Porn as a Spark

[KinkyKiki7]

Master has always been into watching porn and has slowly over time gotten me into enjoying it. We both have our favorite categories that we like to watch. Lately we have been watching it to get new ideas or to critique the S/M relationships and actions. We have also used porn to get us in "the mood." It's been working but I was wondering if anyone else used it this way and what your thoughts are on it. Thanks for posting!
~Kiki

 

[Homburg]

Not so much porn, but I do peruse Japanese woodcuts and photos from certain producers for good ideas on ties.

 

[KinkyKiki7]

Thanks for responding. I also found that coming on here and checking out the stories for new things to try was a good idea too.

 

[HarlotMinx]

I guess I use porn as a spark, though mostly written porn. It's amazing how creative people can be when they aren't trying to cater to anyone. Other than that, a lot of our sparks come from the grocery store of all places.

 

[wouldloveto]

Mostly we use written erotica (Thanks for all the good stuff on this site!), and artful pics from the net. Just lately she has expressed an interest in videos. That started with some cbt tutorials from Men in Pain, but she now wants more 'porn'. It has not been easy to find the right stuff for her tastes, most of the MIP vids are a bit to extreme for her (even though she relishes in meting out the same punishment at times), and the mainstream porn much too contrived and... well, bad.

I would love to find more sensual and well made femme domme videos.

 

[wayfarm]

I'll post this ? here and in the chat section.

Do any of you have any recommended places to get porn online?

Ms. and I just lost our favorite toy shop (ooh the economy) and would rather buy online then go into a shop.

 

[culloden]

Porn is part of the ritual of hotel sex.

 

[KinkyKiki7]

I have been reading some of the stories on here too lately, and I agree with both Harlot Minx, and Wouldloveto that it is amazing how well that can spark something when it's not trying to please anyone's specific needs. The details in the story can create such an electric envrionment. I'll have to read more stories more often...

 

[KinkyKiki7]

Culloden,
I haven't tried that before (porn and hotel sex)...but is something worth considering in the future- thanks!

 

[man_4_milf]

Given the choice bewteen hot porn on DVD or reading stories at Lit, I'll take the stories os sometimes the theads.

 

[culloden]

Culloden,
I haven't tried that before (porn and hotel sex)...but is something worth considering in the future- thanks!

Porn can definitely lengthen the session. And it's not that often when we get out without the kids, so a lengthy session is a good thing.

 

[satindesire]

Two Words:

Hobby.



Lobby.







You're welcome.

 

[Homburg]

Two Words:

Hobby.



Lobby.







You're welcome.

Hobby Lobby has porn? Man, now I really hope one moves in, if only for the novelty of a hobby store that sells porn.

You Oklahomans have all the cool hobby stores

 

[ihavehope444]

I can honestly say that as my tastes become more specific in my sexual encounters, and of course very un-vanilla, porn has become far less interesting. The stories on Lit are categorized really well and I can usually find exactly what makes me hot.

So, for me porn is only rarely a turn on anymore.

 

[Dreamliner]

Porn is a great addition to sexual pleasure with a partner. I like watching different gener's with a partner and incorporating into our play. For those interested in a downlaod site you might like to check out this:

http://http://www.7theaven.info/smf/index.php


There are many different types posted and a great source for your kink.

 

[satindesire]

Hobby Lobby has porn? Man, now I really hope one moves in, if only for the novelty of a hobby store that sells porn.

You Oklahomans have all the cool hobby stores

It doesn't sell your typical videos/magazines/books for erotica, but that place is so jam packed with pervertibles I can't even drive by it without getting horny.

 

[Adakgirl]

I find mainstream porn repetitive and boring. Not that I need a good plot or good acting or anything...but like vanilla sex, vanilla porn just does not do much for me. Does not spark excitement in me. Some underground, taboo porn does though. If I watch porn at all I like amateur vid porn because it's real people and not actors or scripted. That can be interesting, arousing and funny sometimes. I do love to read and write erotica also.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

We don't sit and watch porn together but it has its uses occasionally. Master likes porn involving kinky threesomes and enjoys telling me what he'd get up to if we had another lady to play with. Sometimes he uses it to make me feel like part of the furniture, he'll have me suck his cock while he watches porn and that has a humiliation factor for me because I'm reduced to a kneeling masturbatory tool rather than a sexual partner. Sometimes I'm not even that, he'll jerk himself off and reduce me to a canvas or cumdump. This is sometimes a punishment thing because he wants me to know that I don't even deserve to suck him off. He also enjoys watching porn where girls deepthroat while telling me how fucking useless I am because it's something I still really struggle with.

 

[Shalrath]

Tried a bit with some kinky stuff the other night, didn't really work. I think we were both a bit tired and young lady was a bit distracted anyway, it got kinda boring. Pity as I think it can be pretty cool. I've had mixed experiences in the past, one ex has liked it, others have been mostly disinterested.

If there's a way to encourage non-viewers to appreciate it more (preferably without any softcore lovey-dovey shit), and hopefully get further corrupted from it, I'd be interested to hear....