cati
Literally Rabid.
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Good morning....
I've been doing alot of reading lately and struggling with this issue for quite a while. Do any of you feel that your D/s relationship with your PYL might be co-dependant? I mean in the classic sense of co-dependency, where you are giving more than you should and they are giving you less than you feel is your due. That you often ignore your own RL problems to take care of your partner's issues.
- a situation where the healthy "give and take" necessary for an emotionally strong relationship is absent. ...but, that it's ok because you are a giving, supportive and understanding individual and you feel that your needs are just not as important as theirs.
Would co-dependency be expected as part of the normal functioning in a D/s or Master/slave relationship?
Do you think that many D/s relationships fail because they are co-dependent and one or the other partner just doesn't realize it or just doesn't care until it's too late and they wonder what went wrong?
I've been doing alot of reading lately and struggling with this issue for quite a while. Do any of you feel that your D/s relationship with your PYL might be co-dependant? I mean in the classic sense of co-dependency, where you are giving more than you should and they are giving you less than you feel is your due. That you often ignore your own RL problems to take care of your partner's issues.
- a situation where the healthy "give and take" necessary for an emotionally strong relationship is absent. ...but, that it's ok because you are a giving, supportive and understanding individual and you feel that your needs are just not as important as theirs.
Would co-dependency be expected as part of the normal functioning in a D/s or Master/slave relationship?
Do you think that many D/s relationships fail because they are co-dependent and one or the other partner just doesn't realize it or just doesn't care until it's too late and they wonder what went wrong?