rgraham666
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I learned some interesting stuff. I'll be getting the author's book to learn even more.
Oftentimes people use posture and words and 'affect' to try and manipulate you. The person may want your job not your dick.
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Youre right!
There are better indicators than 'body language.' Proximity is one of them. Rapport is another. And I pay attention to what I feel.
All kinds of things can confound body language. Medication. Medical issues. Culture. Recent events. Fatigue.
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ETA. consciously aping specific signals most often makes the user just seem 'false' or superficial because they then have to control the involuntary signals that they display unconsciously.
There are no 'better' indicators only different ones. Proximity is as culturally descriptive as accent and language and is a body language signal. Rapport is very much the same word as 'like' and holds no useful information about the correspondent.
Anything that confounds body language also confounds any other method of communication.
Reading signals, consciously reading signals (and your own response to them) is a help towards understanding, no more, no less.
I'd be willing to bet good money that half the people that have you on iggy JBJ wouldn't if these conversations were face to face.