Challenge

[ConquerMe]

>delete<

 

[thejabber27]

To dominant types who like a challenge, here is mine:

I'm not a sub. In my opinion, "sub" too often stands for "subservient." Subs become eager extensions of their masters, slaving their intellect & passion to another's will. I'm not subservient. I'm at least your equal.

I want a man who enjoys a challenge. I won't go to you meekly saying "yes, sir" and "no, sir." I yell. I scream. I say exactly what I think.

If you can handle that—if you can struggle with me and win, if you can make me want to know you and learn me enough to own me, if you can hold me down and give me just a taste of what I want and then somehow make me beg...

Then I'm yours. Not before.

And maybe not after, until you start the process all over again...

I wonder if any man out there is up for the challenge?

so you wanna be broken sounds fun, where do you really live it's so much more fun to break someone in real life

 

[humpitybumpity]

throwing down my gauntlet in response

ok...how do we begin....when and where?

 

[Gamelover221]

I want a man who enjoys a challenge. I won't go to you meekly saying "yes, sir" and "no, sir." I yell. I scream. I say exactly what I think.

No wonder they invented ball gags

 

[RawHumor]

No wonder they invented ball gags

LOL Exactly.

It's an interesting ad.

The problem is, outside of the challenge, you (the thread-starter) are not mentioning anything that you're bringing to the table. What are you offering, besides a sassy mouth and attitude?

 

[ConquerMe]

LOL Exactly.

It's an interesting ad.

The problem is, outside of the challenge, you (the thread-starter) are not mentioning anything that you're bringing to the table. What are you offering, besides a sassy mouth and attitude?

Okay, I admit that posting this thread was a lapse in judgement that would not have happened had I been thinking at all clearly. The Internet is no place to find somebody, in my opinion.

But as to what I have to offer, Raw...

I have passion. I have joy and anger and laughter. I fight for what I want, I fight for the people I love. I'm someone worth knowing, because I make things happen.

I'm not really sure why I made an account here- just some crazy ideas floating around in my head about somebody I couldn't manipulate just by batting my goddamned eyelashes. Somebody who wouldn't melt at the first sign of trouble or stab me in the back when he could just as well say it to my face. Somebody strong enough to stand on his own without having to lean on me all the time, and maybe, even, strong enough for me to lean on myself for just one moment of rest.

I'm intelligent and I'm capable and I'm passionate. I'm fierce and I'm proud and I care about shit way too much. I do stupid things like post my goddamned life's story on a fucking erotica board because I'm fed up with circumstances. But occasionally, just once in a rare while, I do something I'm proud of.

So, RawHumor, you made a good point. What do I have to offer?

Fire and ice. And if they cancel each other out... maybe there isn't anything.

My apologies for wasting your time, gentlemen.

 

[Scotsman69]

I suspect you are being a wee bit hard on yourself lass.

I might just want to get to know you, but hell, Antarctica is a long way from Scotland, and I'm probably way too old for you..........

 

[Gamelover221]

I can't speak for raw, but I didn't mean to offend you. You have several posts under your belt, so we know you are at least several steps ahead of most that seem to register and post an ad for their first post.

I'm really sad you edited your first post. If you want a challenge, you need to stick to your goal. You say you offer fire and ice, but you describe yourself as an ice queen from Antarctica. That throws a lot of weight towards the ice and we want to know more about the fire. You fight, but what do you fight for? You have strong opinions, so what are they? You are passionate, but what is it that lights your inner fire?

Don't you know that men tease girls to see how they react? Online we can't see your physical reactions, so we wait for more words from you. Pulling out doesn't reflect someone that wants a challenge. Step back into the ring and share with everyone what you believe in.

 

[ConquerMe]

I can't speak for raw, but I didn't mean to offend you. You have several posts under your belt, so we know you are at least several steps ahead of most that seem to register and post an ad for their first post.

I'm really sad you edited your first post. If you want a challenge, you need to stick to your goal. You say you offer fire and ice, but you describe yourself as an ice queen from Antarctica. That throws a lot of weight towards the ice and we want to know more about the fire. You fight, but what do you fight for? You have strong opinions, so what are they? You are passionate, but what is it that lights your inner fire?

Don't you know that men tease girls to see how they react? Online we can't see your physical reactions, so we wait for more words from you. Pulling out doesn't reflect someone that wants a challenge. Step back into the ring and share with everyone what you believe in.

I understand what you say, and I was not offended. I had decided to delete my post before I ever noticed RawHumor's quite legitimate question. The explanation is because the question was posed. The delete is not.

I believe in a lot of things, so I fight for a lot of things. I'm an ordinary girl trying to make a dent in the world. But it won't happen here.

I meant what I wrote, about this being a lame place to find someone special, and I still believe that. My thread was just the outpouring of some frustration from elsewhere in my life. I ought not to have posted it; I see that clearly.

As for my post count, it's an open sham. I've been "cheating the system" on the Playground...

 

[RawHumor]

My apologies for wasting your time, gentlemen.

Relax, chica.

I'm not saying that you're not wanted here...

What I'm saying is that your post listed all of the ways you'd be a burden for a potential dom... but you didn't list what he'd get out of it (besides the reward of breaking you).

Any businessman wants some reward for his risks... that's all I was asking you - what would be those rewards?

 

[ConquerMe]

dratted double posts

 

[Gamelover221]

I understand what you say, and I was not offended. I had decided to delete my post before I ever noticed RawHumor's quite legitimate question. The explanation is because the question was posed. The delete is not.

I believe in a lot of things, so I fight for a lot of things. I'm an ordinary girl trying to make a dent in the world. But it won't happen here.

I meant what I wrote, about this being a lame place to find someone special, and I still believe that. My thread was just the outpouring of some frustration from elsewhere in my life. I ought not to have posted it; I see that clearly.

As for my post count, it's an open sham. I've been "cheating the system" on the Playground...

I'm sorry you think this is a lame place to find someone special. I'm going to post my own personal later tonight and one of the lines is, "Like any good prospector though, I come back to this gold mine to keep digging a little more in hopes of finding my submissive One." This place is filled with diamonds in the rough, and it does take effort to find the treasure you seek.