Submissive female seeking strong Male

[juene]

Hi, I'm new to this and so please be nice.

I'm 28 years old, 5'7, 140 lbs. My measurements are 38E, 29, 39. I have long blonde hair, blue eyes. I have no tatoos or piercings, and look like the girl next door. I know how to behave properly in public, but have a real desire to be treated like a cumslut in private. I am intelligent, athletic and funny. I am looking for a dominant man to email and chat with, possibly leading to a real relationship.

I have been married before to a guy that turned out to be a total wimp so I'm not looking for that. My needs/fantasies are to be in a relationship with a man that can treat me like a lady, but will keep me in line when needed. An old fashioned guy.

An older man would be okay, because I am looking for someone that knows his way around. But to be completely honest, I may want children at some point in the future, so not too old. I have an eventual desire to be bred by my Master, and give him all the respect he deserves as head of the house. I would love to serve him in every way he desires.

I have a fantasy of being on my knees sucking my man's cock while he spanks me with his belt. I have another of being spanked in front of his friends. I am desiring the type of relationship where I will be kept in my place at all times, but in love, not idiotic cruelty, if that makes sense. In a long term relationship I desire to be faithful, but understand that my man may desire to use other women for his pleasure, and I accept that.

PM if you are interested.

 

[hotpup]

Welcome

Hi, I'm new to this and so please be nice.

I'm 28 years old, 5'7, 140 lbs. My measurements are 38E, 29, 39. I have long blonde hair, blue eyes. I have no tatoos or piercings, and look like the girl next door. I know how to behave properly in public, but have a real desire to be treated like a cumslut in private. I am intelligent, athletic and funny. I am looking for a dominant man to email and chat with, possibly leading to a real relationship.

I have been married before to a guy that turned out to be a total wimp so I'm not looking for that. My needs/fantasies are to be in a relationship with a man that can treat me like a lady, but will keep me in line when needed. An old fashioned guy.

An older man would be okay, because I am looking for someone that knows his way around. But to be completely honest, I may want children at some point in the future, so not too old. I have an eventual desire to be bred by my Master, and give him all the respect he deserves as head of the house. I would love to serve him in every way he desires.

I have a fantasy of being on my knees sucking my man's cock while he spanks me with his belt. I have another of being spanked in front of his friends. I am desiring the type of relationship where I will be kept in my place at all times, but in love, not idiotic cruelty, if that makes sense. In a long term relationship I desire to be faithful, but understand that my man may desire to use other women for his pleasure, and I accept that.

PM if you are interested.

Welcome to lit and good luck in your searchs

 

[sweetDDs]

aww

i wish you were bi/les...shame

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

Hi, I'm new to this and so please be nice.

I'm 28 years old, 5'7, 140 lbs. My measurements are 38E, 29, 39. I have long blonde hair, blue eyes. I have no tatoos or piercings, and look like the girl next door. I know how to behave properly in public, but have a real desire to be treated like a cumslut in private. I am intelligent, athletic and funny. I am looking for a dominant man to email and chat with, possibly leading to a real relationship.

I have been married before to a guy that turned out to be a total wimp so I'm not looking for that. My needs/fantasies are to be in a relationship with a man that can treat me like a lady, but will keep me in line when needed. An old fashioned guy.

An older man would be okay, because I am looking for someone that knows his way around. But to be completely honest, I may want children at some point in the future, so not too old. I have an eventual desire to be bred by my Master, and give him all the respect he deserves as head of the house. I would love to serve him in every way he desires.

I have a fantasy of being on my knees sucking my man's cock while he spanks me with his belt. I have another of being spanked in front of his friends. I am desiring the type of relationship where I will be kept in my place at all times, but in love, not idiotic cruelty, if that makes sense. In a long term relationship I desire to be faithful, but understand that my man may desire to use other women for his pleasure, and I accept that.

PM if you are interested.

hi there good luck with your search. if you are looking for something in real life (which i am guessing by your desire to have kids) it may help to say where you are from. even if it's just australia, usa, uk, etc

 

[juene]

Oh, good idea.

Texas.

No, not bi/les, sorry. But thanks for the welcome and all.

 

[KinkyBoyUK]

Oh, good idea.

Texas.

No, not bi/les, sorry. But thanks for the welcome and all.

damn that me out being english! some lucky guy will be out there for you though

 

[captain123]

Dom

Sent you a personal message.

 

[austin_dude63]

i'm an older dominant man from Texas that would be happy to service your needs.

 

[juene]

Y'all are really very nice...

I have gotten so many nice replies to my personal ad. I was a little apprehensive about posting something like this, but figured if I am smart and use good common sense about meeting people I meet on line I'll be okay. I mean, heck, the universe is a dangerous place so we just have to be smarter than the machinery we operate, right? Okay, now I'm just thinking out loud. Or on line. Whatever. But anyway: Thank you all so much.

Just a quick note to thank everyone for being so kind, and in some cases, funny and sweet.

I work two jobs right now, both full time, so I keep pretty busy--but I will be answering everyone as soon as my work schedule allows--within a day or two. I HOPE.

In the meanwhile...GO STEELERS Tonight's game is the real Superbowl. (Sorry Eagles and Cardinals fans. But you know it's true. )

 

[Contrectation]

Texas is your home - do I understand this correctly? An interesting possibility probably best depicted in the movie "Rookie" about a high school baseball coach who, through chance and circumstance, lives (for a couple of years) his dream of pitching in the major leagues. But, what is more important to this message is that his wife described herself as a "Texas girl" whereat she conveyed the understanding that she could weather any hardship. Reminds me of Robert Duval's movie in which he stated that there is nothing comparable to the qualities of a "Rancher's Wife". I doubt that either are entirely accurate and certainly I KNOW that such women exist at all times and in all place. Rare though they may be - settling for less than one such as they are is, in my view, pure folly. Would a "strong man" accept anything less?

 

[juene]

Texas Women

Yes, I live in Texas and have for guite some time, but I was raised in California. As you said, strength and resilence know no geographic bounds, but I understand very well what you are saying.

And, yeah, why would a truly strong man settle for anything less as a partner? We are, after all, only as strong as our weakest link.

An aside, apropos to perhaps nothing, really...except your comment about strength was one I absolutely agree with. It brings up an interesting dynamic of the D/s thing that I have observed; to some, "dominant" and "domineering" are interchangeable. They are not. I know everyone says they get that, but honestly? No, a lot are not getting that. I am a strong, physically, emotionally, mentally--so why would I settle for a man that is less strong than I am? That would be stupid, and I am not stupid. I am looking for someone I would follow to the ends of the earth, if need be, not someone that might get lost finding his own ass with both hands. Strong men are not intimidated by strong women, is all I am saying.

 

[juene]

In an attempt to save everyone time...

I don't do polyamorous. I am waaayyyyy too alpha in my own right to ever even consider going there. Besides which I am a bit of the prima donna, and could never play back up quarterback. Serve another woman? Even at my Man's direction? On a long term relationship basis? I think not.

Sigh.

I hate, HATE that I have to even post this, but: I know this is hard for some folks to wrap their heads around, but I have very healthy self-esteem. I like myself a lot. I am not in this because I suffer from some pathetic need to be abused to feel whole. I'm whole. I don't hate myself and so think I "deserve" to be beaten or abused. The kind of discipline I would receive would never rise to that level, and if a Dominant doesn't get that, he's not dominant, he's a mere poseur. I'm kinky, okay? I accept that what rocks my world is not for everyone, and that's okay--lots of people couldn't handle it, so to each their own. But I'm not mentally ill, I'm just a highly selective, monogomous... slut. In an angelic kinda way.

The part about having my Man's babies? I meant that--- so everything has to be considered in the context of raising children in a physically and psychologically healthy home. I believe the healthiest homes are ones wherein everyone knows and accepts their position. Mine is at my Man's feet, serving him, being obedient to him, nurturing his children, helping to raise children he can be proud of, and his is at the head of his household. This isn't about role-playing. I'm not interested in acting in some scene. I am who I am, an alpha submissive, and I am looking for a genuinely Alpha Dominant.

Also, I previously posted I would answer everyone. I should have qualified that by saying that all serious messages would be answered. If you just write some idiocy at me, calling me names, etc., well... please. Get some help, okay? It's not really upsetting to me, but it is kinda sad. Worrisome.

Take care.

 

[Enji]

lol..I never got a reply...was My pm that bad? oy..
all I asked was to get to know you

but good luck in your search don't lose your faith

I don't do polyamorous. I am waaayyyyy too alpha in my own right to ever even consider going there. Besides which I am a bit of the prima donna, and could never play back up quarterback. Serve another woman? Even at my Man's direction? On a long term relationship basis? I think not.

Sigh.

I hate, HATE that I have to even post this, but: I know this is hard for some folks to wrap their heads around, but I have very healthy self-esteem. I like myself a lot. I am not in this because I suffer from some pathetic need to be abused to feel whole. I'm whole. I don't hate myself and so think I "deserve" to be beaten or abused. The kind of discipline I would receive would never rise to that level, and if a Dominant doesn't get that, he's not dominant, he's a mere poseur. I'm kinky, okay? I accept that what rocks my world is not for everyone, and that's okay--lots of people couldn't handle it, so to each their own. But I'm not mentally ill, I'm just a highly selective, monogomous... slut. In an angelic kinda way.

The part about having my Man's babies? I meant that--- so everything has to be considered in the context of raising children in a physically and psychologically healthy home. I believe the healthiest homes are ones wherein everyone knows and accepts their position. Mine is at my Man's feet, serving him, being obedient to him, nurturing his children, helping to raise children he can be proud of, and his is at the head of his household. This isn't about role-playing. I'm not interested in acting in some scene. I am who I am, an alpha submissive, and I am looking for a genuinely Alpha Dominant.

Also, I previously posted I would answer everyone. I should have qualified that by saying that all serious messages would be answered. If you just write some idiocy at me, calling me names, etc., well... please. Get some help, okay? It's not really upsetting to me, but it is kinda sad. Worrisome.

Take care.

 

[juene]

Mea Culpa

I'm sorry...I'm trying...

Your message was nice, it's just difficult to get to everyone, and to be HONEST the messages where a man has really taken a lot of time to answer my ad get priority.

Not saying this applies to you, but when someone says something like "Hi, just want to get to know you! PM me!" I am not sure where to start. I have just told the entire cyber world a BUNCH personal stuff about myself in my ad, so why not return the favor by telling me something about yourself.

I don't want to (nor do I think I should even have to) do all the heavy lifting in correspondence. It makes me wary of what any eventual relationship might be like. Clues, gentlemen; I need clues. Hints. A trail to follow. Oui?

 

[juene]

Adieu!/Aloha!/Adios!

This turned out to be an eye-opening experience in so many ways, chief among them is the "WOW! and I thought *I* was kinky" feeling that I have experienced since finding this site.

I have realized that I am to the core sexually kinky, with a pretty vanilla exterior. I still believe the vanilla life has something to offer---like not allowing one's self to become so obsessed with the D/s of it all that a He/she/they become boring and one dimensional. I mean, there are still concerts and ball games and good books and a host of other interests and pleasures. I guess I am sorta the girl next door...if the girl next door wants to call her SO "Master" --because he is her Master, and wants sex served up with a helathy portion of pleasure/pain.

My Dominant Alpha Male will rule my world...but my world will encompass a lot more than just being a "filthy no good shit eating cum whore" as one person on here so <cough> eloquently wrote. (Gee, it's enough to give BDSM a bad name, ya know?)

What I am really wanting to do is post my thanks for all the email responses, particularly the 4 or 5 sincere ones out of the many I received, and to say that I have met someone I think is pretty special, and I need to concentrate on him.

Take care, ya'all!