Techniques in suckin a guy off
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ilike2try
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I really think men are naturals when it comes to sucking other men's cocks. I'm really surprised it's not considered the most natural thing in the world. Most people have that oral urge, and a hard cock is the ultimate oral gratification. Sucking one off is as natual as breathing. I'll wager there's hardly a man alive that hasn't thought at least once about doing it... and probably a lot more than once. How can a guy -- or a gal for that matter -- help it?
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I just started doing it recently and I have to say the first time I was insanely nervous leading up to it. But once I started I was completely relaxed and couldn't have enjoyed it more. Done it alot since and as far as technique goes, I just try to be a pleaser. Whether the guy likes to lay back and get a nice slow hummer or just wants to use my mouth and pump away - either way we're both getting what we want!
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I have yet to suck a cock through to completion so cannot comment on technique. I have, however, laid back and allowed a gent to do as he wished with my cock. He evenually brought me to a wonderful bareback orgasm which left me very thoroughly satisfied.
This was a first experience for me and I was thrilled to realize that my partner seemed to derive as much pleasure in performing as I did on the receiving end.
Later, I was a little disappointed that there had been no anal contact, but hopefully at another time.
This was a first experience for me and I was thrilled to realize that my partner seemed to derive as much pleasure in performing as I did on the receiving end.
Later, I was a little disappointed that there had been no anal contact, but hopefully at another time.
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I think if given a choice for the first time, I would prefer a smaller cock. You don't have to worry about gagging when you take it deeply and your mouth won't get tired (even cramped) from trying to open wide.
All that said, it think you have to imagine what would please you. Running your tongue and lips up and down the length is as sensual and erotic as actually sucking. I also suggest spending time at the head circling your tongue and lips around just the tip.
Avoid contact with your teeth. Sticking out my tongue slightly helps me open my mouth and let the cock slide deeply inside. Mmmmm...
All that said, it think you have to imagine what would please you. Running your tongue and lips up and down the length is as sensual and erotic as actually sucking. I also suggest spending time at the head circling your tongue and lips around just the tip.
Avoid contact with your teeth. Sticking out my tongue slightly helps me open my mouth and let the cock slide deeply inside. Mmmmm...
it comes natural. Once you wrap your lips around a hard cock you will just go wild.
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I remember the first guy I blew. It was both of our firsts. He was terrible at it, and I remember having to jerk myself off while he just kind of bobbed his head up and down. Then I went down on him, and it just naturally came to me (punny)... Apparently it was amazing for him 'cause he got off in about 3 minutes flat. He asked what the hell he could do to compare, and I just told him I thought about what I would want someone doing to me and just "went to town". From then on, he gave me some of the best head to date that I've ever gotten.
I suck then just the way my wife sucks me...she is very good....so I guess I am very good.
1. Just use your hand to hold it, let your mouth do the work.
2. Not too fast, not too slow, just a nice steady pace.
3. Forget the licking the shaft and all the other tricks, just suck it.
ted cincinnati
1. Just use your hand to hold it, let your mouth do the work.
2. Not too fast, not too slow, just a nice steady pace.
3. Forget the licking the shaft and all the other tricks, just suck it.
ted cincinnati
Ted sounds like you have the right idea, "just suck it"!!!!!!!
"just suck it" is good......the theatrical gimmicks in porn are for the viewer not the suckee...
i like to make eye contact when i have a cock in my mouth...work on the head with just my lips and take it deeper as time goes by until i can feel the cock plug my throat...there's a rhythm for breathing and the up and down movement
start slow and keep your teeth out of the way...i think of my mouth as a vagina with a tongue...smile...
i've had a few comments of "best blow job ever"
enjoy
i like to make eye contact when i have a cock in my mouth...work on the head with just my lips and take it deeper as time goes by until i can feel the cock plug my throat...there's a rhythm for breathing and the up and down movement
start slow and keep your teeth out of the way...i think of my mouth as a vagina with a tongue...smile...
i've had a few comments of "best blow job ever"
enjoy
pussy_liquor
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I'm still waiting to suck my first cock!
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Seems like you've taken care of quite a few guys. They - and you - are very lucky!
I always like the bigger ones. That feeling of having your mouth full and that big head rubbing across your tongue. The way your lips wrap around the head before it goes to the back of your tongue. If you want it and go for it with passion. And pound your lips down around it as you hold it, jerking it as you go trust me it will be good!
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LOVE what you're doing!! Do it the way you like it done to you. Personally, I love the feeling of my cock buried deep in my wife's throat, so naturally I love the sensation of a cock fucking my throat. Enthusiasm!!!! That's the key.
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Techniques: wow there are so many.
-Don't use teeth, unless he likes that
-hum, its fun for both of you. (or more like gutteral grunts)
-a wet finger rubbing the prostate is fun for both unless he doesn't like anything up his ass...but most guys do, it is just getting over that first time.
-pay a lot of attention to the glans, that area under the head.
-humming along the perineum between the balls and the anus can really get a guy going too
-deep throat is a talent, but not really necessary for the guy getting blown, takes practice and lack of a gag reflex. However every once in a while you meet a guy who can do things with his throat and just catch your head just right...hmmmm
-stroke/masterbate the base of his cock while you suck him.
-some guys like their balls played with and sucked, some don't
-whether he shoots in your mouth or not is up to you, but some guys get really sensitive after they cum, so try to limit movement around the head after he has cum.
-while 69 is fun and all, I prefer to focus my attention on his cock and not have him sucking me at the same time. take turns: that can be just as if not more fun.
-experiment with different positions. be creative, have fun, don't get too hung up on whether you are doing it right, ask, be verbal, most guys like to talk, I know I do, and I like my partners to tell me what they like too.
chris
-Don't use teeth, unless he likes that
-hum, its fun for both of you. (or more like gutteral grunts)
-a wet finger rubbing the prostate is fun for both unless he doesn't like anything up his ass...but most guys do, it is just getting over that first time.
-pay a lot of attention to the glans, that area under the head.
-humming along the perineum between the balls and the anus can really get a guy going too
-deep throat is a talent, but not really necessary for the guy getting blown, takes practice and lack of a gag reflex. However every once in a while you meet a guy who can do things with his throat and just catch your head just right...hmmmm
-stroke/masterbate the base of his cock while you suck him.
-some guys like their balls played with and sucked, some don't
-whether he shoots in your mouth or not is up to you, but some guys get really sensitive after they cum, so try to limit movement around the head after he has cum.
-while 69 is fun and all, I prefer to focus my attention on his cock and not have him sucking me at the same time. take turns: that can be just as if not more fun.
-experiment with different positions. be creative, have fun, don't get too hung up on whether you are doing it right, ask, be verbal, most guys like to talk, I know I do, and I like my partners to tell me what they like too.
chris
mmmmmmmmmmmm Man I need that!
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I wholeheartedly agree with ALMOST all of what you say, except that I was always taught not to talk with my mouth full and I find it impossible to talk with a cock in my throat
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ilike2try
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An excellent checklist of how to give head. Very sexy in its own right. Sucking manhood and swallowing sperm is so amazing.
iswallowloads
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Yeah, nice checklist! I agree on being verbal, asking in a sexy way (You like my lips on your big balls?) is definitely a big turn on for guys. And I love being 'instructed'!
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Hm...well, I know for me, it depends on how you lick. The most sensitive part of my head is right on the edge of the base. The best thing to do is to learn what your partner does and doesn't like, what turns him on the most, etc. That, of course, is most easily accomplished by experimentation (and sometimes by talking, as well).
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