From Bi to Gay / Lesbian?

[hotncmom]

So I've been bi most of my life. My relationships have always been wiith men but I have always been attracted to women and have had several encounters with other women.

Now that I have been divorced for 7 years, I find guys fine to fuck but don't really care to commit to relationship.

However, I am more drawn to women now and though I have had sexual encounters with women, I have never dated one. I did fall in love with one once.

So have you ever started as bi only to discover that you are really gay or lesbian?

Kisses,
Hotncmom

 

[Shywong]

I find stories about how someone goes from be straight to bi / gay / lesbian much more interesting. Especially if it involves rape.. Yeah that probably makes me sound pretty sick but rape fantasies are very common. And I so happen to find forced homosexuality very hot. I've been straight most of my life, but curiosity got the best of me over time. Some people call what I am straight, others call it bi, personally I don't care either way. I like anyone who is feminine enough regardless of whats between their legs.

 

[Calit69]

I find stories about how someone goes from be straight to bi / gay / lesbian much more interesting. Especially if it involves rape.. Yeah that probably makes me sound pretty sick but rape fantasies are very common. And I so happen to find forced homosexuality very hot. I've been straight most of my life, but curiosity got the best of me over time. Some people call what I am straight, others call it bi, personally I don't care either way. I like anyone who is feminine enough regardless of whats between their legs.

My sentiments entirely anything feminine in looks and behaviour is a turn on. Dont like hair, all shaven which adds to the femininty.

 

[playwithlezli]

So I've been bi most of my life. My relationships have always been wiith men but I have always been attracted to women and have had several encounters with other women.

Now that I have been divorced for 7 years, I find guys fine to fuck but don't really care to commit to relationship.

However, I am more drawn to women now and though I have had sexual encounters with women, I have never dated one. I did fall in love with one once.

So have you ever started as bi only to discover that you are really gay or lesbian?

Kisses,
Hotncmom

I was always attracted to both in my early years, but preferred women. Oddly enough though, I found myself in relationships with men. Now that I have had a relationship with a woman and have all sorts of queer friends I definitely prefer woman as sexual and relational partners. I can't imagine it changing, but everyone's path is different. Go with your heart, see what happens!

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

So have you ever started as bi only to discover that you are really gay or lesbian?

I have, kind of - it certainly strikes a chord. To cut a long story short, I was originally straight - or at least lived that way - and then bisexual, but in recent times, and due greatly to my present relationship with my partner, I now see things, and myself, differently. Increasingly, it feels most natural and authentic for me to say that I'm a lesbian.

 

[emap]

Rarely is a person just one area of the sexual spectrum their entire life.

What your going through is rather normal, though I'm betting it was not exactly a nice divorce.