On Spanking Technique

naughtycakes

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I love getting spanked... LOVE IT. I also love watching big, girly bubble butts getting spanked, caned, paddled, whipped and belted and have meted it out on a couple of occasions to our great, mutual enjoyment.

I was watching spanking videos today and found a few I really liked. Aside from providing me with several really good orgasms, they made me think about spanking technique. Not all spankers are equal, and as a spankophile, I thought I'd provide anybody interested in the topic with a little insight into what makes a spanking so fucking delicious.

Here's a video that I found extremely hot despite the facts that 1. She does not have a very nice ass, nor is she all that attractive. 2. He's FAR from attractive. 3. The first 30 seconds make you wonder WTF is going on with that blue light shit.

I just love the way he spanks, grabbing ass cheek after every slap; working, kneading her butt as he abuses it; parting her cheeks and weighing them in his hands... just fucking delish. Also her little moans are hot and when he whips out the paddle, Mmmmm, except for the shoddy camera work during the paddling - I wanna see her ass, not the ball gag!

http://www.redtube.com/10212
 
yes. yes. oh, and yes.

though I like hands-on spanking rather than paddling. and the slaps coulda been a little closer to the pussy. mmm.

everyone has their favorite spanking techniques, I guess.

:D
 
Ikea sells bamboo that work really well, or else the hard plastic garden stakes you can pick up at any hardware store or nursery

Personally, I prefer to use a leather paddle or the hard plastic spatula I was given for my birthday
 
I love getting spanked... LOVE IT. I also love watching big, girly bubble butts getting spanked, caned, paddled, whipped and belted and have meted it out on a couple of occasions to our great, mutual enjoyment.

I was watching spanking videos today and found a few I really liked. Aside from providing me with several really good orgasms, they made me think about spanking technique. Not all spankers are equal, and as a spankophile, I thought I'd provide anybody interested in the topic with a little insight into what makes a spanking so fucking delicious.

Here's a video that I found extremely hot despite the facts that 1. She does not have a very nice ass, nor is she all that attractive. 2. He's FAR from attractive. 3. The first 30 seconds make you wonder WTF is going on with that blue light shit.

I just love the way he spanks, grabbing ass cheek after every slap; working, kneading her butt as he abuses it; parting her cheeks and weighing them in his hands... just fucking delish. Also her little moans are hot and when he whips out the paddle, Mmmmm, except for the shoddy camera work during the paddling - I wanna see her ass, not the ball gag!

http://www.redtube.com/10212


Excellent. I love the steady build up in intensity.

Humanzees love to spank...especially liberals ;)
 
That blue light is a violet wand.

And yeah, that's hot. Really. I need a shower now.
 
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I like using those studded leather mini-paddles. Or my hand.

Didn't used to be so into the spanking thing when I was younger, but it's grown on me with age and....experiences. :eek:
 
You generally want to start with some lighter spanks to get the blood flowing to the cheeks before going to town.

Don't ask me how I know that.
 
I knew a Naught approved spanking video would be good! That guy's a master of anticipation and build up. I loved the sound of the schackes clanking.
 
(OMG! Hi naughtycakes!!! Like you didn't know I couldn't resist posting in a topic like this...)

Heheheh. Spankings....

If a spanking is about just causing a little pain, then it's full steam ahead. However, if it's for some intense foreplay, then a nice slow deliberate spanking is the way to go. The rubbing in between rounds is always nice. One, it soothes the spankee and lets them calm down a little bit. Then, on the next swat, it kind of surprises them a bit as they aren't ready for it. Part of the spanking is the extremes in sensation between the spanking and the massaging. (Plus, I enjoy fondling a lady's rear, as any ass man should.) I enjoy the sight of my hand print slowly turning red and becoming visible after a really good blow. I don't care one way or the other how she responds, as long as she's enjoying it. If that means whimpering and a little crying or "Thank you sir, may I have another" begging (as long as she let me know beforehand that's what she's going to do), then I'm fine with it. It's more for her than it is for me.

I've used belts, a paddle, riding crop, hair brush (nice wide flat wooden back), a wooden spoon, a shoe. It depends on what was handy at the time and what she wanted. I've hear plastic hangers work wonders when discretion is required and the sounds of something smacking against flesh is both a bit embarrassing and undesired (my source shall remain anonymous). Sometimes it's more about the "sound" of the spanking than it is the actual act. Belts or wide flat objects tend to work great for this as they can make a great sound with little force.
 
I love getting spanked... LOVE IT. I also love watching big, girly bubble butts getting spanked, caned, paddled, whipped and belted and have meted it out on a couple of occasions to our great, mutual enjoyment.

I was watching spanking videos today and found a few I really liked. Aside from providing me with several really good orgasms, they made me think about spanking technique. Not all spankers are equal, and as a spankophile, I thought I'd provide anybody interested in the topic with a little insight into what makes a spanking so fucking delicious.

Here's a video that I found extremely hot despite the facts that 1. She does not have a very nice ass, nor is she all that attractive. 2. He's FAR from attractive. 3. The first 30 seconds make you wonder WTF is going on with that blue light shit.

I just love the way he spanks, grabbing ass cheek after every slap; working, kneading her butt as he abuses it; parting her cheeks and weighing them in his hands... just fucking delish. Also her little moans are hot and when he whips out the paddle, Mmmmm, except for the shoddy camera work during the paddling - I wanna see her ass, not the ball gag!

http://www.redtube.com/10212

Posts like this make me realize that I'll never meet the perfect woman. I''m pretty sure that I'll meet a woman who meets all of my requirements for perfection (and lets me spank her because it makes me happy); or I'll meet a woman who has no problem getting OTK love for 30-60 minutes at a time, but doesn't want to get up and work (at anything...).
 
yes. yes. oh, and yes.

though I like hands-on spanking rather than paddling. and the slaps coulda been a little closer to the pussy. mmm.

everyone has their favorite spanking techniques, I guess.

:D

Yup! I love having my pussy spanked, too, but not right away, after some build-up. In one of my favorite Penny Birch stories, Lydia gets spanked by two older men - one showing the other how to spank for maximum arousal. He starts out with light slaps, progresses onto loud smacks and after several different techniques, he ends by parting her cheeks and spanking her asshole with two fingers... Mmmm.

This guy kinda does that (disregard the fake boobens) and he fingers her ass, too, which gets ya brownie points (yes, I had to go there): http://www.redtube.com/10388

Dur, posted before I was ready... I'll redo.

Hey You! Where's that SLUT paddle I'm so fond of?

Ikea sells bamboo that work really well, or else the hard plastic garden stakes you can pick up at any hardware store or nursery

Personally, I prefer to use a leather paddle or the hard plastic spatula I was given for my birthday

Yum! I love leather paddles and especially kitchen utensils. Wooden spoons Rock! Here's a super hot wooden spoon video from spankmeister Yang4Yin: http://www.tube8.com/fetish/blonde-teen-gets-her-firm-ass-spanked-til-it-is-red-as-a-beet/12120/
 
Posts like this make me realize that I'll never meet the perfect woman. I''m pretty sure that I'll meet a woman who meets all of my requirements for perfection (and lets me spank her because it makes me happy); or I'll meet a woman who has no problem getting OTK love for 30-60 minutes at a time, but doesn't want to get up and work (at anything...).



Hey, ya gotta take the good with the bad.

OTK or a career woman, can't have both.

Was that sexist?
 
Excellent. I love the steady build up in intensity.

Humanzees love to spank...especially liberals ;)

Ha!

[Charlton Heston]Get your hands off me, you dirty Ape! [/Charlton Heston]

That blue light is a violet wand.

And yeah, that's hot. Really. I need a shower now.

Umm, take pics :D

I prefer hands only, personal and effective.

Hands are always lovely and still my favorite, but fuck a belt feels good, and a plastic hanger is key for quiet spankings.
 
Hey, ya gotta take the good with the bad.

OTK or a career woman, can't have both.

Was that sexist?

Yes, it was.

Now put on that DKNY powersuit with the pants down around your ankles and bend over the table while holding onto your Coach leather attaché case.

:eek:
 
I like using those studded leather mini-paddles. Or my hand.

Didn't used to be so into the spanking thing when I was younger, but it's grown on me with age and....experiences. :eek:

I've always been into the spanking and the girly butts... Always. I used to fantasize about spankings before I knew what sex was.

You generally want to start with some lighter spanks to get the blood flowing to the cheeks before going to town.

Don't ask me how I know that.

True dat, unless you're going for brute force.

And how do you know that?

Well then, this was a surprise!

A pleasant one, I hope.

I knew a Naught approved spanking video would be good! That guy's a master of anticipation and build up. I loved the sound of the schackes clanking.

Yes, me too!
 
Hands are always lovely and still my favorite, but fuck a belt feels good, and a plastic hanger is key for quiet spankings.

A hanger would leave terrible marks.

I think a hand would get the point across.
 
(OMG! Hi naughtycakes!!! Like you didn't know I couldn't resist posting in a topic like this...)

Heheheh. Spankings....

If a spanking is about just causing a little pain, then it's full steam ahead. However, if it's for some intense foreplay, then a nice slow deliberate spanking is the way to go. The rubbing in between rounds is always nice. One, it soothes the spankee and lets them calm down a little bit. Then, on the next swat, it kind of surprises them a bit as they aren't ready for it. Part of the spanking is the extremes in sensation between the spanking and the massaging. (Plus, I enjoy fondling a lady's rear, as any ass man should.) I enjoy the sight of my hand print slowly turning red and becoming visible after a really good blow. I don't care one way or the other how she responds, as long as she's enjoying it. If that means whimpering and a little crying or "Thank you sir, may I have another" begging (as long as she let me know beforehand that's what she's going to do), then I'm fine with it. It's more for her than it is for me.

I've used belts, a paddle, riding crop, hair brush (nice wide flat wooden back), a wooden spoon, a shoe. It depends on what was handy at the time and what she wanted. I've hear plastic hangers work wonders when discretion is required and the sounds of something smacking against flesh is both a bit embarrassing and undesired (my source shall remain anonymous). Sometimes it's more about the "sound" of the spanking than it is the actual act. Belts or wide flat objects tend to work great for this as they can make a great sound with little force.

YES~ to everything you said :D

I love the idea of slippers, like ballet slippers or ladies' house slippers, but these should be wielded by another woman and it should be strictly punishment (or the pretense thereof) over a chair, quick, terse and painful.

Posts like this make me realize that I'll never meet the perfect woman. I''m pretty sure that I'll meet a woman who meets all of my requirements for perfection (and lets me spank her because it makes me happy); or I'll meet a woman who has no problem getting OTK love for 30-60 minutes at a time, but doesn't want to get up and work (at anything...).

Why? Craving spankings does not make you lazy or an underachiever.
 
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