doctorsleaze
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If you look in the stories on Lit or if you Google 'cuckolding' you will find lots of stories and scenarios written from a male point of view about how someone enjoys thinking about his wife or girlfriend with another guy. There may be different variants – the other guy is black, hung like a horse, his or her boss, a friend, a rival etc etc etc, but the one constant is that he is having his way with his wife or girlfriend.
Overwhelmingly these scenarios seem to be written from a male point of view. Intrinsically they seem male-centred – with the husband or boyfriend trying to manage the conflicting and arousing emotions associated with his beloved being enjoyed by another male. Let’s bear in mind here this may equally be for her orgasmic pleasure at one extreme, or cold rape at the other. But whichever it is, the sub-text is that there often seems to be something profoundly patriarchal in these scenarios.... namely the husband/boyfriend is enjoying the threat of another potentially more dominant male encroaching on his partner – his domain – his 'property' (oh and I recognise and regret that I am as guilty as the next guy on this one!).
I’m interested in the female point of view, so this is my question for you – please answer either in terms of actual experience or fantasy, even if you are never going to carry it out for real.
Which of the following best describes you, either in reality, or in the fantasies and role-plays you enact with your partner. If you are not in a relationship at present then you may prefer to imagine a past or imaginary relationship and answer on that basis.....
Thank you!
Overwhelmingly these scenarios seem to be written from a male point of view. Intrinsically they seem male-centred – with the husband or boyfriend trying to manage the conflicting and arousing emotions associated with his beloved being enjoyed by another male. Let’s bear in mind here this may equally be for her orgasmic pleasure at one extreme, or cold rape at the other. But whichever it is, the sub-text is that there often seems to be something profoundly patriarchal in these scenarios.... namely the husband/boyfriend is enjoying the threat of another potentially more dominant male encroaching on his partner – his domain – his 'property' (oh and I recognise and regret that I am as guilty as the next guy on this one!).
I’m interested in the female point of view, so this is my question for you – please answer either in terms of actual experience or fantasy, even if you are never going to carry it out for real.
Which of the following best describes you, either in reality, or in the fantasies and role-plays you enact with your partner. If you are not in a relationship at present then you may prefer to imagine a past or imaginary relationship and answer on that basis.....
Thank you!
