Belegon
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Gizzmotick
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So now here I am, you can't stop touching me and it bothers me. I refuse to be your "other". You don't get to keep the sex, the affection from me and give your love to another. I'm done. You lose, and you lose big.
-Hugs- and
x12.You know where a shoulder to cry on is...
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You know where a shoulder to cry on is...
Another fantastic guy. Seriously, between Bel and Imp and you and Kat, you guys have restored my faith in relationships. And in some ways men as well.
back atcha.
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Why am I not surprised?
CeriseNoire
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So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
Chantilyvamp
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So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
I know this one... lists, first read about what you'll need to plan for the wedding and the make list of when and how you want to handle it. Oh and snag a friend who has been a bridesmaid or bride and make them helpfirst part of my list was dates and where and then the next bit was colours i liked and detested and colours he detested. we then went on to the dress, flowers, cake etc. If you don't know what type of dress you'd like just go grab some friends and drag them with you for a dress try on day out.
oggbashan
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So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
A male viewpoint:
Start with the important bits.
- It is about making a commitment, not about the showcase event. The event celebrates the commitment.
- Why are you doing this?
- What are you going to be doing afterwards for the next few years?
- What can you afford? It will cost more than you think it will.
- Will the cost damage your finances so severely that you'll be arguing about money almost immediately?
- Do what you want to do, not what your relations, friends, and neighbours expect you to do.
Last piece of advice: Ignore anything Og, or anyone else says, and do what you are comfortable with. It should be enjoyable and memorable, NOT an endurance test.
Og
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So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
Remember that you have to feel comfortable - this day is about you, so it should be a reflection of the two of you.
ie- when picking the dress find a style that reflects something you'd wear to a ball, but have it in white or ivory. Not everyone wants the big puffball dress and I don;t think it's very you, really. I see you in a 1930s bias cut style thing personally, but you should go with what makes you happy and suits you. Do you want lots of people there or just close family? Cos that affects whether you have a sit down dinner or a buffet/bbq type thing. Do you want it inside or outside? What time of day? Buy a couple of magazines and use them as a guide to things you like and things you definitely don't like. Then decide how much money you want to spend and what things are important to you and fiance...
And ask your friends who got married recently... and look at their wedding pics on facebook to see if you trust their advice
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Turn it over to a meddlesome busybody who will derive all sorts of satisfaction and personal validation from being helpful.So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
Or elope.
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-chuckles softly- Coulda told you that a while ago. Sometimes I get asked why I'm single...the honest answer...I grew tired of the bullshit that so many want to put others through
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So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
What will make you happy? Seriously...some people have big weddings to satisfy only relatives, or friends, or co-workers. But if thats what you want, a big wedding, then have it. If you'd prefer a small gathering, then do that. Its your day, not your moms day, not your mother in laws day, not your sisters, or your cousins, or your best friends, YOUR DAY. Do it as you would like. Though, I'd go along with what Chant says, and first figure out the date you'd like, then what area you'd like it in. After all, doubt you'd want to save that for last and find out you're gonna get married in Wisconsin on Valentines Day
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TheeGoatPig
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So, when you're not the kind of woman who's planned the whole thing since age 6, where do you even begin?
Throw a big dinner party, and have the ceremony between dinner and dessert.
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I need a new AV.
TheeGoatPig
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I need a new AV.
That should be a happy smilie, because you are going to put up a fun and fresh av that will impress everyone
Chantilyvamp
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I think I need to go get massages more often...just yummmmmmmmmm. I smell slightly citrus/sandalwood and I'm so relaxed i could sleep the rest of the afternoon! 
tickledkitty
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That should be a happy smilie, because you are going to put up a fun and fresh av that will impress everyone
Well, aren't you Mr. Positive today?
That's the problem. I don't have anything fun and fresh.
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Safe_Bet
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I need a new AV.
Use the same pose, just focus the camera down a foot or so lower!
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Safe_Bet
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JagFarlane
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Use the same pose, just focus the camera down a foot or so lower!
lol honestly awaiting the day you put up an AV like that
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Today is better.
TheeGoatPig
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Well, aren't you Mr. Positive today?
That's the problem. I don't have anything fun and fresh.
For a limited time only! Get it while it's hot!
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I will not try to explain shit to morons.
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I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
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I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
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I will not try to explain shit to morons.
I will not try to explain shit to morons.
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