Which is worse- bad sex or no sex?
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Bad sex is worse than no sex.
And depending on the situation, no orgasm could be counted under bad sex.
But bad sex is often a miscommunication issue.
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I concur.
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Sorry. No basis for comparison. Have had bad lovers, but have never had bad sex.
A bad lover is worse than no lover, though.
A bad lover is worse than no lover, though.
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Yeahh kinda like that "bad weed" thing....... I mean... really... how bad can it be before it's not better than no sex???
And to quote my hero..... "And what do you mean by sex?"
Does masturbation count as "having sex"??
The worse sex I have had for the last 5 years has been mostly in the category of "Now I know why I will never pay $400 for a high class Moscow hooker again!"
.....more of a "not worth the money" thing rather than I would have been happier without any sex.
Besides, the $400 could have gone for a new water heater for SSS....
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Bad sex is definitely worse than no sex. But...I don't think lack of orgasm has anything to do with good/bad sex. There are lots of times I don't have an orgasm even during really amazing sex and for me that doesn't make it any less amazing.
But I can say from my own no sex years that I much preferred not having sex with a partner to having bad sex with someone who didn't mean anything to me.
But I can say from my own no sex years that I much preferred not having sex with a partner to having bad sex with someone who didn't mean anything to me.
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Bad sex is worse than no sex. A year of bad sex with my ex proved that to me.
And I've had great sex without coming. I'm always more concerned about my partner that myself anyway.
And I've had great sex without coming. I'm always more concerned about my partner that myself anyway.
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Well I guess I understand your point but my experience of some two years without sex with my partner was horrible beyond belief and obviously symptomatic of serious problems....
Any episode of bad sex with a stranger would have been a god send to me...a respite from aching pain of loneliness.
alas..... I remained "faithful"....Fortunately examples of "bad sex" in my life have been extremely rare.... far less than the examples of great sex!
Ain't life grand?
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I had a twelve year stretch without sex.
The sex I had at the end of that twelve years was the worst I have ever had. It was still better than no sex. I didn't orgasm. I didn't really care.
I have also had good sex where I didn't orgasm. Intercourse three times and oral once in one day, with no finish. It was still good sex.
The sex I had at the end of that twelve years was the worst I have ever had. It was still better than no sex. I didn't orgasm. I didn't really care.
I have also had good sex where I didn't orgasm. Intercourse three times and oral once in one day, with no finish. It was still good sex.
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no sex versus bad sex.
No Sex please.
I'm frustrated enough without out an inattentive or poor lover to cope with.
Its what I'm fighting the fiance over. Kiss me like you fucking mean it or dont bother. I would rather have hours of cuddling than 30 seconds of nothing...but hurt feelings, frustrated libido and of course always being on the wet spot.
No Sex please.
I'm frustrated enough without out an inattentive or poor lover to cope with.
Its what I'm fighting the fiance over. Kiss me like you fucking mean it or dont bother. I would rather have hours of cuddling than 30 seconds of nothing...but hurt feelings, frustrated libido and of course always being on the wet spot.
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Bad sex is definitely worse.
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I agree...I can even deal with sex being mediocre but when it is purely bad, I would have rather just lived without it...Later, there is no regrets, no feeling of discomfort when they ask if it was good for you or if you would like to see them again, etc etc...I never want to hurt one's feelings...In essence, I should have known better and stopped while I was ahead when gut instinct told me the experience would not be a good one.
And for that matter, I could have just come home, logged on to Literotica and summoned a hot phone sex partner
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I agree...I can even deal with sex being mediocre but when it is purely bad, I would have rather just lived without it...Later, there is no regrets, no feeling of discomfort when they ask if it was good for you or if you would like to see them again, etc etc...I never want to hurt one's feelings...In essence, I should have known better and stopped while I was ahead when gut instinct told me the experience would not be a good one.
And for that matter, I could have just come home, logged on to Literotica and summoned a hot phone sex partner
Is that my phone ringing?
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I should have known not to let my secret out
You're just following your gut. What does your gut tell you now?
I'm with you. I think if it's bad due to inattention it's worse than if it's bad due to lack of skill. and when you know they are capable but not bothering...
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Bad sex is worse.
And I don't think "bad sex" has much to do with technique or what they did or didn't do - it's more a case of not connecting.
You come away from it feeling like you made an error of judgement, and at the back of your mind you know it would have been much better if you'd just stayed at home and masturbated. It's one of the worst feelings in the world.
And I don't think "bad sex" has much to do with technique or what they did or didn't do - it's more a case of not connecting.
You come away from it feeling like you made an error of judgement, and at the back of your mind you know it would have been much better if you'd just stayed at home and masturbated. It's one of the worst feelings in the world.
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Well said!
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lol...that you are testing me
Gotta make sure you don't have any STD's before we go any further. LMAO
Sorry I just had to say it. Isn't that what we all do before we decide someone is worthy of our lust and desire. So far you are passing with flying colors.
LaLaLilly
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I'm glad that you see me worthy so far...I wasn't sure since you have been throwing so many things at me lately
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I'm glad that you see me worthy so far...I wasn't sure since you have been throwing so many things at me lately
Well let me throw you a rope then and see what you do next.
