Question for the ladies who like bi men

[dashd]

Have any of you been the prime influence in your male S.O. having thier first bi experience. Let's here your story and where have you been all my life?

 

[michaelinteas]

Adding a bump.

I too would love to hear what the women have to say.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I think it would be hot to hear about this as well.

 

[cum4all]

I have been fantasizing about sucking cock for a long time now, but nothing has come of it. Now I'm thinking a MFM threesome would be a good way to get initiated.

I'm so glad there are women out there who get off on seeing two men together. If I knew a woman was getting aroused by me sucking a cock, I think it would remove a lot of my anxiety. I would really like to talk to some of these ladies. It would be really cool to hear some words of encouragement. Hopefully we could get each other horny too.

 

[sunandshadow]

Interesting - I would have thought it would be more intimidating to try something new with an audience than without anyone watching; also, of guys willing to suck cocks probably at least half of them would prefer no women be involved. I'd like to watch that sort of thing but I don't have an S.O. and I'd be total fail at helping set up anything like that. Also I would be thinking, isn't it my turn next?

 

[infinity706]

Well, if there is a woman involved, I guess it makes them feel somewhat more straight?

 

[Starra]

I was most significant in my husband's first experience with a man. He began to develop an attraction to my first girlfriend's boyfriend and though he had always identified as straight, he realised that he might not quite be so heterosexual as he once thought!

I told my girlfriend, who - in turn - told her boyfriend. Before long, he also acknowledged an attraction to men, that being my husband. So, my girlfriend and i set about in getting the two of them together. I was also paramount in his first sexual experience with this man, as i wound up in the bed with them...though i really tried to stay in the background.

With the benefit of hindsight, i would not have been involved in either his first sexual experience with a man, or in getting them together in the first place. I feel now that it was a bit "too much too soon" for him. My girlfriend and i pushed them when neither was really ready. They both needed some time to get used to their new development before being set up as a couple. Plus, my husband ended up having his first same gender encounter with a man who turned out to be totally wrong for him! Simply put, i kinda messed up.

Looking back, i can see the mistake i made and if i could change it, i would. But i also know that i had the best of intentions, even though i was totally aroused at the idea myself!

Personally, i agree with sunandshadow, that it could be more intimidating to have an audience, of any kind, when a person engages in something so utterly new to them. I also completely disagree that having a woman there should make a man feel "more straight". Ultimately, the sexual act with a man makes them not straight at that point anyway (assuming they enjoy the experience) thus it wouldn't matter what gender was involved in the event at all.

 

[muffdriver]

sucking cock

I remember the first time the wife watched me suck a cock .. I had gone out on my own ( without her knowledge ) a few times to see if I liked it .. we spent several times with a single guy . I realy enjoyed watching her with him .. he was straight , and said if I wanted to suck him it was ok ... in fact he was also seeing another couple and both he and the wife loved to watch her hubby suck him .. well while watching them 69 each other , her on top , I leaned in closer to the wife .. she removed his cock and wanted to kiss me , but instead I put his cock into my mouth .. she was shocked but later on the way home told me she got sooo horny when I did that .. on another occasion with the same guy , she was enjoying him I moved in and sucked him to completion , she was upset .. that was 30 years ago , and I still miss it .......

 

[cockteaser22]

i dont know why but i abso love to be involved with two guys it gets me off seing a guy suck another cocks cock exspecially if they are in pink lacey panties it just makes me quiver and when i dated my ex who was bi we had three somes with his bf all the time i find it more exoctic because it is open to anything

 

[lindahotstuff]

Our first threesome, many years ago now, came after hubby and I were fantasing whilst lovemaking about a third person in bed with us. We talked about turning this fantasy into reality for some time and agreed we wanted to try it. Like most men, hubby wanted a woman to join us. However I said that if he wanted a 3sum it had to be with another guy. After a search we ended up with an attractive and well hung young guy who joined us in an mfm 3sum which I thoroughly enjoyed, but I noticed that hubby was quite into holding this guys cock and balls during our foreplay. After this guy shot his load inside me, hubby went down on him and sucked him, which i found quite erotic. It was our first bi experience as a couple. In our further mfm 3sums we got heavily into oral and mutual masturbation. Hubby doesnt want to receive anal but he has given a willing guy anal with a condom. We only do this as a couple, he would never go off on his own with a guy. We subsequently experimented with fmf 3sums, loved them too, and then moved on to 4sums and moresomes. When we are with other couples there will usually, but not always be some bi action between the guys and we women.

 

[janeyl]

With my ex-we had several 3 somes with the idea of it being his first bi experperience but he never quite felt ready for his first steps-I was never able to work out if that was because he was very submissive and wanted me to "force" him into action.

However when we had split up, I agreed to facilitate a meet with a guy from a swingers site who did turn out to be his first male sexual partner. I was very clear that I was not playing and he totally respected my boundaries with that. My ex liked to dress and I helped him to put on his pvc dress, stockings and thigh length boots and he was masked and cuffed lying on my bed when the guy arrived. I initially stayed downstairs while the business began but curiosity got the better of me and I really wanted to see if he would actually go through with it this time. It was hot to see and help him-I held him open while he took his first cock.

And I really gained the benefit because the guy who came to fuck him is now my long term partner and I couldn't be happier

 

[SophieUK]

With my ex-we had several 3 somes with the idea of it being his first bi experperience but he never quite felt ready for his first steps-I was never able to work out if that was because he was very submissive and wanted me to "force" him into action.

However when we had split up, I agreed to facilitate a meet with a guy from a swingers site who did turn out to be his first male sexual partner. I was very clear that I was not playing and he totally respected my boundaries with that. My ex liked to dress and I helped him to put on his pvc dress, stockings and thigh length boots and he was masked and cuffed lying on my bed when the guy arrived. I initially stayed downstairs while the business began but curiosity got the better of me and I really wanted to see if he would actually go through with it this time. It was hot to see and help him-I held him open while he took his first cock.

And I really gained the benefit because the guy who came to fuck him is now my long term partner and I couldn't be happier

wow, Janey.. you held him open?