A good hand spanking

[PaterPriapus]

I have always been partial to a good old fashioned hand spanking. I love to see a bum gradually redden and feel the warmth eminating from writhing, jiggling cheeks. Preferably, complete with a pair of panties tugged half way down struggling thighs. I like a nice kilt flipped over the back. I enjoy delivering one slap per syllable of a severe reprimand. If-you-e-ver-do-that-a-gain....

My hands are rough as leather from woodworking and I can deliver a painful thrashing resulting in an onslaught of tears and pleading. I love rubbing the stretched cheeks before I start then comparing the effect when I stroke them afterwards.

Are there other folks here who revel in a good hand spanking as I have always done. I can't see a shapely bum without feeling an overwhelming need to spank the hell out of it...

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[FurryFury]

I love to spank bottoms but mostly just for fun, not tears. That's just me.

 

[PaterPriapus]

Oh, the tears are not mandatory. Just the joy of a writhing bum.

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[Esclava]

I love to spank bottoms but mostly just for fun, not tears. That's just me.

Oh, I'm a fan of hand spanking from both "ends" so to speak. I can give as good as I get ... and only prefer tears if they are brought on - not by pain - but by sensation/arousal or orgasm so deep it completely overwhelms the recipient of the spanking.

Esclava

 

[FurryFury]

Oh, I'm a fan of hand spanking from both "ends" so to speak. I can give as good as I get ... and only prefer tears if they are brought on - not by pain - but by sensation/arousal or orgasm so deep it completely overwhelms the recipient of the spanking.

Esclava

That's sounds good. It's funny too I was thinking about that just tonight. My husband and I finally got together for some sex. I got his ass good and red but he didn't do much to me.

Anyway, when it was all over I remember thinking "I need a good let down cry now. That would be marvelous."

When I say let down I don't mean I was let down by the sex or lack of kink but that I just needed to let those emotions out right then. If I had I could probably sleep for a week!

 

[PaterPriapus]

It's nice to hear that others like a lovley hand spanking. I am more of a spanker than a spankee but..."Tis sport to have the executioner hoist by his own petard..."

 

[Chicklet]

I loooooove hand spankings. Preferably over the knee... mm..

I actually go to a monthly party specifically for spanking. It's a blast.

 

[PaterPriapus]

mmmm. Is right. It is sooo sensual. Even the smacking sounds are enthralling. Sounds like a wonderful get together. I would love to watch an ertoic spanking or be watched delivering one.
PP

 

[MissChristine]

I love hand spankings, especially when I'm over my boyfriend's knee. We use it more as an act of foreplay, by the time he's done spanking me, I'm all wet and he's hard.

 

[PaterPriapus]

I love hand spankings, especially when I'm over my boyfriend's knee. We use it more as an act of foreplay, by the time he's done spanking me, I'm all wet and he's hard.

Now isn't that the truth. My partner will reach up from the floor and begin wanking my cock even before the spanking is complete. I love it as "mindplay/foreplay" as well.
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[A Desert Rose]

I like hand spankings because they are more intimate than implements and because my love affair with props has died... except for this one favorite vibrator that I'll never part with.

 

[Harmony_1985]

I absolutely LOVE being hand spanked, it feels fantastic.

Only problem is that because of my gall bladder surgery scar, I can't be put over his knee yet as the pressure against it makes it hurt like hell, so I have to bend over the end of the bed for it.

But damnit it feels so good.

 

[PaterPriapus]

I like hand spankings because they are more intimate than implements and because my love affair with props has died... except for this one favorite vibrator that I'll never part with.

I agree whole heartedly. I spent a deal of time trying to learn about various BDSM games, names, shames and blames. I wanted to become an accredited expert, then one day I realized that it was all about what pleased me and my partner,not how kinky I could become. I have simplified my approach to considering only: what turns us on. I do not in any way wish to denigrate others in their pursuits but that is how it is for me. Some people need the support and experience of others.

I, personally found alot of paraphernalia and guidelines, just got in the way of my mind, her mind, what we wanted.

Thanks
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[PaterPriapus]

I absolutely LOVE being hand spanked, it feels fantastic.

Only problem is that because of my gall bladder surgery scar, I can't be put over his knee yet as the pressure against it makes it hurt like hell, so I have to bend over the end of the bed for it.

But damnit it feels so good.

Oh wouldn't it be loverly... See you can always come up with some simple solution. Your bum still jiggles in delight and turns that lovely shade. Glad to hear you are enjoying yourself.. Loved your school girl slut pic by the by...
PP

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I like hand spankings because they are more intimate than implements and because my love affair with props has died... except for this one favorite vibrator that I'll never part with.

Oh I can totally relate to that. I get more into being spanked as opposed to being paddled/flogged etc because it's just so much more personal. For the same reason, I love the feeling of his hands around my throat, even though we're not doing breathplay at the moment.

 

[Harmony_1985]

My boyfriend loves giving my ass cheeks a rub and a grope before he does it and I rather enjoy it too, not to mention if he does it for so long, it leads me into a false sense of security and its more of a shock when the first strike comes lol.

 

[MissChristine]

Oh I can totally relate to that. I get more into being spanked as opposed to being paddled/flogged etc because it's just so much more personal. For the same reason, I love the feeling of his hands around my throat, even though we're not doing breathplay at the moment.

I agree with what your saying about the "personal" feeling. I love the feeling of his bare skinned hand hitting my bare assed bum.


A quick question for ya'll though. My man's hand swells up a bit if we go at it very long. Is there anything we can do to decrease this from happening?

 

[A Desert Rose]

I agree with what your saying about the "personal" feeling. I love the feeling of his bare skinned hand hitting my bare assed bum.


A quick question for ya'll though. My man's hand swells up a bit if we go at it very long. Is there anything we can do to decrease this from happening?

Move on to ice play at this point. aaaaaaahahahhaha!!!

 

[MissChristine]

Move on to ice play at this point. aaaaaaahahahhaha!!!

we're not into much else kinky besides spanking, at least yet. His hand'll be red and starting to swell, but yet we'd like to keep going. Besides recommending a spanking implement, any suggestions?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Oh I can totally relate to that. I get more into being spanked as opposed to being paddled/flogged etc because it's just so much more personal. For the same reason, I love the feeling of his hands around my throat, even though we're not doing breathplay at the moment.

Yea, me too! I'm so past the paddles and floggers and ropes and shit. Just tie my wrists and go to town!!! LOL

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I agree with what your saying about the "personal" feeling. I love the feeling of his bare skinned hand hitting my bare assed bum.


A quick question for ya'll though. My man's hand swells up a bit if we go at it very long. Is there anything we can do to decrease this from happening?

Master tends to spank at about half strength because then he can keep it up for much longer. If he's feeling really mean, I'll get punished because his hand's sore.

 

[subbie_333]

we're not into much else kinky besides spanking, at least yet. His hand'll be red and starting to swell, but yet we'd like to keep going. Besides recommending a spanking implement, any suggestions?

Have Him switch hands. It may take him awhile to improve his coordination and stamina. Not only can it help solve your problem, but, each hand will be different and therefore hopefully improving the experience for you.

 

[PaterPriapus]

Hands are oh so sensual and oh so sensitive. It's nice to hear that others share my love for this form of foreplay as one writer put it. I also share some of your opinions on crops, floggers, paddles and popsicle sticks. The crack of a hand on a bum engages so many senses.

I imagine that the cold strap and unfeeling rod touch another need for objectification and impersonality. Some people need that and that is there right, priveledge and pleasure. But for me an open hand spanking is so elemental and so sexual.

For the writer who asked about sore hands. There is great joy in many light taps. They can become as excruciating and as wriggle producing as one might wish. Take time to stroke the bum and talk to the recipient. As in all things sexual he who hesitates is lust. I work with my hands and so am of little more practical use to you. I am sure others will add more. I am serious however about dallying, varying strokes, talking, rubbing. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy the moment... Thank you all for participating.

PP

 

[ecstaticsub]

My favorite experience with hand spanking happened last year. I am in a LDR so we don't get to see each other very often. It was at the end of a 2 day incredible visit. My body was pleasantly sore. I had been having multiple orgasms all visit and was still on that orgasm high of what I call aftershocks. We were in a hotel room waiting to take me to the airport. Everything was packed and we were just kissing and cuddling on the bed fully dressed. I knew we had very little time but I didn't want to leave. I desperately wanted to have sex again or a spanking. Not wanting to top from the bottom I just kept it to myself. Until finally I couldn't hold out any longer and begged him to please just spank me a little. He ordered me to lay agross his lap on the bed and pull up my skirt. He proceeded to firmly spank my already sore behind untill I actually had an orgasm. I had never cum from a spanking or impact play ever before. It was exactly what I needed.

 

[PaterPriapus]

My favorite experience with hand spanking happened last year. I am in a LDR so we don't get to see each other very often. It was at the end of a 2 day incredible visit. My body was pleasantly sore. I had been having multiple orgasms all visit and was still on that orgasm high of what I call aftershocks. We were in a hotel room waiting to take me to the airport. Everything was packed and we were just kissing and cuddling on the bed fully dressed. I knew we had very little time but I didn't want to leave. I desperately wanted to have sex again or a spanking. Not wanting to top from the bottom I just kept it to myself. Until finally I couldn't hold out any longer and begged him to please just spank me a little. He ordered me to lay agross his lap on the bed and pull up my skirt. He proceeded to firmly spank my already sore behind untill I actually had an orgasm. I had never cum from a spanking or impact play ever before. It was exactly what I needed.

Thanks ecstaticsub...That was lovely.
Delicious...
PP