hiding without C. looking (but could hear), but eventually we worked up to where I could do it any time.

Those were the days...that's the part of the relationship I miss. The nasty, ugly thing it turned into for a few years of festering, I don't miss.

 

[Shalrath]

All I can suggest is practice, practice, practice.

That's a jolly good plan. I'm definitely up for that . Same goes for making sure she's really bursting (better flow + better taste with that anyway).

Running the faucett - we had the shower running, yeah.

I had major stage fright: even though I was bursting I couldn't go. But he was patient and spoke softly to me and gently stroked my pussy and thighs and tummy in a sort-of gently affectionate way and made me feel relaxed and "safe" and accepted..............and all this took a few minutes and then.........Lo! I got over my stage fright and pissed all over him lol.

For me the key had been knowing he was happy to wait and was enjoying caressing me while he waited... took the mental pressure off me enough to allow me to relax and let go. If I'd felt the clock was ticking I probably would have never been able to let go.

Thank you, very useful, I get that and will try it. Affection + lack of pressure. I think the young lady was more impatient than I was, but it should still help.

Baby steps. Start with peeing next to each other... relaxation, as Cattypuss suggested... you could even try playing with a little beer or wine to help loosen inhibitions a little. Plus, beer's good at getting that seal broken.

Thank you too, peeing next to each other etc, good idea. It's gone from me shooing her out of the bathroom when she's on the loo, to me being able to give her a kiss when she's going, so I can see the potential progress. Beer....wine or whisky is more likely .

 

[Homburg]

SO I read a blog piece on watersports that interested me. Pissplay is not my idea of a funtime usually, but this particular post put it in a context that I could maybe dig. I mentioned it to MIS, who likewise is not interested in pissplay, and it got her thinking too. So I gave it a shot. Or, well, tried. Wow, no proud stream of urine. *sigh*

I get that stage fright thing too. If I'm in a public restroom, it take like 30 seconds of internal struggle to free the stream as it were, worse if there's someone breaking the rules of public men's room etiquette and standing next to me. Ugh.

Anyway, I realised that the shower presented a lot of distractions, even while being the only possible place to do it (not interested in cleaning piss of the floor, or having one of my girls do it either. So I just started practicing, trying different ways of standing, and, most effectively, closing my eyes and visualising it while I pissed. It worked too. Well, so far.

 

[Shalrath]

I get that stage fright thing too. If I'm in a public restroom, it take like 30 seconds of internal struggle to free the stream as it were, worse if there's someone breaking the rules of public men's room etiquette and standing next to me. Ugh.

I get that sometimes!! Weird cos I'm not that shy, I just find it distracting sometimes. Don't have the same problem in front of a partner (and as far as watersports go I've found a way of, errr, rubbing my dome that ensures I can always piss, even with a full erection

When you talk about visualising, what are you visualising, BTW??

 

[BrightLight]

I think what Cattypuss has said is pretty much spot on, a very helpful post.

 

[Shalrath]

I think what Cattypuss has said is pretty much spot on, a very helpful post.

Useful to know

 

[skirt_chaser]

With time and the you more you have golden showers with your partner, the easier it gets. It was difficult pissing on my girlfriend for the very first time -- and she felt awkard about peeing on me too. But the more we enjoyed our golden showers, the more natural and easier it became. The more we enjoyed pissing on each other.

Of course after having two or three mugs of coffee, then I had a lot of yellow pee to shower all over my girlfriend's naked body. Just takes time and some practice.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I had major stage fright: even though I was bursting I couldn't go. But he was patient and spoke softly to me and gently stroked my pussy and thighs and tummy in a sort-of gently affectionate way and made me feel relaxed and "safe" and accepted..............and all this took a few minutes and then.........Lo! I got over my stage fright and pissed all over him lol.

He said it was incredibly sexy and intimate, watching me struggle to let go, and immensely gratifying for him when I did manage to let go. i.e. in a way my stage fright added to the sexiness and intimacy of it.

For me the key had been knowing he was happy to wait and was enjoying caressing me while he waited... took the mental pressure off me enough to allow me to relax and let go. If I'd felt the clock was ticking I probably would have never been able to let go.

This was him lying on his back in the bath and me standing with my feet either side of his head, as he wanted me to piss on his face and into his mouth.

I've only done it that once in my life - but I'd do it again. For him, anyway, because of how he was about it. His patience and acceptance of my struggle enabled me to open up.

Yep, relaxation is definitely the key.

I know for me, that the harder I try, although I feel like I'm actively pushing, the more the muscles seem to tense up and hold on.

 

[anne30]

In the beginning was very humiliating for me but yes I agree that time and practice makes pee play a very exciting activity.

 

[Shalrath]

Cool. The young lady doesn't seem that interested at the moment, prefering to try other things (see "strap on" thread for starters). But will post progress when there is any.