Looking for someone to chat with....

[TwistaTen]

and honestly, I am up for just making a new friend if that is still possible here

I am unsure who I am looking for. Is it you?

 

[TwistaTen]

Thank you for the replies...please, don't be shy....keep them coming.
Although...*adding this note* I am chuckling at the fact that I have received many replies, and yet nobody but myself has opened this thread. It IS sort of important to know what a woman wants before jumping on her, isn't it? *shaking my head*

I am thinking I would like to talk with someone older than myself, but not make age an issue. I suppose it would be more appropriate to say that I was looking for that level of maturity that usually (and I use this loosely *grin*) comes with age.

I am not really looking for story writing at this time...honestly, just simply looking for a nice guy to talk to. I am completely discrete and your marital status doesn't make a difference to me. I prefer someone who is open and honest about being here but really, that is your cross to bear.

I don't meet people physically, so I really want an online friendship.

Thank you

 

[groovenut31]

Hey Twista... I'll christen your thread. ;-) I'm a 33/Married M from DC. I hope you are having fun here....So how many PM's have you gotten with just a pic of a cock? I bet you were really looking for that huh....

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Thank you for the replies...please, don't be shy....keep them coming.
Although...*adding this note* I am chuckling at the fact that I have received many replies, and yet nobody but myself has opened this thread. It IS sort of important to know what a woman wants before jumping on her, isn't it? *shaking my head*

I am thinking I would like to talk with someone older than myself, but not make age an issue. I suppose it would be more appropriate to say that I was looking for that level of maturity that usually (and I use this loosely *grin*) comes with age.

I am not really looking for story writing at this time...honestly, just simply looking for a nice guy to talk to. I am completely discrete and your marital status doesn't make a difference to me. I prefer someone who is open and honest about being here but really, that is your cross to bear.

I don't meet people physically, so I really want an online friendship.

Thank you

 

[TwistaTen]

Hey Twista... I'll christen your thread. ;-) I'm a 33/Married M from DC. I hope you are having fun here....So how many PM's have you gotten with just a pic of a cock? I bet you were really looking for that huh....

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This time around, none actually. I was pleasantly surprised as I am looking for something much much more. A man who can describe is cock in so much detail, I can picture it in my mind....would be just that.

 

[seflamaster]

what are you into?

 

[Hard_Element]

and honestly, I am up for just making a new friend if that is still possible here

I am unsure who I am looking for. Is it you?

Hi Twista,

Your name sounds like a candy I like at the movies.

It's always nice not to have any precise idea of what you are looking for and be pleasantly surprised by what you find. It's like rummaging around a gourmet plate of food with lots of interesting morsels of food, not knowing what they are or what they may taste like, and trying them out one by one.

Friendship is always a nice tidbit.

 

[NYCDave]

Welcome!

I know what you mean, I often ask if anyone is interested in chatting and am surprised to find chatting is apparently just another word for cyber/phone sex. I should tell you that by enlarge the women I have met here seem to be honest and open to all sort of ideas including but not limited to jut being friends.

Good luck to you... hope you find that which you seek

 

[EdmondDantes]

Interested

Twista, if you're truly interested in chatting without it lapsing into cyber/phone sex, and if you truly want to talk with a man who still has enough blood coursing through the rest of his body to keep his grey matter functioning, I'd be interested. Let me know.

 

[davebear]

Always happy to chat from here in the UK

 

[TwistaTen]

Twista, if you're truly interested in chatting without it lapsing into cyber/phone sex, and if you truly want to talk with a man who still has enough blood coursing through the rest of his body to keep his grey matter functioning, I'd be interested. Let me know.

Edmond, I am letting you know the only way I can....here. Really, truly, that is all I want.

 

[amorousloverboy]

You're welcome Twista...

For dredging up your "Seduce Me" thread. It seemed to be sorely neglected, and such a worthy topic. It deserved better.

So, I have a topic for discussion. How many (if any) people in your "real" life know about your online personna/ activities? Why do you hide it, or conversely if you share with lots of people "out there" why is that? I'm curious as I have the sense that some people are fairly outward with their expressions of sexuality across the board, while others seek their obsessions in private on sites like this. Thoughts?

 

[TwistaTen]

what are you into?

Not any of that. Thanks.

 

[football_stud]

Hi I just wanted to drop in and say hi and see how everyone is doing

 

[TwistaTen]

For dredging up your "Seduce Me" thread. It seemed to be sorely neglected, and such a worthy topic. It deserved better.

So, I have a topic for discussion. How many (if any) people in your "real" life know about your online personna/ activities? Why do you hide it, or conversely if you share with lots of people "out there" why is that? I'm curious as I have the sense that some people are fairly outward with their expressions of sexuality across the board, while others seek their obsessions in private on sites like this. Thoughts?

It is actually alright that you bumped up that thread. I was only teasing with you. I just thought it was odd that I asked for someone to talk to and started getting PM's with stories in them...then I realized why. You are forgiven but not forgotten.

I will answer your question, although I get the impression that you are asking this generally..and not just me, correct?
I have a few people in my life that know me online here. They know my screen name, and they are free to read my posts. As you will see, I do not post pictures, nor do I post anything I am ashamed of....you can't do that when you physically "know" people...or shall I say, "I" can't do that.

I am unsure what you mean by "private sites like this"....what site would you have me post at then. I mean, I have been here off and on for years and I like it. It may take some time, but I usually find who I am looking for. And I get to meet a lot of interesting people along the way. Many of those people have written stories...which I have been reading today....and those stories tell me a lot about a person.

 

[amorousloverboy]

Truthfully, I'd be happiest to discuss with you in particular. Privately would be ideal


I'd not have you post anywhere else, don't get me wrong (I think is said "in private, on a site like this" or something to that effect). All I'm saying is I'm curious about the anonymous aspect of message boards. Like you say, you get to reveal as much or as little of yourself as you care to. One of the most incredible things about the evolution of chat is that in many ways, it helps break down the barriers between men and women. Its a much safer venue to get to know someone without the potential risks of face to face meetings. Not to mention the fact that you get to go straight to your interests. There ain't many sexuality cafe's in my neighborhood.

And lets not forget the most scrumptious thing of all. The faceless, anonymous erotic connection. Something about touching someone's intellect only, and leaving the rest to imagination, that makes a fella shudder.

 

[TwistaTen]

Truthfully, I'd be happiest to discuss with you in particular. Privately would be ideal


I'd not have you post anywhere else, don't get me wrong (I think is said "in private, on a site like this" or something to that effect). All I'm saying is I'm curious about the anonymous aspect of message boards. Like you say, you get to reveal as much or as little of yourself as you care to. One of the most incredible things about the evolution of chat is that in many ways, it helps break down the barriers between men and women. Its a much safer venue to get to know someone without the potential risks of face to face meetings. Not to mention the fact that you get to go straight to your interests. There ain't many sexuality cafe's in my neighborhood.

And lets not forget the most scrumptious thing of all. The faceless, anonymous erotic connection. Something about touching someone's intellect only, and leaving the rest to imagination, that makes a fella shudder.

As a wise man discussed with me recently, it is the anonymity of the internet that can really bring out a person's true personality.....some feel comfortable divulging information they wouldn't otherwise elsewhere. It is nice to find that one person you can just talk to openly and not worry about barriers or taboos. Just talk.

However, message boards/internet can also be a battleground for deceit and lies. Can you truly trust someone you meet only online? I am unsure of this answer. I would like to say "yes" that it can happen, but you can't be foolish to think that everyone else is looking out for your best interests. This is not a place for someone who is trusting in all she/he hears or reads. When you find a partner, whether it be for writing or just chatting, and you both understand this, then yes, these sorts of relationships can be fun.

It isn't fun for everyone though- not for those who allow themselves to hurt over it.

Just my two cents....carry on.

 

[JonTX]

I've been chatting on various forums and rooms since the mid 90's and I think personally everyone always hold something back. You have too, you don't want to bare your soul to someone you've never met face to face and then have that same revelation come back to haunt you later because that person that you told in strict confidence shared your secrets with a bunch of other people online.

I reserve myself to most people I talk too but I do have a couple of confidants online that I do share most if not all of my life with. The only reason is because they shared theirselves with me first and then I knew that I could share myself in return without worrying about any repercussions.

 

[meatandpotatos]

wanna play with us?

wanna chat with me and my gf?

 

[Vahlen]

As a wise man discussed with me recently, it is the anonymity of the internet that can really bring out a person's true personality.....some feel comfortable divulging information they wouldn't otherwise elsewhere. It is nice to find that one person you can just talk to openly and not worry about barriers or taboos. Just talk.

However, message boards/internet can also be a battleground for deceit and lies. Can you truly trust someone you meet only online? I am unsure of this answer. I would like to say "yes" that it can happen, but you can't be foolish to think that everyone else is looking out for your best interests. This is not a place for someone who is trusting in all she/he hears or reads. When you find a partner, whether it be for writing or just chatting, and you both understand this, then yes, these sorts of relationships can be fun.

It isn't fun for everyone though- not for those who allow themselves to hurt over it.

Just my two cents....carry on.

That was very well put. I may have missed the entire point of your post and jumped in prematurely to a conversation that I am not apart of, but I enjoyed your comment.

The feeling of anonymity that the internet provides for so many does strange things to people and it is always interesting to see how it unfolds.

 

[TwistaTen]

That was very well put. I may have missed the entire point of your post and jumped in prematurely to a conversation that I am not apart of, but I enjoyed your comment.

The feeling of anonymity that the internet provides for so many does strange things to people and it is always interesting to see how it unfolds.

Thank you....

Mine was an answer to a question asked somewhere in the post. This was not the original post's intent...it just sort of found its way here. Actually, I find it interesting to see what people's views are about online interactions. Interesting topic.

 

[TwistaTen]

wanna chat with me and my gf?

no, but thank you

 

[Vahlen]

Thank you....

Mine was an answer to a question asked somewhere in the post. This was not the original post's intent...it just sort of found its way here. Actually, I find it interesting to see what people's views are about online interactions. Interesting topic.

I agree about the topic being interesting, but off topic. lol

 

[joe_golfish]

Hi

Hi

I would like to make a new friend. I recently met someone online and we shared a few wonderful but too short messages back and forth. Unfortunately it seems that something has happened to her email address and I have no other way of contacting her. It makes me sad and I miss my new friend.

PM me please.