PM from Laurel in regard to PrincessGoddess

[catalina_francisco]

Hi C_F!

Thanks for the PM, and I hope your weekend was good otherwise!

As a Moderator, your job is to remove posts that go against our forum guidelines, which are linked at the bottom of every page on the site. And, to quote the guidelines:

Quote:
Anything else goes. You may post whatever you like. Consequently, so can everyone else. The administrators here don't believe they are anyone's parents nor are they anyone's Jiminy Cricket. It's not their responsibility to make sure that everyone on the site uses free speech responsibly. It's up to individual users to be responsible for themselves. For those who are not, the programmers at Jelsoft have added an ignore function for your convenience.
Posted with Laurel's permission:

"Hi C_F!

Thanks for the PM, and I hope your weekend was good otherwise!

As a Moderator, your job is to remove posts that go against our forum guidelines, which are linked at the bottom of every page on the site. And, to quote the guidelines:

Quote:
Anything else goes. You may post whatever you like. Consequently, so can everyone else. The administrators here don't believe they are anyone's parents nor are they anyone's Jiminy Cricket. It's not their responsibility to make sure that everyone on the site uses free speech responsibly. It's up to individual users to be responsible for themselves. For those who are not, the programmers at Jelsoft have added an ignore function for your convenience. Just go here and add the user you don't want to deal with anymore.
In short, it is not your responsibility, legal or otherwise, to make sure people get along. If two people are not getting along, they have the ability to put each other on Ignore. Once they do that, the Ignored person's posts will disappear, and they will be unable to PM each other.

If two users do not put each other on ignore and insist on fighting, then they are making a conscious decision to interact. As adults, that is then THEIR responsibility - not yours, not mine. This is an Adult site.

Our site rules are posted clearly on every page. We do not get involved in personal conflicts other than as stated in the Rules.

You are free to quote this publicly.

If you need anything else, let me know!

Laurel


Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh, in the interests of full disclosure, here is my initial PM:

" Sorry to bother you...
...but the BDSM forum has been under a constant barrage of abuse and threats of physical violence against various posters, myself included, from PrincessGoddess. I have been patient, lol apparently beyond belief according to some posters, but continue to get PM after PM and she keeps posting threads and posts on the forum to hurl further abuse and threats at everyone, and all because we did not agree with a thread she started or many of her ideas. We also dared to ask about a few things she had said which contradicted other things she said..and of course which she doesn't answer or mention as is her right.

Posters did not abuse her, at least not to start with, but she abused from the second post, not to mention she has also insisted subs/slaves are not worthy of posting in her threads...I explained a threadstarter did not own a thread, nor could a poster tell others where and how to post...didn't work. Actually given some of the past events such as this, the forum as a whole have remained fairly nice and not broken out into all out nasty attack..most have just had fun and thought it all a bit of a joke. She on the other hand has threatened physical violence including saying she mentions things like this to her friends who then take care of those who upset her without her needing to be implicated if it becomes legal, and threatened legal action as well, oh and to rally up some people to come in and wreck Lit by making it so unpleasant we will all leave and they can take over....in other words a bully.

Up to now I have only replied to her various threats with a request to read the rules and honour free speech, but I won't be around today and on waking I see she has been busy again with pages of abuse on the forum and yet another PM, this time telling me as a moderator I had legal responsibilities. Of course, it reminded me I did have responsibility, to notify of the threats and protect the beauty of Lit as a free speech and safe site, not as she felt, to make people stop standing up to her bullying and tell her she is wonderful. Of course she also said she had notified the site on me, and another poster ...possibly more, I haven't had time to read it all...and she told me there would be repercussions so I thought it was time to let you know and leave it in your capable hands if you decide it is worth your time...personally I think you have more important things to bother with, but just covering the forum's interests.

Here are links to her various threads..I did merge 2 which were the same...second one was to give us an opportunity to change our previous posts and tell her she was wonderful and right and the greatest Domme...strange as she identifies as a submissive since 1974 (13 yo at the time?):

Take My Challenge, NOW!

Lit is not a place for courtesy, respect, or nice people

This is why I left last time

No-one Has The Right To Stalk or Harrass Me On This Site

Sorry to bring this to you but figured it was best to let you know so you can or cannot get involved as you see fit. I will be around for a couple of hours I think, then I am off to Amsterdam to meet another Litster who is in the country just for today..should be fun to meet yet another poster.

Catalina"


Catalina

 

[notalwaysweak]

Good modding, Catalina! Love your work.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Cat, I know we don't always see eye-to-eye, but I just have to let you know I think you're doing a fine job as a moderator !

Enjoy the visit with the Litster!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Cat, I know we don't always see eye-to-eye, but I just have to let you know I think you're doing a fine job as a moderator !

Enjoy the visit with the Litster!

Thanks, and I did.

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

You're nicer and have more patience than I. I'd have told her just exactly and in explicit detail where he/she/it/we/they could shove it a long time ago. Thank God for the iggy button.

 

[catalina_francisco]

You're nicer and have more patience than I. I'd have told her just exactly and in explicit detail where he/she/it/we/they could shove it a long time ago. Thank God for the iggy button.

LOL, did you see she has gone to the Author's Forum under her other alt now and is calling Homburg a racist?

Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

LOL, did you see she has gone to the Author's Forum under her other alt now and is calling Homburg a racist?

Catalina

I noticed. I ALMOST posted, and then I said nope, too much trouble. I imagine if he/she/it/we/they keeps raising too much hell, her IP address will get banned, anyway.

I'm starting to think he/she/it/we/they may be several alts of a regular poster, though. I have my suspicions about who it may be, but I honestly don't care enough to go back and figure it out, even though I'm pretty good at doing that. Just ask my ex about all the profiles on CollarMe he thought no one knew was him that I busted him on. Actually, I've done it to more than one person.

*Sigh* This little psychodrama has become tedious now.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I have my suspicions about who it may be,

Yep, seems a few of us have suspicions and seems one name is popping up.


Catalina

 

[BiBunny]

Yep, seems a few of us have suspicions and seems one name is popping up.


Catalina

I figured as much.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I figured as much.

Oh well, it is a shame she wasted so much time deleting her posts. I checked and if anything came of her threats of going to daddy's attorney's and she wasn't locked up for insanity checks, they might be silly enough to decide to check with Lit (and us), and the minute we say about her threats of physical violence they will no doubt be wise enough to check all computers she has access to and soon find all the posts she made and deleted. Apparently, as I suspected, they remain on the hard drive. If I was daddy, I would disown her and claim she was some baglady who followed him home and tried to shake him down for all his money.

Catalina

 

[A Desert Rose]

Oh well, it is a shame she wasted so much time deleting her posts. I checked and if anything came of her threats of going to daddy's attorney's and she wasn't locked up for insanity checks, they might be silly enough to decide to check with Lit (and us), and the minute we say about her threats of physical violence they will no doubt be wise enough to check all computers she has access to and soon find all the posts she made and deleted. Apparently, as I suspected, they remain on the hard drive. If I was daddy, I would disown her and claim she was some baglady who followed him home and tried to shake him down for all his money.
Catalina

You been talking to WD about me?

 

[catalina_francisco]

You been talking to WD about me?

LOL, no!

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Oh well, it is a shame she wasted so much time deleting her posts. I checked and if anything came of her threats of going to daddy's attorney's and she wasn't locked up for insanity checks, they might be silly enough to decide to check with Lit (and us), and the minute we say about her threats of physical violence they will no doubt be wise enough to check all computers she has access to and soon find all the posts she made and deleted. Apparently, as I suspected, they remain on the hard drive. If I was daddy, I would disown her and claim she was some baglady who followed him home and tried to shake him down for all his money.

Catalina

Out of curiousity sake, I still have her PM's to me.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Out of curiousity sake, I still have her PM's to me.

Yep, me too..I didn't bother opening the last couple as it seemed they were all repetitive and the heading always was a good indicator of what was going to be coming.

Catalina