Lit is not a place for courtesy, respect, or nice people

[PrincessGoddess]

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[desertslave]

There's a clique? I suppose I shouldn't be surprised, there's always a clique or cabal somewhere in the shadows.

If it's a "respect is earned" kind of clique, I wanna join, when's the initiation? I'm not usually a joiner, but I'd make an exception just this once.

 

[twysted73]

I'm soorry that I don't meet your "status quo". I am not sorry that I believe long held views in the Lifestyle should be challenged to see if they still hold value today. It's too bad that opinions different from the "clique" on this site are attempted to be silenced by those who don't have that power outside the Literotica forums.

Leslie, The Princess Goddess
Princess Angel

I'm all for freedom of thought and speach.
When I first logged on here I noticed one helluva clique connection. But I kept posting.

What was said that made you angry? Or are you beyond the point of caring to explain?

Either would be fine. I happen to think Lit's a pretty good place. It has it's quirks and quirky people. But then so do most local munches.


*finds the beginning of all of this...and quietly slips out of the room whisteling***

 

[pink]

Should i or shouldn't i, should i or shouldn't i. Oh fuck it.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/images/300/baby_crying_closeup.jpg

 

[the captians wench]

I'm soorry that I don't meet your "status quo". I am not sorry that I believe long held views in the Lifestyle should be challenged to see if they still hold value today. It's too bad that opinions different from the "clique" on this site are attempted to be silenced by those who don't have that power outside the Literotica forums.

Leslie, The Princess Goddess
Princess Angel

Respect is yet another thing that is judged on an individual basis. I, for example, believe it is disrespectful to end a request with "NOW". This however is my opinion, and you have already once stated that the opinions of a sub on a subject that does not directly address them are irrelevant, and that for me simply speaking would be disrespectful.

I'm sorry if you did not find this board full of submissive who have been taught that a submissive is to be seen and not heard. This would be a much slower board if that was what you had found, for sure.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Leslie, The Princess Goddess
Princess Angel[/COLOR]

I'm a bit confused, Leslie. Are you a princess goddess or a princess angel? Is it possible to be both at the same time? Wouldn't being a goddess completely negate being an angel?

 

[catalina_francisco]

As you feel your words and such are so prize worthy, and I wouldn't want to offend by using inferior slave originated language, I will quote your own words back to which you keep repeating in PM after PM to me SHAME ON YOU. Thought you claimed to be original and unique? If so, find some new phrases to use instead of harping out the same dialogue on and offline, please. If you want people to be nice to you and offer some respect, first you need to be nice to them and give them respect...simple really. This forum is not about agreeing with everyone and everything, it is about having adult discussions where we recognise everyone is different and thus have different experiences and views, and everyone has an opinion and something to say on one thing or another, and respecting their right to do so, and still talking to them the next day or in the next thread like adults.

Catalina

 

[WriterDom]

Well damn. You'd think it was me that sent the PM titled FUCK OFF.

 

[subbie_333]

Lit is not a place for courtesy, respect, or nice people

OK, now i am confused. Is "courtesy, respect, or nice" what we want, or, not what we want? And, if we are here, then, we are here because we want what is here. Or..... not?


subbie_333

 

[PrincessGoddess]

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[PrincessGoddess]

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[desertslave]

I have had someone stand up before duriing a presentation of mine in a public meetiing on proposed road construction projects, stating "no one wants to hear what you have to say", almost like today. Yet, what followed immediately were seven people who stood up to declare that they wanted to hear the entire presentation, because the information that I was providing was accurate, fully sourced, and important to the subject matter at hand.

I did not deserve that then or now. No one does. If you can't interact with others without looking to find fault in them, to bully them, to denegrate and ridicule them, then you have a huge self-esteem problem that you need to examine further. I love myself, and do not require validation of that fact from persons here, or elsewhere. When did simple courtesy fall so much out of fashion?

So, this justifies your stating that all of the submissives' opinions or questions were unwelcome and unimportant (in your other thread) how?

 

[catalina_francisco]

I was treated nicely here until a few people did not like the fact that I stated, in my opinion, that training methods such as 3rd person speech were nothing more than "busy work" for the trainee, and gave an ego boost to their Dominant. THEN, the small group of exceedingly long time posters in this forum decided to attack the messenger, and the piling on began.

Now this is strange as I didn't see anyone attack you for this (at least not in the thread where you have claimed to be under attack)and if you knew more about the forum you would know why, because most here are not into it and find it tedious to read through and translate into normal speech when they are tired, busy, skimming etc.,. More often than not, if someone does come here and begin using it, they are politely told it is not required here and might even deter people from reading their posts if it becomes a problem for them. What they do after that is their choice but most drop it and speak like everyone else on the forum at least. I get the feeling you like playing victim but it isn't a very useful role to play IMHO.

Catalina

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

A PM to me from the thread starter.

Next time you try to start shit I will report you and keep reporting you. YOU CANNOT BE A MAN BECAUSE YOU DO NOT RESPECT WOMEN YOU DON'T KNOW. HOW DARE YOU!

After this exchange in her other thread:

I'll pass.

I don't give a damn what you do

LOL...

Me thinks the lady doth protest too much.

 

[WriterDom]

I permit no male to be verbally abusive to me. You included. .

All I did was point out that 2 weeks ago you were the "Total sub." With not even an abusive tone. So FUCK OFF as you say.

 

[EmpressFi]

Wow.. I go away and hang out with family at a picnic and come back to this.. I'm never leaving my computer again

 

[PrincessGoddess]

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[catalina_francisco]

All I did was point out that 2 weeks ago you were the "Total sub." With not even an abusive tone. So FUCK OFF as you say.

Not even just 2 weeks ago...this was posted Friday (less than 48 hours ago) claiming to be submissive though suspecting maybe a switch. Yanno, I hate discrimination, but I hate it even more when it comes from someone who claims to belong to the group they are discriminating against. Just smacks of hypocrisy at best, dishonesty at worst. But I forget myself, we are all the ones who have to prove we are real and up to scratch...yeah, I can understand that.

Catalina

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Go and harass someone else. You thought you were cute, and you were just making stupidity. Looks like you are the one crying about the fact that ANOTHER woman won't put up with your garbage.

How does "making stupidity" work? Is it like making bread? Making cookies? Making one's bed?

Please explain. Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[PrincessGoddess]

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[catalina_francisco]

Wow.. I go away and hang out with family at a picnic and come back to this.. I'm never leaving my computer again

LOL, chained?

Catalina

 

[Big Poppa]

ANOTHER woman

 

[catalina_francisco]

Any submissive not directly related to me, or in my family, making a comment that is designed to prevent a fun discussion involving someting that they would not be involved in, is of no value and unimportant to me, when it is my thread.

I guess you have problems reading and comprehending as well as I have told you a couple of times now (as have others) that Lit does not award ownership of a thread to the thread owner, it belongs to Lit. So no, it was not your thread, it was the forum's and Lit's and as such open to anyone who wished to post to it.

Catalina

 

[PrincessGoddess]

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[BiBunny]

Not even just 2 weeks ago...this was posted Friday (less than 48 hours ago) claiming to be submissive though suspecting maybe a switch. Yanno, I hate discrimination, but I hate it even more when it comes from someone who claims to belong to the group they are discriminating against. Just smacks of hypocrisy at best, dishonesty at worst. But I forget myself, we are all the ones who have to prove we are real and up to scratch...yeah, I can understand that.

Catalina

Well, I'll accept all forms of photos of Lit posters in compromising positions, and then I'll be glad to post my "Real" or "Fake" verdict. All in the name of helping the community, of course.

So pony up, bitches.