New faces, come say hello...
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Hello all...
Well, hello everyone!
My name is Candace and I'm new to both Lit and the whole lifestyle. I've never had a Master or Sir before... but I can't wait until I do. I've been reading about BDSM for a long time now and am really ready to experience it myself!
I'm excited to read and learn from everyone here!
Well, hello everyone!
My name is Candace and I'm new to both Lit and the whole lifestyle. I've never had a Master or Sir before... but I can't wait until I do. I've been reading about BDSM for a long time now and am really ready to experience it myself!
I'm excited to read and learn from everyone here!
trisquel_astur
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Welcome to our fancy dungeon, newbies!
Here you will find...
Friends, Masters, Subbies, Spanks...
and hugs in thread!
Angel
Here you will find...
Friends, Masters, Subbies, Spanks...
and hugs in thread!
Angel
Welcome Csassy.
I hope you enjoy your journey into BDSM.
Thank you,
I'm sure I will enjoy my journey... just have to find the right guide
FurryFury
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Thank you,
I'm sure I will enjoy my journey... just have to find the right guide
That can be tricky. You have to kiss a lot of frogs usually. Still it's worth it even if you never find the right guide. You learn so much and can enjoy a great deal.
DVS
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Did someone request a guide? Is that the same as a trainer?That can be tricky. You have to kiss a lot of frogs usually. Still it's worth it even if you never find the right guide. You learn so much and can enjoy a great deal.
Oh, wait. Maybe I'm one of the frogs.
MasterTennessee
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Tennessee
Well, hello. By way of introduction, I'll just repost my bdsm personal ad below:
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TENNESSEE Dom Master seeks submissive female or cuckold couple.
Dom w/m, 40, 5'9", 170, average-looking, seeks a sub/slave white female or couples that meets the following criteria:
clean, discrete, sane, HWP, adventurous, open-minded, d/d free, creative, deep desire to serve her Master, shaved, and willing to correspond in detail about sexual desires, kinks/fetishes, turn-ons, fantasies, and experiences
I do not want to be bothered with anyone who is not serious about meeting. I live in west TN and am looking for someone local. If you don't live in Tenn there's not much use in contacting me. I'm not looking for notches on the bedpost, I want one quality female/couple.
I am open as to age and experience level. No lone males.
Just to let you know, I am married, but my wife does not play and does not know about all this.
Brief Introduction:
I am intelligent, articulate, adventurous, creative, and witty. I am graceful, sensuous, and endearing - but devious, taunting, playful and provocative by turns. I'm dominant without being overly cocky, but during specific playtime can be condescending and demeaning. My public life and private life are two distinct and separable entities.
I have exacting standards, exquisite taste, and a cultured appreciation for the finer submissives in life. I have a commanding passion for social beauty and I require the graceful movement of a well-trained slave and the loyal adoration of an obedient pet. It is my nature to control, direct, and discipline and I seek only the service of those who find their life purpose in exceeding my expectations.
I insist on intelligence, passion, adventurousness, obedience, and loyalty. I have no interest in a slave who has no ability to think on their own. I should not have to shout or repeat commands - they should learn to anticipate my needs and desires before I even need to tell them. Servants must be able to accept punishment, criticism, humiliation, and compliments with the same grace and use them to improve and better themselves. In addition, they must be emotionally mature, sexually open-minded, and able to share thoughts and desires with honesty and respect.
There is a very strong connection and intimacy inherent to the Master/slave dynamic. I do not focus solely on heavy pain play, although I do have a bit of the sadist in me at times. I am equally interested in pain infliction and obedience through mind control. I am fully capable of lashing out all types of training, to include power exchange, sensory deprivation, leather/chain bondage, confinement, chores, numerous punishment techniques, servitude, humiliation, mild face-slapping, groping, rough intercourse, orgasm denial, golden showers, and psychological domination.
Slaves should be wise enough to understand that the journey to the fantasy of erotic and passionate pleasure is as much, if not more, pleasing than reaching the destination itself. The journey should be traveled slowly, savored, and filled with anticipation. I refuse to be rushed in my techniques. Extensive foreplay will be accomplished through detailed rituals and symbolism. These will take time and will color much of our activities.
A little more detail to add about my desires as I seek the perfect slave ….
I am not looking for a romantic relationship with my slave - this is not to say that I do not consider it a serious and very intimate relationship - and one that is essential to our feeling satisfied, happy, complete, and fulfilled. There will be no drama, baggage, or other such nonsense allowed. I am a fair, loving, reasonable Master – but make no mistake, when I am around, my servant will be owned and will be my pet, to play with, to train, and to discipline as I see fit.
I fully expect my submissive to acknowledge my supreme authority, the superiority of my cock, and my esteemed status and position as her Lord and Master. My slavegirl will address me by my proper title without being prompted to do so. My little whore will develop a reputation for humility, service, and cock worship.
I have an innate desire to own and punish slaves, to dominate and control, and to be served with skill and grace by devoted and dedicated submissives. Slaves shall explore and grow through my direction and guidance. Slaves will delve into the darker corners of their desires to submit. Slaves will add to and enhance our lives through their service and worship. This is a need that can only be filled by the right submissive slavegirl.
My slaves must understand that sometimes they will be administered correction to address specific behavioral issues, but most of the time discipline is done because it pleases me to demonstrate my complete ownership and control of their minds and bodies. Few things please me more than the sight of freshly disciplined bright pink or reddened bottom. I do not leave permanent marks or administer harsh pain – more stimuli and “playful pain”.
Slaves are fully expected to enthusiastically submit to any form of correction I administer and to maintain a positive attitude throughout. They must realize that punishment is for their own good and it will help them grow spiritually and gain sexual maturity. There are times when begging and even crying will not only be allowed, but may be actively encouraged. Many times, slave will be expected to thank me for their punishments or to assist in their punishment by counting lashes, etc. A slave should rarely be silent during punishment, as this might give their feeble minds time to daydream. Slaves should express words or noises, whether of pain or pleasure. The fact that a slave may be gagged at the time will not excuse this requirement.
The female slave will keep her vagina, legs, and anal area closely shaven or waxed at all times when the Master is expected. To satisfy her Lord’s kinks, she shall keep her feet properly pedicured, clean, softened, and shall maintain a meticulous attention to detail in the painting of her toes in bright sexy colors. She shall develop and maintain the ability to confidently and gracefully walk in very high heels, the style and color of which the Master will dictate. She will not make permanent or semi-permanent modifications to her hair or body without authorization from her Master.
The female slave will be hygienically clean, but not adorned in perfume, as the Master desires to inhale her natural scents and enjoy the natural taste of her neck and ears and skin. The female will be adorned in sensual garments and erotic accessories which she feels will make her more desirable to her Lord’s sexual tastes.
On occasion, a slave may be given an option of submitting to a particularly cruel punishment or performing some extreme sexual task. A slave should always be eager to participate in the Master’s perversions; however, should the slave feel she is unable to comply, the slave will never tell the Master “no.” This would falsely suggest the slave had free will. Instead, the slave will be more respectful and show humility by saying, “not unless it pleases you, my Lord.” In this manner, the slave lets the Master know her preference, but at the same time acknowledges the Master is entitled to continue as He sees fit.
If you are interested in experiencing your secret fantasies, contact me here. I only check my mail once a week, so be patient..... or you'll be disciplined.
Well, hello. By way of introduction, I'll just repost my bdsm personal ad below:
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
TENNESSEE Dom Master seeks submissive female or cuckold couple.
Dom w/m, 40, 5'9", 170, average-looking, seeks a sub/slave white female or couples that meets the following criteria:
clean, discrete, sane, HWP, adventurous, open-minded, d/d free, creative, deep desire to serve her Master, shaved, and willing to correspond in detail about sexual desires, kinks/fetishes, turn-ons, fantasies, and experiences
I do not want to be bothered with anyone who is not serious about meeting. I live in west TN and am looking for someone local. If you don't live in Tenn there's not much use in contacting me. I'm not looking for notches on the bedpost, I want one quality female/couple.
I am open as to age and experience level. No lone males.
Just to let you know, I am married, but my wife does not play and does not know about all this.
Brief Introduction:
I am intelligent, articulate, adventurous, creative, and witty. I am graceful, sensuous, and endearing - but devious, taunting, playful and provocative by turns. I'm dominant without being overly cocky, but during specific playtime can be condescending and demeaning. My public life and private life are two distinct and separable entities.
I have exacting standards, exquisite taste, and a cultured appreciation for the finer submissives in life. I have a commanding passion for social beauty and I require the graceful movement of a well-trained slave and the loyal adoration of an obedient pet. It is my nature to control, direct, and discipline and I seek only the service of those who find their life purpose in exceeding my expectations.
I insist on intelligence, passion, adventurousness, obedience, and loyalty. I have no interest in a slave who has no ability to think on their own. I should not have to shout or repeat commands - they should learn to anticipate my needs and desires before I even need to tell them. Servants must be able to accept punishment, criticism, humiliation, and compliments with the same grace and use them to improve and better themselves. In addition, they must be emotionally mature, sexually open-minded, and able to share thoughts and desires with honesty and respect.
There is a very strong connection and intimacy inherent to the Master/slave dynamic. I do not focus solely on heavy pain play, although I do have a bit of the sadist in me at times. I am equally interested in pain infliction and obedience through mind control. I am fully capable of lashing out all types of training, to include power exchange, sensory deprivation, leather/chain bondage, confinement, chores, numerous punishment techniques, servitude, humiliation, mild face-slapping, groping, rough intercourse, orgasm denial, golden showers, and psychological domination.
Slaves should be wise enough to understand that the journey to the fantasy of erotic and passionate pleasure is as much, if not more, pleasing than reaching the destination itself. The journey should be traveled slowly, savored, and filled with anticipation. I refuse to be rushed in my techniques. Extensive foreplay will be accomplished through detailed rituals and symbolism. These will take time and will color much of our activities.
A little more detail to add about my desires as I seek the perfect slave ….
I am not looking for a romantic relationship with my slave - this is not to say that I do not consider it a serious and very intimate relationship - and one that is essential to our feeling satisfied, happy, complete, and fulfilled. There will be no drama, baggage, or other such nonsense allowed. I am a fair, loving, reasonable Master – but make no mistake, when I am around, my servant will be owned and will be my pet, to play with, to train, and to discipline as I see fit.
I fully expect my submissive to acknowledge my supreme authority, the superiority of my cock, and my esteemed status and position as her Lord and Master. My slavegirl will address me by my proper title without being prompted to do so. My little whore will develop a reputation for humility, service, and cock worship.
I have an innate desire to own and punish slaves, to dominate and control, and to be served with skill and grace by devoted and dedicated submissives. Slaves shall explore and grow through my direction and guidance. Slaves will delve into the darker corners of their desires to submit. Slaves will add to and enhance our lives through their service and worship. This is a need that can only be filled by the right submissive slavegirl.
My slaves must understand that sometimes they will be administered correction to address specific behavioral issues, but most of the time discipline is done because it pleases me to demonstrate my complete ownership and control of their minds and bodies. Few things please me more than the sight of freshly disciplined bright pink or reddened bottom. I do not leave permanent marks or administer harsh pain – more stimuli and “playful pain”.
Slaves are fully expected to enthusiastically submit to any form of correction I administer and to maintain a positive attitude throughout. They must realize that punishment is for their own good and it will help them grow spiritually and gain sexual maturity. There are times when begging and even crying will not only be allowed, but may be actively encouraged. Many times, slave will be expected to thank me for their punishments or to assist in their punishment by counting lashes, etc. A slave should rarely be silent during punishment, as this might give their feeble minds time to daydream. Slaves should express words or noises, whether of pain or pleasure. The fact that a slave may be gagged at the time will not excuse this requirement.
The female slave will keep her vagina, legs, and anal area closely shaven or waxed at all times when the Master is expected. To satisfy her Lord’s kinks, she shall keep her feet properly pedicured, clean, softened, and shall maintain a meticulous attention to detail in the painting of her toes in bright sexy colors. She shall develop and maintain the ability to confidently and gracefully walk in very high heels, the style and color of which the Master will dictate. She will not make permanent or semi-permanent modifications to her hair or body without authorization from her Master.
The female slave will be hygienically clean, but not adorned in perfume, as the Master desires to inhale her natural scents and enjoy the natural taste of her neck and ears and skin. The female will be adorned in sensual garments and erotic accessories which she feels will make her more desirable to her Lord’s sexual tastes.
On occasion, a slave may be given an option of submitting to a particularly cruel punishment or performing some extreme sexual task. A slave should always be eager to participate in the Master’s perversions; however, should the slave feel she is unable to comply, the slave will never tell the Master “no.” This would falsely suggest the slave had free will. Instead, the slave will be more respectful and show humility by saying, “not unless it pleases you, my Lord.” In this manner, the slave lets the Master know her preference, but at the same time acknowledges the Master is entitled to continue as He sees fit.
If you are interested in experiencing your secret fantasies, contact me here. I only check my mail once a week, so be patient..... or you'll be disciplined.
DVS
A ghost from your dreams
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Ribbit. Sorry, that just slipped out.It can be, and you my friend are no frog. I have known frogs and you are not one of them!
taniaaust1
Virgin
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hi, i thought i'd drop in here and just introduce myself. Was interested in checking out this site as it's what my new sub sister has been reading (she's new to scene and of cause im trying to look out for my sis).
im 37 yrs old, in Sth Australia and are a 24/7 sub.
im currently needing to find a new Dom with my current Dom's approval, as my current relationship isnt suitable, currently emotionally harmful.
(His sub He lives with is very jealous of me and cant accept me thou He's tried to get her to accept me for the past 8 mths, hence that has caused a lot of issues for her and me..and also Him, so im needing to leave this relationship). im after full time and full acceptance.
umm not sure what else to say about myself.. just hi
im 37 yrs old, in Sth Australia and are a 24/7 sub.
im currently needing to find a new Dom with my current Dom's approval, as my current relationship isnt suitable, currently emotionally harmful.
(His sub He lives with is very jealous of me and cant accept me thou He's tried to get her to accept me for the past 8 mths, hence that has caused a lot of issues for her and me..and also Him, so im needing to leave this relationship). im after full time and full acceptance.
umm not sure what else to say about myself.. just hi
A question...
So, obviously I'm new here... and I have a question. I've been in and out of discussion boards but haven't really found what I'm looking for. If I was seriously looking for a Dom/Sir/Master... or someone to answer a few questions- what board to I post to exactly?
I noticed some frogs offering their services so I thought I'd start here first
So, obviously I'm new here... and I have a question. I've been in and out of discussion boards but haven't really found what I'm looking for. If I was seriously looking for a Dom/Sir/Master... or someone to answer a few questions- what board to I post to exactly?
I noticed some frogs offering their services so I thought I'd start here first
Hello,
My name is bri. I'm a sub and new to the scene. I live in southern cali. I'm not sure where to begin my new adventure but every one seems so nice and informative. All of the bulletins are wonderful. If any one would like to chat I would be happy to talk.
Thanks Bri
My name is bri. I'm a sub and new to the scene. I live in southern cali. I'm not sure where to begin my new adventure but every one seems so nice and informative. All of the bulletins are wonderful. If any one would like to chat I would be happy to talk.
Thanks Bri
proserpinechance
Virgin
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I was around for a while (under a different username), well over a year ago when I was just starting out with BDSM. Here I am again, very settled into my journey and more of a slut than I've ever been I switch these days, too. Good to see you all again.
I switch these days, too. Good to see you all again.
FurryFury
Addict of Sensation
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So, obviously I'm new here... and I have a question. I've been in and out of discussion boards but haven't really found what I'm looking for. If I was seriously looking for a Dom/Sir/Master... or someone to answer a few questions- what board to I post to exactly?
I noticed some frogs offering their services so I thought I'd start here first
Frankly, I think, you'd be better off posting here and sifting through the posts to see what made sense to you.
That would also quite possibly help you find the frogs and the Dom/mes you might actually wish for.
yourayouduke
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23 m
i want to say hi and let everyone know im into sexual teaseing, orgasm controil and denail,
im a switch and im looking for someone to talk over im
i want to say hi and let everyone know im into sexual teaseing, orgasm controil and denail,
im a switch and im looking for someone to talk over im
DVS
A ghost from your dreams
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Yes, introductions are fine here, but if you're looking for something specific, the personals forum might be a better place for that.Welcome Yourayouduke.
You might have better im luck via the personals section or in a chat room.
But, don't go there and not come back. This is a social forum. Come back and be social.
lilylicious
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saying hello
I'm a 35 year old bifem and brand new domme. While I do enjoy a sound spanking from time to time, I don't know if that qualifies me as a switch.
In the real world I'm a single mom, a writer and professionally I do freelance web design and search engine optimization work.
I've been a literotica reader for a while but a friend of mine who has been in the lifestyle for years suggested the forums as a source for the kind of info a new domme might find useful.
I was very recently asked by a guy I barely know if he could be my sub. His desire is to be sexually submissive to one woman and he asked me because he trusts me for some reason and we don't know each other well enough for there to be any emotional attachments yet. I agreed because of the latter and because the more we talked about it, the more turned on I became by the fact that this man wants to serve me, that he's willing to do whatever I say and that his only desire is to fulfill my desires.
Through my friend and the reading I've done, I have a rough idea but am turning to the forum here for more specifics on how to learn to be a good domme.
This is all requiring a major change in my thinking because when a man asks me what he can do to please me, the first thing that comes to mind is domestic chores. LOL. (I can't help it that a guy vacuuming, even fully clothed, turns me on as much as having clean carpets) Luckily my new sub wants to do those things.
My current strategy is to give him assignments which usually result in him having to tell me what he desires. Doing this I'm discovering he's way more dedicated than I first thought. For example he told me he can't wait until he can wake up at my feet ready to serve me after licking and rimming my ass until I fall asleep. His feedback gives me ideas for where he wants to go. And as far as where I want to take this? LOL. At this point I'm mostly thinking of him as a sexual cabana boy and gathering ideas from the stories and forum.
We are both very excited about this new endeavor and being the perfectionist that I am, I want to make sure I'm doing the best job I can. Any feedback any of you can provide would be very much appreciated, particularly from dommes.
I'm a 35 year old bifem and brand new domme. While I do enjoy a sound spanking from time to time, I don't know if that qualifies me as a switch.
In the real world I'm a single mom, a writer and professionally I do freelance web design and search engine optimization work.
I've been a literotica reader for a while but a friend of mine who has been in the lifestyle for years suggested the forums as a source for the kind of info a new domme might find useful.
I was very recently asked by a guy I barely know if he could be my sub. His desire is to be sexually submissive to one woman and he asked me because he trusts me for some reason and we don't know each other well enough for there to be any emotional attachments yet. I agreed because of the latter and because the more we talked about it, the more turned on I became by the fact that this man wants to serve me, that he's willing to do whatever I say and that his only desire is to fulfill my desires.
Through my friend and the reading I've done, I have a rough idea but am turning to the forum here for more specifics on how to learn to be a good domme.
This is all requiring a major change in my thinking because when a man asks me what he can do to please me, the first thing that comes to mind is domestic chores. LOL. (I can't help it that a guy vacuuming, even fully clothed, turns me on as much as having clean carpets) Luckily my new sub wants to do those things.
My current strategy is to give him assignments which usually result in him having to tell me what he desires. Doing this I'm discovering he's way more dedicated than I first thought. For example he told me he can't wait until he can wake up at my feet ready to serve me after licking and rimming my ass until I fall asleep. His feedback gives me ideas for where he wants to go. And as far as where I want to take this? LOL. At this point I'm mostly thinking of him as a sexual cabana boy and gathering ideas from the stories and forum.
We are both very excited about this new endeavor and being the perfectionist that I am, I want to make sure I'm doing the best job I can. Any feedback any of you can provide would be very much appreciated, particularly from dommes.
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