What type is attracted to you?

[Wildcard Ky]

Through meeting some ladies online, I've recently discovered that Subs are somehow drawn to and very attracted to me. I've never displayed any dom characteristics that I know of, nor have I tried to appeal to subs in any way. Yet subs keep coming my way so to speak.

What is it about me that attracts subs? Is there a type that seems drawn to you?


I just found all of this interesting enough to start a thread on it on this slow day.

 

[voluptuary_manque]

Is there a type that seems drawn to you?

I'm so grateful for female attention of any kind that the last thing I'm going to do is start analyzing it. I'm afraid it might scare them away!

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

I'm not really into typology. I've had all kinds of women and men who were attracted to me. I've no idea what 'type' they were, and count myself lucky not to know. I just go with the flow.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Oh, I appeal to women with lots of facial hair and unaccustomed to wearing shoes; most are dentally challenged.

 

[Noor]

I attract Doms/Dommes though I am hardly a sub.

I attract silly men, but I like that.

I attract dog owners rather than cat owners.

I attract men who can cook.

I attract fairly bright interesting people, but maybe I just see the bright interesting parts of people. I attract mainly people who have forever friends.

 

[Salvor-Hardon]

I'd like to know, but :

1) I'm not sure of who is attracted to me and to what degree (a 1 to 10 scale perhaps)

2) What type of attraction is involved i.e. I'm a nice guy and fun to talk, or a flirtatious but nothing serious friendship, fantasy fodder but would never take it beyond the mental realms, wants to molest me but purely as a fuck buddy, sees me a potential life partner.

3) Does it extend beyond electronic forums, and how cold I ask real life people to participate in that kind of research.

4) Do I correctly interpret their intentions and feelings?

5) Do I cross reference Meyer Briggs personality types with birth order and socio-economic strata, body type, gender, kinks, sexual orientation, nationality and ethnicity?

6) what about me are they attracted to?

7) How well do they know me and my many facets and moods and personnas?

Granted I'd be fascinated to know. I'd love it truly but I doubt I'll never know to the depths that I would be satisfied.

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

Well, from my limited experience, I seem to attract assholes. (I'm referring to actual relationships I have had and not to anyone from here who might be attracted to me.)

I think it's because I'm quiet and reserved and they think they can just walk all over me.

As far as anyone on here who might be attracted to me... I don't know what type might be drawn to me because I really only know of one for sure who has taken much of an interest in me, and I've never asked why. Can't really come up with a type when there's only one to choose from.

 

[tickledkitty]

Nerdy, bespectacled, literary types. Thank God!

 

[Chantilyvamp]

I'm not really sure on here...well cept a few. Normally I attract a range...the dangerous to the safe and many shades in between. Though I don't really have most people telling me what it is about me that does attract them. I know the reasons of a couple of people and its rather nice really

 

[rgraham666]

Judging from the responses I get on the dating site I'm on, very few women are attracted to me.

Which wasn't a surprise.

 

[impressive]

I attract bi & bi-curious women, usually on the subby side, but there have been some exceptions. The dykes typically steer clear of bisexual women, thinking them either (a) uncertain of their sexuality or (b) contaminated by dick. The former, in my case, is utter bullshit. As for the latter, if someone is that repelled by dick, I'm not interested in gettin' jiggy with 'em. (Again, there have been some exceptions.)

With men, it varies. Most commonly, the subconscious sub type. The ones who'll top you -- if you tell them to.

 

[mansome]

Although I hate to generalize, I've discovered in the last 10 years or so that women 10 years older than me and often married have let me know in person that they were attracted to me while wanting something more than just an initial interaction...

 

[voluptuary_manque]

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[voluptuary_manque]

I attract bi & bi-curious women, usually on the subby side, but there have been some exceptions. The dykes typically steer clear of bisexual women, thinking them either (a) uncertain of their sexuality or (b) contaminated by dick. The former, in my case, is utter bullshit. As for the latter, if someone is that repelled by dick, I'm not interested in gettin' jiggy with 'em. (Again, there have been some exceptions.)

With men, it varies. Most commonly, the subconscious sub type. The ones who'll top you -- if you tell them to.

http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii177/1volupturary_manque/lol.gif

Damn! That's exactly what I want, a woman who will tell me to top her . . . and how to do it!

http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii177/1volupturary_manque/horny-1.gif

 

[TxRad]

At one time, I would have said the crazy ones and not in a good crazy way either.

As I've gotten older, it's now the blind ones if I'm lucky or want to get lucky.

 

[glynndah]

Well, judging from all the "Are you a sub?" PMs I get from newbies...

 

[Maeve_redux]

I'm not really sure on here...well cept a few. Normally I attract a range...the dangerous to the safe and many shades in between. Though I don't really have most people telling me what it is about me that does attract them. I know the reasons of a couple of people and its rather nice really

Boobies. -nods-

-ahem-

I don't. At least not in a sexual way, for the most part. Unless clueless counts as a type. As in having to pull them aside and say something along the lines of "Look, you fucktard, you're hot and I'm horny. Any questions?"

 

[Stella_Omega]

I had a funny, and sweet, thing happen at the show yesterday.

A woman I'd sold a wand to about three years ago came up and reintroduced herself. She told me she'd been thinking about me a lot and was really happy to see me-- because, she said, she is losing weight, and getting into fighting trim, and, said she, when she's in shape once more, and has a body worth playing with-- she wanted to know if I would top her.

She was so happy and excited, telling me this in a crowded booth... I took her around back and said; "You need to know that I'm bisexual, and sharing my energy with a man." (clever wording, eh?) She said she's one hundred percent heterosexual. Her husband can't do the topping thing, and would be uncomfortable with her bottoming to a man.

She said that bottoming for me would be one of her rewards for getting to a certain weight. So, we'll see, I might hear from her in a year or so...

 

[wehstar]

Have you considered that most people seem to have a submissive side. Could it just be that?

 

[voluptuary_manque]

I had a funny, and sweet, thing happen at the show yesterday.

A woman I'd sold a wand to about three years ago came up and reintroduced herself. She told me she'd been thinking about me a lot and was really happy to see me-- because, she said, she is losing weight, and getting into fighting trim, and, said she, when she's in shape once more, and has a body worth playing with-- she wanted to know if I would top her.

She was so happy and excited, telling me this in a crowded booth... I took her around back and said; "You need to know that I'm bisexual, and sharing my energy with a man." (clever wording, eh?) She said she's one hundred percent heterosexual. Her husband can't do the topping thing, and would be uncomfortable with her bottoming to a man.

She said that bottoming for me would be one of her rewards for getting to a certain weight. So, we'll see, I might hear from her in a year or so...

See, it's like I told Sweetness. Some women just radiate heat in the infra-red spectrum and some of us can detect it. http://i264.photobucket.com/albums/ii177/1volupturary_manque/horny.gif

 

[starrkers]

I'm too clueless to notice if I attract anyone. I think here there's a few who just follow me around for the AV

In life? I don't think people give me a second glance.

 

[Nirvanadragones]

Have you considered that most people seem to have a submissive side. Could it just be that?

Or that most people have a need to relate to whomever they are attracted to in whichever way feels right?

 

[feeeriek]

feee hasn't a clue...she would probably have to be hit upside the head and told hey i find you attractive

 

[impressive]

feee hasn't a clue...she would probably have to be hit upside the head and told hey i find you attractive

When you talk dirty to me, I find you very attractive.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Have you considered that most people seem to have a submissive side. Could it just be that?

Maybe not most people-- but maybe people who do, are more likely to act out in the safety of the internet?