anyone believe in; or searching for "true Love" anymore???

[AutumnLady]

i would love to find a single, passionate man who loves bbw's. looking to be in a commited relationship {eventually} with one hot, caring man who is utterly devoted to "us."
if you live in any of the southern states that would be wonderful. let me know and i will message you back.

 

[Rocky7mag]

i would love to find a single, passionate man who loves bbw's. looking to be in a commited relationship {eventually} with one hot, caring man who is utterly devoted to "us."
if you live in any of the southern states that would be wonderful. let me know and i will message you back.

Yahoo me when you get a chance

 

[Ogmios]

I wish you the ebst of luck on this. Everyone seems to be looking for the instant gratification, these days.

 

[GoddessHathor]

Good luck in your search darlin! And no...you aren't the only one looking for "true" love. Seems to be a desire just out of my reach.

Hopefully you will find that one 'someone' and it will be everything you dreamed of!

 

[Shagly]

It must be around here somewhere.

 

[vavoyeurs]

Sorry to break it to you. It does not exist. It's just a myth. Been looking for years. Finally came to that conclusion.

 

[pariste74656]

I've given up on that after a divorce, a death and a suicide. Like the man says, it doesn't exist.

 

[AutumnLady]

i am here to tell you it does....

even if i was the last woman on earth with a heart that is open and true;{and i am sure i am not} there is no way for me to prove to you i am genuine except that i say to you....."I AM HERE."
i have been in search for a "MAN" with a heart that is not perfect...but it tries to be everyday the best it can.
so to those who have lost faith in what is beautiful in life....true love being one of them...i hope you find your way back to the place you were before you allowed a hard life to make you "JADED." take care....."M"

 

[janeyl]

i'm not desperately searching as such-but i believe it exists and keep my heart open for the opportunity if it arises

-thats all i think you can do

-and when it comes along i have learned that to let somebody love you is one of the greatest challenges for me because of fear but its worth the risk

 

[rocktober2]

i would love to find a single, passionate man who loves bbw's. looking to be in a commited relationship {eventually} with one hot, caring man who is utterly devoted to "us."
if you live in any of the southern states that would be wonderful. let me know and i will message you back.

I wish you the best of luck in your search, I too have been looking and I too have found that it seems so many are looking for a fuck buddy instead of a real relationship. Not all of them, but many. I believe that there are men looking for an emotional connection, just can seem to find one that I have chemistry with. Again best of luck, hope you find the man that is "perfect" for you.

 

[welikeu]

Yes, there Really IS True Love still. However; it is highly unlikely that you will find it on sites like these. These sites are mostly men looking for a fast f.... There are also some women as well as couples. We have been married a very long time and have True Love....We also like sex just for the pleasure of sex.

 

[Tonguemeister]

How true you are

Yes, there Really IS True Love still. However; it is highly unlikely that you will find it on sites like these. These sites are mostly men looking for a fast f.... There are also some women as well as couples. We have been married a very long time and have True Love....We also like sex just for the pleasure of sex.

I wholeheartedly agree ... I found true love in June 1974, and am still truly in love with that wonderful person; my wife of nearly 28 years.

But, there are always other opportunities to help and guide seekers along the path towards their own special person ... and so I try to help as best I can. If that means some good old fashioned sex then so be it.

 

[welikeu]

I wholeheartedly agree ... I found true love in June 1974, and am still truly in love with that wonderful person; my wife of nearly 28 years.

But, there are always other opportunities to help and guide seekers along the path towards their own special person ... and so I try to help as best I can. If that means some good old fashioned sex then so be it.

Am not knocking "Old Fashioned Sex".....but that ain't neccessarily LOVE.....LMAO.

 

[Tonguemeister]

Am not knocking "Old Fashioned Sex".....but that ain't neccessarily LOVE.....LMAO.

Absolutely right my friend ... love needs to be spread!

 

[ursaminor512]

i'm a believer

 

[AutumnLady]

thanks so much for the replys....

there are so many different view points on this subject.
the problem i am having is there is no one close enough to pursue any kind of friendship....or anything else but online chat.
yes i would be willing to attempt a go at something with someone from online if i thought i had met the right person.
you just have to take precautions such as....learning all you can about a person while chatting...send truthful pics to each other....and if you live in a fairly close range of each other; meet for your dates at public places for the first several times . that way when you feel comfortable w/ each other, you can meet closer to home.
i have been unmarried for over a decade and these are my rules of thumb concerning on-line dating, or the persute of meeting new people, for whatever reason.
i have met alot of people who were nice enough...just no spark was present....@ least not enough to start a serious and successful relationship.
~~~~so i guess i have turned the tide of this thread.....what has been some of your experiences...anyone wanta share thoughts concerning this subject???

 

[StillFrame]

there are so many different view points on this subject.
the problem i am having is there is no one close enough to pursue any kind of friendship....or anything else but online chat.
yes i would be willing to attempt a go at something with someone from online if i thought i had met the right person.
you just have to take precautions such as....learning all you can about a person while chatting...send truthful pics to each other....and if you live in a fairly close range of each other; meet for your dates at public places for the first several times . that way when you feel comfortable w/ each other, you can meet closer to home.
i have been unmarried for over a decade and these are my rules of thumb concerning on-line dating, or the persute of meeting new people, for whatever reason.
i have met alot of people who were nice enough...just no spark was present....@ least not enough to start a serious and successful relationship.
~~~~so i guess i have turned the tide of this thread.....what has been some of your experiences...anyone wanta share thoughts concerning this subject???

I hate to be the dream crusher babe but online dating dont work. I mean its when you find someone out their in the real world and you have to be face to face and honest. that fealing of not knowing if they will respond when you say hey and have to have a real conversation thats how you fall for someone. not by planed out online pms aims and emails

 

[AutumnLady]

I hate to be the dream crusher babe but online dating dont work. I mean its when you find someone out their in the real world and you have to be face to face and honest. that fealing of not knowing if they will respond when you say hey and have to have a real conversation thats how you fall for someone. not by planed out online pms aims and emails

i beg to differ...i have met a select few online and did date them for some time....it's just that none of them worked out. none of the reasons had anything to do with the fact we met online.
the reasons were just like any other situation where you find a person you want to date; yet you find later on it just could'nt work out.
i remain hopeful about finding a partner....no matter what realm i find this in....as long as it is possible that we can be a part of each others life.
then we can explore what being together would entail. i feel this is just keeping my options open. =)

 

[avvikande]

I hate to be the dream crusher babe but online dating dont work. I mean its when you find someone out their in the real world and you have to be face to face and honest. that fealing of not knowing if they will respond when you say hey and have to have a real conversation thats how you fall for someone. not by planed out online pms aims and emails

Disagree... and agree.

Dating online can work if the standard rules of a relationship are present - honesty, respect, and tolerance. If you begin an online relationship with your measurements, that are more like your dream-easurements or you claim you're about 4" better hung with a bank account boasting success, then you are bound for failure.

If you realize that the truth will suffice, and *will* actually be appreciated and turn someone on, then you're on the road to success. When an online relationship is based on a fantasy, of course it's going to fall short. Unless I'm online searching for a blind man, when we actually do meet, you're going to know that I'm not just bloated if I show up in size 18 jeans and I've proclaimed I'm 5'5" and 110lbs.

Honesty is sexy. Confidence is an attractant. And true love still exists, and if you find it under a rock or in a bar, or online, so be it.

It's the nature of "online" that makes it so hard to find a lasting relationship here. Online means anonymity. I can be whomever I want to be right here on this screen, but no one is going to fall in love long-term with what I *can* be, only with what I am.

_avvikande_

 

[AutumnLady]

Disagree... and agree.

Dating online can work if the standard rules of a relationship are present - honesty, respect, and tolerance. If you begin an online relationship with your measurements, that are more like your dream-easurements or you claim you're about 4" better hung with a bank account boasting success, then you are bound for failure.

If you realize that the truth will suffice, and *will* actually be appreciated and turn someone on, then you're on the road to success. When an online relationship is based on a fantasy, of course it's going to fall short. Unless I'm online searching for a blind man, when we actually do meet, you're going to know that I'm not just bloated if I show up in size 18 jeans and I've proclaimed I'm 5'5" and 110lbs.

Honesty is sexy. Confidence is an attractant. And true love still exists, and if you find it under a rock or in a bar, or online, so be it.

It's the nature of "online" that makes it so hard to find a lasting relationship here. Online means anonymity. I can be whomever I want to be right here on this screen, but no one is going to fall in love long-term with what I *can* be, only with what I am.

_avvikande_

very well put....and i totally agree. thanks so much for your input.

 

[RuneBlade]

Disagree... and agree.

Dating online can work if the standard rules of a relationship are present - honesty, respect, and tolerance. If you begin an online relationship with your measurements, that are more like your dream-easurements or you claim you're about 4" better hung with a bank account boasting success, then you are bound for failure.

If you realize that the truth will suffice, and *will* actually be appreciated and turn someone on, then you're on the road to success. When an online relationship is based on a fantasy, of course it's going to fall short. Unless I'm online searching for a blind man, when we actually do meet, you're going to know that I'm not just bloated if I show up in size 18 jeans and I've proclaimed I'm 5'5" and 110lbs.

Honesty is sexy. Confidence is an attractant. And true love still exists, and if you find it under a rock or in a bar, or online, so be it.

It's the nature of "online" that makes it so hard to find a lasting relationship here. Online means anonymity. I can be whomever I want to be right here on this screen, but no one is going to fall in love long-term with what I *can* be, only with what I am.

_avvikande_

Wise words, a great response.

I've had relationships of different types online. Honesty was key in all of them, whether we were just long distance friends with benefits, or more involved on a personal level.

 

[lonelyoldguy]

True love = YES

 

[thejdangel]

Yeah I like to believe in true love!!!!

I just think its the wanting to be with someone even when you are old feeling.... I'm just yet to find it although I am looking!

 

[Necroh_Skewer]

I am still searching for true love even though I am young. I will wait patiently and find him someday. Avvikande said it well. It all comes down to trust and the effort put into the relationship. I haven't seen many people do that these days (maybe because of doubt?), but I know there are some dedicated and honest people out there. I won't let my bad experiences plague my thoughts of what love really is. Instead I will take these experiences and learn the pros and cons about them.

 

[Asenah]

I still want to believe...so don't burst my bubble, people However, I have to admit that it gets more and more difficult to keep the faith with every passing year.