18/m interested in meeting a t-girl

[itstony]

wow well i pretty much explained it all in the title.. but yeah im interested in meeting a t-girl to see what its like to be with one.

please get back to me soon!

i use both msn and yahoo alot so you can message me on there or on here.

 

[madmanmike]

wait for it. wait for it.........i here it. somone coming to give you a lesson on what they like to be called. run for your life its a damn stampede!!!!!


we get at least one post like this a month. if you want better luck try craigs list. you get a no strings meeting and you loose a couple hundred.

*holds flame sheild and waits*

 

[dave's thing]

wait for it. wait for it.........i here it. somone coming to give you a lesson on what they like to be called. run for your life its a damn stampede!!!!!


we get at least one post like this a month. if you want better luck try craigs list. you get a no strings meeting and you loose a couple hundred.

*holds flame sheild and waits*

LMAO Good way to put it Mike!!

 

[temp256]

And why should I bless you with my presence? I'm not very curious about meeting an ordinary guy.

 

[itstony]

Hmm.. Cause you wanna be nice?

 

[Nimbikarana]

We Are Not Zoo Exhibits For People To Gawk At

 

[itstony]

I dont want to Gawk at you. I want to meet one cause I find stories with people in it that are like that. ANd i enjoy them

 

[Nimbikarana]

I found Jaws interesting but I don't want to meet a great white shark.

 

[itstony]

okay.. what do you want me to say then?

 

[bigbubbles]

okay.. what do you want me to say then?

could say you would like to meet a tgirl to appreciate her form her beauty.

i had some tgirl friends before and most are pretty easy going cool to chat with as long as you treat them like any other girl

 

[itstony]

could say you would like to meet a tgirl to appreciate her form her beauty.

i had some tgirl friends before and most are pretty easy going cool to chat with as long as you treat them like any other girl

oh alright.. cool thanks..

 

[Xx_jdynts_xX]

The more people are exposed to ts, the more people squash some of the ignorance and fear. Some shemales like to be shemales....many trans are very vulnerable and can be disgusted by the idea of themselves being a sex object. Most often you will have an extreme mix of both, usually hormonally induced mood swings...sometimes the the thought of being abnormal, think what it would be like to be a straight male and one day realize you are gay...think about comming out and everything that comes with it. Well, gay is an orientation...its a preference in the partners sex, transgender is physically altering the sexual characteristics that are not compatable with ones true gender...its a process...but must be done rapidly to avoid the ridicule of looking like a dude dressed up as a chick for halloween....its a committment...and some tgirls are not fortunate enough to look feminine or even decent looking just like regular girls....many different stories from many different people in many different cultures, and many different lives chalk up to this single category we are lumped into.....all i say is dont judge people who are not familiar with transgenderism...just teach them to be cautious and understand ts are people with emotions and usually a very heightened sense of these emotions...be kind to your tgirls

 

[bigbubbles]

The more people are exposed to ts, the more people squash some of the ignorance and fear. Some shemales like to be shemales....many trans are very vulnerable and can be disgusted by the idea of themselves being a sex object. Most often you will have an extreme mix of both, usually hormonally induced mood swings...sometimes the the thought of being abnormal, think what it would be like to be a straight male and one day realize you are gay...think about comming out and everything that comes with it. Well, gay is an orientation...its a preference in the partners sex, transgender is physically altering the sexual characteristics that are not compatable with ones true gender...its a process...but must be done rapidly to avoid the ridicule of looking like a dude dressed up as a chick for halloween....its a committment...and some tgirls are not fortunate enough to look feminine or even decent looking just like regular girls....many different stories from many different people in many different cultures, and many different lives chalk up to this single category we are lumped into.....all i say is dont judge people who are not familiar with transgenderism...just teach them to be cautious and understand ts are people with emotions and usually a very heightened sense of these emotions...be kind to your tgirls

listen to her words, she is a smart girl, one of the best people ive ever met !

 

[madmanmike]

do we treat tgirls or shemales or trannys or lady boys or whatever they want to be called like sex objects?

YES!!! but not because they are women who were once men or because we think its kinky or forbidden please we do it because we find them sexy and attractive. you say they wanted to be treated like other women. when we say we want to fuck one or meet one because of what they are we are in fact treating them like a woman. if i say i want to fuck my girlfriend its not out of respect or the fact that i want her to feel good about herself. thiose things are automatic. i want to fuck her beacuse she hot she turns me on and we both enjoy it.

and if you dont like any of the terms in the first sentence i used get over it. its called free speech and no one person represents the whole group.if a person says she doesnt like being called shemale then i will respect their wishes and refer to that one person as they wish. but that doesnt mean everyone in that group wants the same thing. i got black friends who will get pissed if you call them african americans. i got friends that dont like being called black. if all transgendered people didnt like being called those names. they would refuse to be in a porn with shemale in the title. so it cant be that fucking offensive. get over it.

by the way did you see craigs list?

 

[itstony]

no i didnt see craigs list.. why?

 

[Xx_jdynts_xX]

do we treat tgirls or shemales or trannys or lady boys or whatever they want to be called like sex objects?

YES!!! but not because they are women who were once men or because we think its kinky or forbidden please we do it because we find them sexy and attractive. you say they wanted to be treated like other women. when we say we want to fuck one or meet one because of what they are we are in fact treating them like a woman. if i say i want to fuck my girlfriend its not out of respect or the fact that i want her to feel good about herself. thiose things are automatic. i want to fuck her beacuse she hot she turns me on and we both enjoy it.

and if you dont like any of the terms in the first sentence i used get over it. its called free speech and no one person represents the whole group.if a person says she doesnt like being called shemale then i will respect their wishes and refer to that one person as they wish. but that doesnt mean everyone in that group wants the same thing. i got black friends who will get pissed if you call them african americans. i got friends that dont like being called black. if all transgendered people didnt like being called those names. they would refuse to be in a porn with shemale in the title. so it cant be that fucking offensive. get over it.

by the way did you see craigs list?

Well, you obviously have a grasp of the tg community as a whole...but you are right, we are like anyone else ...we want our cake and eat it too because some feel like the world owes them..like in every minority...

(carlos mencia)...if parapalegics wanted to be treated as equals they wouldnt need to cut the line at theme parks...women want to be equals at the workplace..but in actuallity they want to be payed as equals and treated like women...

honestly if you dont like being called black you better call everyone else some crazy nationality hyphen american..i mean really, the west indies are not in africa..many are black though...confusion much???

porn also calls women bitches and hoes and degrades them, you wouldnt do that to a normal woman....

and my last point, you are on the glbt forum..you are a fag, try going by that for a day or two in public...

food for thought

 

[CA_Irishpilot]

Life can suck when you want to be what you should be.

And people suck to. I have a good friend who is a m2f. Duno how she did it, but she did. Guess it takes a super strong person to do it.

I know first hand people who can be narrow minded and stuff. Thought I had a friend, but when I told her I changed religions got all ticked of and stuff.

I really hate narrow minded, naive people. Wish we could take them out of the gene pool.


~ IrishPilot

 

[Nimbikarana]

get over it..... get over it.

Ladies are attracted to those whose speak with respect, calmness, and dignity. Teenage rage is very unattractive. Perhaps you are the one who needs to get over it?

 

[Etoile]

I was going to move this to Personals when I saw the title, but the discussion has gotten interesting. To the OP, feel free to go make another thread in GLBT personals, you may have some luck there. Or try Craigslist like madmanmike suggested.

 

[pa-guy]

do we treat tgirls or shemales or trannys or lady boys or whatever they want to be called like sex objects?

YES!!! but not because they are women who were once men or because we think its kinky or forbidden please we do it because we find them sexy and attractive. you say they wanted to be treated like other women. when we say we want to fuck one or meet one because of what they are we are in fact treating them like a woman. if i say i want to fuck my girlfriend its not out of respect or the fact that i want her to feel good about herself. thiose things are automatic. i want to fuck her beacuse she hot she turns me on and we both enjoy it.

and if you dont like any of the terms in the first sentence i used get over it. its called free speech and no one person represents the whole group.if a person says she doesnt like being called shemale then i will respect their wishes and refer to that one person as they wish. but that doesnt mean everyone in that group wants the same thing. i got black friends who will get pissed if you call them african americans. i got friends that dont like being called black. if all transgendered people didnt like being called those names. they would refuse to be in a porn with shemale in the title. so it cant be that fucking offensive. get over it.

by the way did you see craigs list?

I think Madman has a couple valid point, ones that are often overlooked. The problem with terms are that some people are okay with certain ones and others are not. Personally, I try not to use the shemale term unless I'm referring to a porn, because, well, thats the name associated with porn. But its difficult to know when to use terms and when not to. This PC world sucks. Why do we care so much about labels? Or words themselves? What we should be concerned with is how that word is used. A rose by any other name...

I also have to agree with the comment regarding "sex symbol" status. I don't think I really understand this one. I mean some people have "types" they are specifically attracted to. Some go for blondes, some brunettes. Others like tall, some short. others legs, other breasts. Some ass, some dick. We all have specific characteristics that turn us on more than others. What I fail to understand is why its unacceptable for this turn on to be a tg girl. Why does it suddenly become wrong? It just seems overly sensitive. Hell, I'd take it in stride if a bunch of people found me that sexy. Am I missing something?

 

[temp256]

The difference is very few transsexuals want to be, or be considered such. How would you feel if someone was attracted to something you hate so much?

For that matter, who wants a mate who is attracted to them solely for their physical features?

 

[madmanmike]

The difference is very few transsexuals want to be, or be considered such. How would you feel if someone was attracted to something you hate so much?

For that matter, who wants a mate who is attracted to them solely for their physical features?

if someone was atracted to my gorilla like body hair it would confuse me but not repulse me or make me angry. if someone was atracted to the fact that you have a penis why would that be a bad thing?

as for the other comment men dont hit on women at bars because they think they have a great personality and want to know about their childhood dreams and hopes for the world. physical atraction comes first and then liking somone for personality. the only place where the reverse is true is meeting somone over the internet or being friends first.

i think pre-op transexual women are hot. i know the real ones are on hormones and cant get it up for long if at all. that doesnt change the fact that they are attractive.

notice i put women because that is what they are aspiring to be. while they can get physically close i dont believe it will ever happen. fake tits and a vaginoplasty dont make a women. but if someone wants that life i think they should go for it. maybe one day they can transplant a womb and ovaries and change chromosomes. but not yet. but if one wants to be called a woman i will. if one hates her penis so bad she wants it removed(i know thats not what they do) then let her. but i think hate is a bit strong

 

[pa-guy]

The difference is very few transsexuals want to be, or be considered such. How would you feel if someone was attracted to something you hate so much?

For that matter, who wants a mate who is attracted to them solely for their physical features?

I never said anything about people being solely with a "mate" based on physical features. I would hope no romantic relationship is built solely on that. However, most of these posts are for sex, not relationship. And to cut it off at the pass, there are plenty of posts for sex with all kinds of people. TS women are not being exclusively targeted anymore than everyone else, which is where I stop understanding. If only TS women were being sought on these boards, I would understand. But if just about every type of person is being sought out, whats the problem?

It just always seem to come off to me as being way overly sensitive. As if its somehow wrong to want to have sex with a TS because they are a TS, but its not wrong to want to have sex with a genetic woman, man, cd, or whatever.

 

[madmanmike]

It just always seem to come off to me as being way overly sensitive. As if its somehow wrong to want to have sex with a TS because they are a TS, but its not wrong to want to have sex with a genetic woman, man, cd, or whatever.

i have been saying this a long time. i agree 100%

besides which is worse? being wanted because you are a ts or not being wanted because you are a ts? i dont care how good of a surgeon you got its gonna come out that you were a dude at one point. and ethically speaking i dont think that is something you should hide from a lover or romantic interest.

 

[Nimbikarana]

i dont care how good of a surgeon you got its gonna come out that you were a dude at one point. and ethically speaking i dont think that is something you should hide from a lover or romantic interest.

It's easy to make up rules for other people to live by. Especially when you don't have to go through what they've gone through. You can't possibly imagine what it's like. But then I guess you don't want to, because reality might wreck your fetish.