success stories?

[pokeherstar]

I'm curious, has anyone really hooked up either in person or online and built any kind of real connection/relationship thru this website. I don't mean just ocaasional cyber sex or superficial chat once in a while. I am wondering if you or someone you know formed something real and intimate in here. I have posted a few times(i'm relatively new) and had some responses but so far nothing has worked out. What I am looking for is some real connection with a female that shares my common interests(online or in person). I'm willing to be patient, I just want to know if you feel this is a waste of time for someone looking for something real. I've noticed some common names continuously posting, are you also finding it difficult to connect? I'd appreciate any feedback(positive or negative). Thanks

 

[chelleb]

I posted an ad here about 7.5 months ago. Got a few responses, one that seemed more special than the rest. We started IMing every day, and on the phone too, and finally got to meet 4 months later. It was great, while it lasted. It wasn't casual sex, it was 2 days of getting to know each other in person to see if it was something that could work. We thought it would, but a mere month later it was over. There were many many reasons it didn't work out, none of which stemmed from meeting in person.

So, it is possible. Keep your hopes up. I bumped my ad about a month or so ago to see what would happen again, and nothing came of it. But, they say you find the right person when you're not looking for them. So, we'll see what happens.

Good luck in your search!

 

[pokeherstar]

Thanks for the response. I'm glad to hear that there are at least 2 people on here that were open to the possibilities. I still would like to hear other success or at least close to success stories.

 

[iluvyou3638]

i didn't come to Lit for dating at all, but somehow or another i met my boyfriend here. he's the best thing thats happened to me in a long time and we do have a real "connection" so there is hope. but i don't think personal ads are really the best idea, just get out on the boards and make some friends and see what happens. and good luck

 

[pokeherstar]

sucess stories?

Thanks, and your boyfriend is a very lucky man.

 

[WriterDom]

The last three women I was with I found here.

 

[pokeherstar]

That's encouraging to hear, but I'd like to know if these relationships advance past just cybering. I guess what I'd really like to know are the women of Literotica (in general) searching for something real or just using this site as an escape from their realities. I think you would be a good person to ask because you are a long time member. I would also like to hear from women that are actually here searching. I don't mean this as a pickup line for me, if you are not a pretender and are looking for a real bdsm relationship, use this post to say exactly what it is you're looking for and guys will respond to you. Only respond if you are 100% honestly looking. It can be cyber or real life(just be serious). Let's make some real connections.

 

[Jack_Slade]

Interesting thread,

I can honestly say that I met the woman of my dreams here on lit, but she lives over 700 miles away. However I didn't meet her in a BDSM Ad She PM'd me about one of my threads and we started talking. One thing lead to another and we started a relationship on-line.

I say a relationship because that is what it is, we spend hours a night talking together, and when we do "Cybering" that can stretch for hours too. Will we ever meet? I sure hope so.

Some free advice: You can place a BDSM Ad if you want to, but don't expect miracles, just go and have fun. Post away and keep it honest, and you will find people coming to you, or at least to the threads your writing in. If you find someone interesting, just talk to them, if you end up liking each other, then hop in the cybershack, and have at it.

Have Fun.

 

[BlondeRose]

I am curious myself on how many success stories are here also. It seems to me it might be a little difficult to find someone on here for a real life relationship. When its seems most are just looking for just sex here and that's it. And if they did by chance find someone I wonder what the chance are it even work out being where they met at.

 

[Yakkul]

interesting thread, I've also wondered at times just how much success occurs here too.

For me, I've occasionally met ladies who can actually use english in roleplay, and that's success enough for me!

 

[Pretty_VaCUNT]

I sometimes want a casual fuck from a stranger, and I have used lit for this purpose. I've contacted three guys who posted ads and we have fucked. They got lucky

 

[Not2Typical]

I sometimes want a casual fuck from a stranger, and I have used lit for this purpose. I've contacted three guys who posted ads and we have fucked. They got lucky

Someone is very full of herself... hehe

 

[Luciden]

My Master

I'm curious, has anyone really hooked up either in person or online and built any kind of real connection/relationship thru this website. I don't mean just ocaasional cyber sex or superficial chat once in a while. I am wondering if you or someone you know formed something real and intimate in here. I have posted a few times(i'm relatively new) and had some responses but so far nothing has worked out. What I am looking for is some real connection with a female that shares my common interests(online or in person). I'm willing to be patient, I just want to know if you feel this is a waste of time for someone looking for something real. I've noticed some common names continuously posting, are you also finding it difficult to connect? I'd appreciate any feedback(positive or negative). Thanks

I posted when I first joined Lit (the very first day, actually)-seeking a Master for myself, and got a response soon after. He became my Master and then we began to date; we met up a few times before I moved in with him. It'll be two years this November, and we've begun to talk about marriage. ^_^

Edit: Oh, and he lived 300 miles away.

 

[minx1]

I advertised for a Master on lit 2 years ago and met my D.

The first year of our relationship centered around im, emails and phone calls. He lived in Australia and I was in the uk.....so not ideal. lol
But I fell for him and knew I had to be with him.

So a year ago I moved to Oz so we could have a real time relationship

 

[ShyVixen]

It takes time and it takes patience, but there are a few success stories around here.

I met and became friends with a good man on here. We have friendship and intimacy in real life. So yes, it can be done.

 

[Bandit58]

I met my Husband/Dom on here, but not in BDSM Personals or forums, it was in a thread on the Playground called Aussies. I'm not even an Aussie, I'm a New Zealander. But He noticed a post I wrote in another thread when I first joined Lit and directed me to that Aussie thread "seeing as we're neighbours"

Neither of us were looking for a relationship. I was in an online relationship with someone else in NZ (4 hours drive away). So we became friends, and chatted and PMed and posted getting to know each other. I didn't know anything about BDSM. He had been a Dom for about 10 years, but had just casual subs for play. When my online relationship fizzled, we became closer, but no one mentioned the "L" word.

I finally came to Australia to meet Him in November 2003, a week before a Lit together He had organised. I stayed for 3 weeks, and in the first 3 days we both knew we had something very special. I went back to NZ to sell up, six weeks later I came back and we've been together ever since. We got married in December 2006

 

[realcoolhand]

Yep

I met my woman in the chat area; she's a freaky little vixen, and we gettin' married!

 

[RedheadedSub]

I'm curious, has anyone really hooked up either in person or online and built any kind of real connection/relationship thru this website. I don't mean just ocaasional cyber sex or superficial chat once in a while. I am wondering if you or someone you know formed something real and intimate in here. I have posted a few times(i'm relatively new) and had some responses but so far nothing has worked out. What I am looking for is some real connection with a female that shares my common interests(online or in person). I'm willing to be patient, I just want to know if you feel this is a waste of time for someone looking for something real. I've noticed some common names continuously posting, are you also finding it difficult to connect? I'd appreciate any feedback(positive or negative). Thanks

It's somehow reassuring to hear of success stories...but at the same time-- almost all of them required one party to take a leap of faith, the only way to succeed is by taking that leap...but not for just anyone...for the right one..

I am learning that myself. I wish you luck in whatever it is you seek

 

[Cuffmaster]

Cuffmaster Don

The answer to your question is a definate YES. I had one wonderful cyber relationship for more that 5 years and she died of cancer in short notice. I would guess you might call us committed, even though never saw other than web cam, as when being given last rites choose to spend her last breath on this earth talking to me and her Hub and family in same room.

I miss her every day.Period.

She told me she would find other for me and right now I am trying to build with another, and maybe right and maybe not. The new one got me by a typing error when trying to talk to another Master, which she still honors in certain areas, but me in many other areas.

I will now the second the correct one comes back into my life as I did with Maria, the slave who died.

I have yahoo web cam, not under this name and also msn but again not under this name. I have a reputation of respect but administered with firm flexablity. What the means, you may be a slave, real, cyber or what ever, you always have first right of refusal on anything and later we talk about the refusal and you under stand my point and I accept yours. Remembering Master is always correct even when he is wrong.

Cuffmaste Don email cuffmaster@verizon.net