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Some people don't like being powerless so they resort to these sorts of things to regain a false feeling of power or control. Like heavy breathing on the phone.
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I only saw this thread today. It seems as though the name of the "perpetrator" is sprinkled throughout the thread, but I'm thinking to myself, "Surely that can't be correct." I almost never understand Drown anyway, so I'm going to assume today is no different.
Anywho, drown, (and other Litsters)... the lesson to me is watch where you stick your dick.
I realize that around here we are all supposed to be able to fuck who and whatever we want willy nilly and that casual hookups are all fun and games. The reality is, people are human, feelings get developed. That's no excuse for a person to act like a stalker, but you have to admit that for most people there is a certain connection that happens after you've had sex.
Those who think I just fuck em and forget about em have to admit they still have a very real emotion reaction to accidentally running into a one night stand from the past. Even if that reaction is Hide! it's still a reaction.
I wish I could go around fucking lots of different people indiscriminately, but I can't. It's not the cool thing to say, but I'd become far too emotionally confused to pull that off. I never know when I'll become attached. (Actually that's not always true; I often can tell I might become attached to a person then I try to pull back. But I digress) Maybe the gal who is the subject of this thread can't handle it either, and isn't mature enough to channel her bad feelings into something other than constant messages & calls.
Anywho, drown, (and other Litsters)... the lesson to me is watch where you stick your dick.
I realize that around here we are all supposed to be able to fuck who and whatever we want willy nilly and that casual hookups are all fun and games. The reality is, people are human, feelings get developed. That's no excuse for a person to act like a stalker, but you have to admit that for most people there is a certain connection that happens after you've had sex.
Those who think I just fuck em and forget about em have to admit they still have a very real emotion reaction to accidentally running into a one night stand from the past. Even if that reaction is Hide! it's still a reaction.
I wish I could go around fucking lots of different people indiscriminately, but I can't. It's not the cool thing to say, but I'd become far too emotionally confused to pull that off. I never know when I'll become attached. (Actually that's not always true; I often can tell I might become attached to a person then I try to pull back. But I digress) Maybe the gal who is the subject of this thread can't handle it either, and isn't mature enough to channel her bad feelings into something other than constant messages & calls.
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I feel you. I have been told by women to be less emotional about fucking - I have two problems with that: 1) it is hard for me to do that and, 2) I think most of the time those women are lying anyway and they will get emotional after we fuck.
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Frankly I don't even try to go there. every now and then, once a year perhaps, I'll meet someone I know could easily fall head over heels for, and I'll know most likely nothing will come of it. Fucking that person is the last thing I should do. No thanks. I'll get emotionaly attached and I know it.
I can't just get down for the get-down sake, so I don't do it at all. I'd never become a crazy stalker once spurned, but I would turn it inward and quietly brood and be miserable for months. What I can do to myself is far more destructive than anything I can do to someone else.
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Drown, you can easily turn your PMs off, change your phone number, yannow?
Hell, I moved to a different STATE to get away from my ex. Sometimes you have to do drastic stuff.
Hell, I moved to a different STATE to get away from my ex. Sometimes you have to do drastic stuff.
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Good point. So what ever happened with this, drown?
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that you ask here
rather than in pm,
presumes...
the thread
is worth a read-through.
rather than in pm,
presumes...
the thread
is worth a read-through.
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I never inquire in a pm details of a public thread, nor do I inquire in a public thread the details of a pm.
My main curiosity? Not so much the outcome, to be honest. Actually I wonder what your conversation with this gal was when you met her. After you went out drinking and shooting the shit, and determined you didn't have chemistry with her... but before you fucked her.
drown
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it's not untoward,
is it?
to have no trust in
the 'innocence' of
your curiosity?
is it?
to have no trust in
the 'innocence' of
your curiosity?
LadyFunkenstein
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When did I say my curiosity was "innocent"?
You can ignore the question if you like; that's your prerogative. But if you don't want to be asked questions, don't make a thread displaying your personal business.
Welcome to the GB, enjoy your stay.
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no.
you never proclaimed innocence;
and i
have ignored the question
whilst
questioning you.
for those scoring at home,
funk is not the sick fuck
LadyFunkenstein
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Who care who it is. My curiosity is to learn what sort of man you are.
You say you met hung out and had some drinks. You say there was no chemistry and thus no promise of further contact. Did you tell her this before or after you fucked her? Pity fuck... oh please. If your dick got hard you felt more than pity.
Did you say to her something along the lines of, "Look I've had a good time tonight. I don't feel any chemistry or anything like that with you so there isn't going to be a future. But, if you want to come back to my place anyway I'm sure we'll both have a good time. Are you game?" Or did you fuck her first, then tell her you weren't interested the next day?
Not to say she's got a right to be acting like a stalker or general pain-in-the-ass two years later, but up front honesty goes a long way.
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Was just thinking that.
For so long I thought this thread had something to do with poetic verses in drown language and not some undisclosed sick fuck.
Will wonders never cease.
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Is all that use of bad bold rounded font necessary?
HB1965
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Yeah it is. It's a drown post
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...and Drown can post however the fuck Drown wishes to...?
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Exactly
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