Are you responsive to PMs?

lemmesee

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I guess this is what I mean....do you acknowledge and/or respond to PMs?
 
I try to .... :(
But I must admit that if you're in my area I'm more than 70% more likely to haha. But that's just me ... :cattail:
 
yes i open, read and respond to all them.
 
I respond to as many PMs as I can but I can't respond to them all. I always try and answer ones from people I 'know' but from people with no posts and that I have no clue who they are I sometimes don't...particularly if they are offering /asking for cyber/sex/private pics. I am far more likely to engage in PM chats with someone that has got to know me through my threads or the boards first :rose:
 
I agree ERF. I used to try to answer them all, but if someone PMs while including a bit of a lie about their age/married state (after having scanned my prof & not realizing I'm literate), with a seemingly condescending message or a slightly lazy message (expecting me to do all the work) then I'm less inclined to respond. If someone's honest about their state or why their PMing, I'm more inclined to get back to them.
 
I respond to as many PMs as I can but I can't respond to them all. I always try and answer ones from people I 'know' but from people with no posts and that I have no clue who they are I sometimes don't...particularly if they are offering /asking for cyber/sex/private pics. I am far more likely to engage in PM chats with someone that has got to know me through my threads or the boards first :rose:

Well put, :) I completely agree.......its hard but if you haven't engaged with me in the thread, I really have a hard time responding to requests etc. But of course it depends on the PM!
 
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i respond to almost allof them. butthere are a few guys who creep me the fuck out on here.
 
Generally I respond to ones that I find interesting. I like to answer all of them, but honestly I forget sometimes.
 
I always respond to them...even though I'm sure guys don't have to battle the volume of pms like the women do.
I pm people when there seems to be something interesting about them that catches my eye and look at their posts to see what they are about....

And I always try to repect their profile info...
 
From people I "know" I always respond. Otherwise it's probably about 50/50.

Try not to be boring, creepy, or repetitive of everyone else and you have a good chance of hearing from me.*

If you send me a PM asking me how not to be "boring, creepy, or repetitive" you ain't gonna here from me.

FYI, I just got the following about 5 minutes ago and it's an excellent example of what not to do:

can we chat on yahoo messnegr or im
my yahoo id is [redacted]
can i taste, eat u and drink juice from ur love hole
please reply me

[name redacted]
 
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I do my very best to respond to PMs. Sometimes though it takes a bit to respond because I am trying to think of the correct way to word something. I don't ignore anyone, although I am pretty sure I have never had a PM just asking for cyber or private pics. :D
 
From people I "know" I always respond. Otherwise it's probably about 50/50.

Try not to be boring, creepy, or repetitive of everyone else and you have a good chance of hearing from me.*

If you send me a PM asking me how not to be "boring, creepy, or repetitive" you ain't gonna here from me.

FYI, I just got the following about 5 minutes ago and it's an excellent example of what not to do:

Hear hear!!!!
 
99% of the time yes, the only time I don't is those who just say "when can we meet" "what's your chat ID"
 
I always do. It just seems rude for me not to. If someone takes the time to write to me then I respond. Now if it's just I want to fuck you... I'll normally say "thanks" and leave it at that. ;) . But most of the PM's I get are so sweet and nice.
 
I respond to those that ask a good question or provide a good subjict and look like they have a future.
 
I respond to sensible questions to the best of my ability - the 'i wanna f*ck u babe' ones which seem to be all to common mostly get ignored or if they irritate me enough they get told where to go in no uncertain terms :rolleyes:
 
I'm new, and have yet to receive any.
bit I'm sure if I did, I would respond.

Your pms are turned off. Click on the "User CP" link on the upper left, then click on Edit Options, and towards the bottom you will see a check box for "Enable Private Messages" :)
 
From people I "know" I always respond. Otherwise it's probably about 50/50.

Try not to be boring, creepy, or repetitive of everyone else and you have a good chance of hearing from me.*

If you send me a PM asking me how not to be "boring, creepy, or repetitive" you ain't gonna here from me.

FYI, I just got the following about 5 minutes ago and it's an excellent example of what not to do:

Hehe, that was a pretty hot one, I wonder why you were not interested. (j/k)
 
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