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A Desert Rose

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Lit is not a place for courtesy, respect, or nice people

That title/statement really gripes me.

The only way I can make sure everyone reads this is by making a new thread, otherwise, a post would be totally ignored or missed. And I am not going to encourage the negative behavior of someone who is completely clueless by adding my post to his/her juvenile threads.

If you want to know how caring and nice people can be read this: (spoiler: it's my brain tumor thread for those of you who don't want to read it)

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=426694

This is how nice and caring people can be. This is how they can feel for a total stranger.

How awful it is that anyone can be so offensive and mean to so many nice people. I'm sorry that your life must be this miserable.

Okay, I had to get this off my chest.
That's all I have to say.
 
Thank you for starting this thread. Her posts really offended me, and I'm not easily offended!
 
Yeah, i really let her get to me too. It's been a bad bad night.
 
Yeah, i really let her get to me too. It's been a bad bad night.

It's easy to let these kinds of people get to you. ;-) But I wanted to remind everyone, especially lurkers, just how caring and nice people here are.

I'm just one person. I can dig up lots and lots of threads like mine, where people have come together to support a poster. (minx comes to mind, immediately.)

There are many nice people here and they need to be celebrated and thanked. To hell with the nastiness of people who are so unhappy in their lives. I have no time for that.

Life is too fucking short.

You are all good and caring people.
 
Some of my closest friends are Listers. I don't care that I can't meet half of my friends in person for coffee or a walk through the mall together ... these people are REAL to me .... my REAL FRIENDS.

I can confide to Litsters and trust more Litsters with the secrets of my life than I can my own family or "real life" friends. Anyone who says this is not a place for nice people is ...... Well, I just feel sorry for that person.

And, to my friends here: I love y'all soooo much. You make me smile, and you make me feel like it's okay to be the kinkster I am. :heart:
 
Some of my closest friends are Listers. I don't care that I can't meet half of my friends in person for coffee or a walk through the mall together ... these people are REAL to me .... my REAL FRIENDS.

I can confide to Litsters and trust more Litsters with the secrets of my life than I can my own family or "real life" friends. Anyone who says this is not a place for nice people is ...... Well, I just feel sorry for that person.

And, to my friends here: I love y'all soooo much. You make me smile, and you make me feel like it's okay to be the kinkster I am. :heart:

Well let's not go crazy. ;) I like y'all.
 
Consider the source and not let her get to you. She is obviously a very sick individual. Lots of anger and violence there. And an elevated sense of entitlement. There are a lot of really good people here. Thanks, ADR, for the reminder. :rose:
 
Pink, I hope you came the conclusion that it's not worth it and you shouldn't let her get to you, you're worth more than that.
 
Consider the source and not let her get to you. She is obviously a very sick individual. Lots of anger and violence there. And an elevated sense of entitlement. There are a lot of really good people here. Thanks, ADR, for the reminder. :rose:
;-D

I agree, I think we should talk about the good things and the acts of good people here and not the rantings of someone who is having some serious problems.
 
I see 35 pages of her here. If we'd just put her on ignore she'd go away. And if you put someone on ignore their threads don't even show up.
 
Dude, I don't get to jack threads with this much impunity any other time. Let me have my fun, at least until I run out of good karaoke songs, ok? ;)

As to the OP, ADR is right. This place is pretty cool. :)
 
I see 35 pages of her here. If we'd just put her on ignore she'd go away. And if you put someone on ignore their threads don't even show up.
Yes and then we could all concentrate on the good uplifting parts of Lit, roast marshmellows and sing kumbya (or however you spell it.)

I know how corny I must sound in this thread...

Dude, I don't get to jack threads with this much impunity any other time. Let me have my fun, at least until I run out of good karaoke songs, ok? ;)

As to the OP, ADR is right. This place is pretty cool. :)
You can do all the karaoke you want to, right here. ;-)
 
Well I can tell you as well.. Ive met some of my greatest friends here on Lit.. People who accept me for me... As to this person who is harrassing everyone I was debating joining in and jumping her and someone very close to me said to let it be.. I adore her so much I did let it go..

People are wonderful; here and do deserve to be treated like she has been treating them ignore her and shell slink away...

:rose:
 
Oh I never took offense to it. I knew it was BS because between my evil alt and this incarnation, I've only been on Lit for a year, but I've met some of the nicest, most empathetic and caring people here.

So whatever. I love ya'll. I don't care if I look silly.;)

I even like ITW. :D:kiss::kiss::kiss:
 
I agree. I have met some of the most awesome people I know here. I know I've lurked much more than I've posted, but I've read nearly everything and I've learned a ton. Even when I've disagreed with someone or had them disagree with me, it was done in a polite, respectful manner from people who owe me neither. You guys are terrific.

And while I agree we should ignore the resident idiot, I appreciate the need for comic relief.
 
Amen.
Life is indeed way too short.

(Oh, and ADR, I just realized where you live...we don't need to go to Havasu to play golf... is there a nice course in Bagdad? I've never been there, but would like to say I had....)

However we need to wait until September or October. It is just too bloody hot right now. Unless we meet in Alpine or Greer or maybe Alaska....

~LB
 
who or what are we talking about?

Hi ADR! Glad you are feeling better :)
 
is there a nice course in Bagdad? I've never been there, but would like to say I had....)

However we need to wait until September or October. It is just too bloody hot right now. Unless we meet in Alpine or Greer or maybe Alaska....

~LB

A golf course in Bagdad? Now Alpine or Greer . . . if you guys head up there, let me know. While I hate snow, I sometimes miss living up there, especially when it hits 115 down here in the Valley.
 
A golf course in Bagdad? Now Alpine or Greer . . . if you guys head up there, let me know. While I hate snow, I sometimes miss living up there, especially when it hits 115 down here in the Valley.

Ooooh we have threesome, I think. We just need a 4th.
We just need to agree on the proper altitude. Find me a place where I need to wear a sweater in August and I'm on.

Greer is probably too far for ADR.....where else can we go to play golf where it is just a bit cooler than hell?

~LB
 
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