a dominant professor/scientist

bio_chemistry

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The most intense connections are based on many things - physical attraction, personality types, emotional strengths, very good communication skills, the ability to listen and even such things as the point of their lives that both people are in. In the end though it's all about chemistry and I am posting as honest a description of who I am so you can decide if chemistry is likely.
I came to literotica to put up a personal because from what I have been able to tell, more creative and intellectually curious women come here - and for me those are some of the most attracting qualities. To me, the way I even look at intimate encounters (especially sexual) is that they are a chance for two people to experience a moment where both share the exact same thoughts, same visions, and sensations. I like to get there through role playing and talking - to me it really doesn't matter what the role play is so long as I know my partner is excited by it. Nothing turns me on more than knowing I am turning on my partner and that has always led to stellar results :). I think that’s why I love being dominant - setting the scene and guiding the encounter and my partners thoughts so the excitement builds and builds. I view d/s as an art. It should involve creativity, wit, sometimes even laughter. There age taboo aspects that can appeal to me as well, reluctance, humiliation, and intensive 24/7 control. I am very talented when it comes to electronics and love to use all of my faculties to ensure a very fun experience. BDSM though, in and of itself is not a lifestyle to me. The more it appeals to my partner the more it appeals to me but I do like variety and no mater how we play, in the end I want an equal and a 'partner-in-creative-crime' (even if I can be very good at creating the illusion that that’s not the case when we play).
I am very dedicated to my career too. I am a PhD research scientist/ professor from the Ivy League research scene in the area of bio chemistry. I am single; own my own home and one day want to have kids. For now Id love to find some one with very similar tastes who would be interested in a guy like me. I am very communicative and can be very sweet and perceptive, and just as rough and domineering if that’s what excites my partner. Ideally, Id find some one who has a bit of extra time and would like to do some play online and see where it goes. One who would enjoy some one that likes being creative with technology and might want to experiment with 24/7 control. I did mention in the beginning that physical attraction can also play a role. I am in fairly decent shape and run about 30 minutes a day (and can get up to 60 if motivated). I’m decent looking although not a James Bond and I tend to be very attracted to slimmer or more fit women.
I have no idea if this will fly on here as a personal but I always dare to try things if not entirely unreasonable.
 
Wow

I just wanted to say what a well thought out and articulate post you've made. It's made me wish that I was what you were looking for. Best of luck in your search.
 
Bellagirl,

Thankyou very much for the kind words. And as far as you wishing you were what I was looking for, I'd say you're pretty cool just the way you are intelligent posts, a warm heart, and a bit of a romantic -- all things you should be proud of. :)

Be well,
BC

I just wanted to say what a well thought out and articulate post you've made. It's made me wish that I was what you were looking for. Best of luck in your search.
 
Though, sadly, I don't believe I fit quite your description, I'm just curious as to how old you are?
 
I am 38 but its not the years that matter, its the mileage. ;)
For a real long term commitment I hope to find someone who can and wants to eventually have kids. For short term fun age is not an issue.
 
Hi

Thanks for all of the very thoughtful replies.
Its important to remember that chemistry is some times magical - and unpredictable. The oeple Ive talked to have all been emminently cool but I am searching for that truly unque spark that both of us feel when we find it.

If the above post has spoken to you, please respond. Likely we have mor ein common.
 
Still curious who is out there. Looking for a very creative intelligent and ttractive woman (arent we all?). Drop me a line, at least we can have good conversation and perhaps find a fun way to pass the time.
 
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This guy is awesome for those that can handle it. very complex though and not what you would expect. Good writer, bad speller.
 
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