Just intrigued as I lay here

Satin and Lace

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I am recoverying from a fall and wondering something. Do young men really fantasize about the
"Older woman, younger man fantasies?" If you have that fantasy let me hear your fantasy, please! What is it about the dynamics that seems to make younger men want this?

Would you enter a relationship with an older woman? Would you be apt to have a hot passionate affair with an older woman if you couldn't get caught? Or are we just that, a fantasy with all the experience in the bedroom a young man would ever want?

L~
 
the thought of being able to be with a older women excites me, society seems to make it out to be something that is forbidden which is a huge turn on for me. Knowing the older women has had more experience, giving her more control in being able to tell me what she wants and how she wants it. Being able to meet and have it happen unexpectedly even knowing both of you wanted to be together for a long time, and finally getting it, "felt so wrong, but felt so right."

My fantasy would have to be helping a older women with car trouble, then giving her a ride home to her house. Her husband being out of town, with her needing to fulfil her sexual appetite. She seizes the oppurtunity with me at hinting what she wants. Handing me a glass of water with the top few button of her shirt are unbutton.
 
I am intrigued with the younger man. If he would relinquish his power position to an older woman
with total abandon, or hold himself back. I have thought of a younger man ...
 
Only the two top buttons? Perhaps she might even allow her fiingers to brush against yours as you reach for the glass?
 
I would imagine her not letting go of the glass as I pull her towards me, her whispering in my ear "how can I ever repay you for the ride home?" Without a second thought I respond, "I can think of a few things" letting her imagination wondering as she could see my cock trying to pry itself from my jeans. Having her sit next, she gently places her hand on my lap feeling my warm member from my jeans"
 
I am recoverying from a fall and wondering something. Do young men really fantasize about the
"Older woman, younger man fantasies?" If you have that fantasy let me hear your fantasy, please! What is it about the dynamics that seems to make younger men want this?

Would you enter a relationship with an older woman? Would you be apt to have a hot passionate affair with an older woman if you couldn't get caught? Or are we just that, a fantasy with all the experience in the bedroom a young man would ever want?

L~

What is this get caught thing? Most of the younger guys here on lit who are into older women have no fear of anyone knowing it. They also don't particularly want to leave it in fantasy either. Younger men want to get laid by women who want sex, they also want to learn to be good lovers. Sometimes they assume that because they can last longer, they are what an older women wants.

When last I looked, lit had over 900,000 members, at least 90% of them are men, and of that I would suspect most consider themselves "younger."
If you are clear about what you are looking for, you should be swamped with pms.

Good Luck!
 
she would teasae me first getting up thinking what was she doing, even though she knew what she wanted. Explainng to to wait right there as she went back into her bedroom, having her slip into something more comfortable as I sat and waited in fear. Did I screw up, did she want me to leave. Sitting on the couch waiting for some sign, did I get the wrong sign? Was she not into me.
 
I am intrigued with the younger man. If he would relinquish his power position to an older woman
with total abandon, or hold himself back. I have thought of a younger man ...

I'm curious why you are looking at a younger man and also why would you think the younger man would relinquish control? Why don't you relinquish control to the younger man. That might be something else to think about. I'm curious about your fantasy with a younger man. Care to elaborate?

Lastly, what about us salt and peppered hairs guys that will take care of you for a long time?

Handsome
 
For me the thrill of the older women lies in many reasons. It all boils down to the fact that they are not little girls. They don't play mind games and seek attention through immature means, and at the same time they are not cold-hearted bitches. Mature women have seem to worked out all the kinks and found that nice middle ground where she still need reminders of how attractive she is, but she's not manipulative when she wants it out of me. Of course, that doesn't apply to every hot older women, but that is the rule of thumb.

Most place high value on the physique; where for a younger girl, everything is so "firm and tight and smooth", etc. But, some younger girls seem to know this and use it to their advantage. It feeds into their egos and turns them into major bitches. While everything's starting to sag or wrinkle for an older woman, the appeal to me is that she's "been around the block" and has really established certain attritibutes to have and wants to have in the bedroom.

Also, my jaws just drop when I see an obviously mature woman, all decked out in a thin summer dress with long, flowing hair, maybe it's low-cut and shows a little cleavage. That siting is rare compare to every Tina, Denise, and Harriette who strut around in barely-there clothes when they should have their developing bodies covered up.

Get well soon.
 
I remember two experiences from my youth, which qualify as sensual experiences with an older woman. One of them was sadly pathetic. The woman in question was terrified of losing the bloom of her beauty and was desperately seeking some kind of confirmationthat she was still desireable. Actually, she was quite lovely, but the needy nature of her attempts at passion, seemed to negate that. In the end, I found myself looking for ways to avoid intimacy with her. It was not a good experience.

The second liason with an older woman was absolutely wonderful. Our meeting was quite by chance. By that I mean that we literally bumped into each other and felt an electric charge of pure want go through the both of us. We followed that prompt to one of the most jolting sexual experinces I have ever experienced. She was completely giving as a lover, and not afraid to ask or take what she wanted, either. The key seemed to be a good humor about it all. Whatever we did, she enjoyed and and made me feel simply wonderful in everything I did. She taught me the secret of bathing in the flames of desire and never to regard any of the moments of lovemaking as anything but wonderful.

I have to tell you that when she followed her profession and moved out of town, I truly missed her. ---------
 
Now you have the meaning of the dynamics of an older woman. She taught you well. The journey of the moments are as wonderful as the destination that will surely be met.

" Whatever we did, she enjoyed and and made me feel simply wonderful in everything I did."

What a beautiful sentiment....
 
Well, I married one, how's that? 7 yrs difference
 
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