Cyber romance possible

bearcan

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Is cyber romance, love an sex (and I really separate those words from each other) possible between two people that never met and will probably never do ?
Had anyone ever experience this ?
Is it really possible to virtually "fall" in love with someone ?
 
Is cyber romance, love an sex (and I really separate those words from each other) possible between two people that never met and will probably never do ?
Had anyone ever experience this ?
Is it really possible to virtually "fall" in love with someone ?

i'd say yes to an extent but it's not lasting.
 
Well, it's happening to me right now. I fell hard for a man I've met here. Almost screwed it up and did some things I'm not proud of. I know it won't last and I can't walk away from my "real" life. But I love the feeling of being "in love" again...the excitement, passion, staying up till all hours chatting. We haven't met yet....but are planning to. I'll take whatever I can get, enjoy it while it lasts and remember it fondly when it's over.
 
Well, it's happening to me right now. I fell hard for a man I've met here. Almost screwed it up and did some things I'm not proud of. I know it won't last and I can't walk away from my "real" life. But I love the feeling of being "in love" again...the excitement, passion, staying up till all hours chatting. We haven't met yet....but are planning to. I'll take whatever I can get, enjoy it while it lasts and remember it fondly when it's over.

congrats beautiful, i hope that eveything goes like you would like it to, i've yet to fall in love again, but i want to. i can love many of my guys, but haven't fallen in love with another man in over a year, the last one was too soon, i know that now and i was shattered when it ended, but it was wonderful while it lasted.
 
Well, it's happening to me right now. I fell hard for a man I've met here. Almost screwed it up and did some things I'm not proud of. I know it won't last and I can't walk away from my "real" life. But I love the feeling of being "in love" again...the excitement, passion, staying up till all hours chatting. We haven't met yet....but are planning to. I'll take whatever I can get, enjoy it while it lasts and remember it fondly when it's over.

I can relate to you, though for me it's over. I find your words very well said. I wish you good.
 
Despite the odds against it, it's possible and can be as long lasting as the individuals involved are genuine and loyal.

:rose:
 
I think that while it is possible, like others said, it is not something that is easy to maintain for a long period of time without some kind of actual, physical interaction.
In fact, I think it may be easier to 'virtually' fall in love with someone than in real life, simply because on the interweb, you choose how to perceive the things that are written and said because you don't see the actions behind them. You can warp things to fit what you wanted the other person to say/mean. On the other hand, it's also easier to have disagreements based on these things.
Who knows. Good Luck to any that are trying!
 
Despite the odds against it, it's possible and can be as long lasting as the individuals involved are genuine and loyal.

:rose:

Yip, mine lasted three years and it wasn't how we met that ended it for us, but where our lives went.
The lady I was with before her lasted over 20 years and it was a hello how do you do lets have sex first meeting... there was no internet then lol but same thing I think.
 
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