Collars and showing ownership

[annayarnkitten]

Ok, I am wondering how you DOM's show ownership over your sub. I am the sub and am looking for something physical to wear as a show that I am owned. I am thinkijng about a choker necklace, of some kind. So can you all post your physical bits of ownership? I need some ideas. Thanks

"Pain is Fear leaving the body"
Marine saying
"Then I must be REALLY scared"
my answer----sometimes---ok well my answer to the kids

 

[snowbyte]

My pyl has a rhinestone choker that she wears whenever we're not around family. She also has a necklack with a BDSM logo pendant that she wears almost all the time. But she is always wearing something visible. And she knows there's hell to pay if she doesn't.

 

[SweetErika]

He wears a recently-purchased, 17", snake-type (round and about 5mm wide), silver chain all the time. He needed something discreet for work and it couldn't be a bracelet, so this works well all around.

At home, BDSM events, and in scene, he wears a simple, 1", black leather dog collar that looks great on him and is very functional.

We don't really need to show ownership to anyone. We know we're committed to each other, and the collar is just a symbol for us and a tool for him. Take off the wedding rings and collars, and we're still married and D/s; anyone who's semi-observant should be able to see we're committed by the way we behave toward and talk about each other.

 

[her_soffie]

My Mistress has me wear a dog tag, which I wear attached to HER cock, so there is no mistake who it or I belong to.

 

[EmpressFi]

During the day I wear a necklace I made and when we're together, I wear a 2inch leather collar that he locks on and holds the key

But I'm with Erika, I dont need a symbol to remind me of whom I belong to.. I am bound to Malin and Master and know it by heart

 

[Homburg]

My gals both wear chokers that I made for them, and we're wearing anklets (until one broke, and the other took hers off in support). They have collars for play and sleeping. And one has a navel piercing with my initial hanging from it as a charm, and the other has a tattoo that incorporates my initials, both done at the request of the gal in question.

No, they don't need visible signs of ownership, but they both take comfort in bearing those signs, and I am pleased to see both wearing them.

 

[twysted73]

She wears a collar I had designed and made just for her whenever she can.

I have photos of it both off and on her.

They chill my spine each time I see them.


Je t`dore

 

[Bandit58]

This is mine

My collar

 

[SubKekiLee]

I Do not currently have one as he has not decided to collar me as of yet, We have been together for 7 months but he does not take collaring lightly, although he has said to me that I will have 2 collars one I can wear daily that I will know is one will be my "daily" sign of his commitment to me and US and then I will have my play collar that I would wear in private or lifestyle functions or in functions that would be suitable to wear it. But to be honest I do not need anything materialistic to prove his love, care or respect for me I know in my heart wholeheartly how he feels about me he shows it everyday in his actions tword me....

To my Sir
YOU know what you mean to me everyday..YOU are in my waking thoughts, my last thought that run through my head before I sleep and in my dreams....As I have told you before there is no place I feel no more complete than at your side at your feet...

 

[LMs_ds]

i wear two things that are symbolic of my enslavement. A simple gold ring on my right hand (i can wear another ring against it and make it less "visible" if necessary) and a gold bracelet on my right wrist. Neither comes off except when medically necessary.

When we're together and in private, i wear a leather collar.

LM wears a bracelet of braided horsehair that reminds Him of me.

 

[licker4450]

I have my slaves wear collars to show their ownership. I also had one tattoed in the past.

 

[EmpressFi]

Hmm lemme see

I wear nipple rings (although that was something I was thinking of getting anyway)
I wear a silver pinky ring with two cats on it, one sitting, one curled up at the others feet
I wear my necklace every day
I wear his birthstone in my ear to represent his part in our family (as I'm married)
And on date nights, I wear my collar

but even when naked, completely naked.. I'm still owned by him.. it's something stamped on my heart and doesnt need a symbol

 

[desertslave]

I'm His no matter what I do or don't wear, but we have a few symbols. I wear a simple silver neck chain in a figaro pattern all the time. He's also had my outer labia pierced, my clit hood, and my nipples (the right one he did himself, that's my favorite ). All the rings except the hood are the fully curved barbell-type with an extra bead in the middle. Master's ears are pierced and he wears the same style rings as I wear. It blew me away when he did that!

 

[akittenone]

kittens previous owner had her wear a gold necklace 24/7 with His initials on to show His ownership, this never left her throat. During a scene or at meetings with like minded people kitten wore a leather collar with rings attatched with her name burnt on the back and Masters on the front.

As of yet kittens new Master has not collared her and if kitten is honest she misses the symbolism, kitten knows she is owned but kitten is a tactile person and loves the feeling of that ownership as well as the knowledge, there is a ' feeling of safety' when you run your fingers over a symbol of ownership.

 

[myinnerslut]

My gals both wear chokers that I made for them, and we're wearing anklets (until one broke, and the other took hers off in support). They have collars for play and sleeping. And one has a navel piercing with my initial hanging from it as a charm, and the other has a tattoo that incorporates my initials, both done at the request of the gal in question.

No, they don't need visible signs of ownership, but they both take comfort in bearing those signs, and I am pleased to see both wearing them.

in addition, i wear an anklet that has a closed enclosures so it cant be removed short of taking out a pair of pliers or wire cutters. on it is strung my slave registrar number in silver beads. i call it my slave ID.

viv has one as well.

 

[the captians wench]

No i don't need a symbol, but it's comforting in its own way and does have significance.

I''ve been on vacation this week, so I've been able to wear my collar all week only taking it off to shower. It does help me feel closer to him sometimes. It's a simple black dog collar with a purple heart tag that reads "if found please return to Ireland" *giggles* I told him I'm wearing it when I get off the plane so he'd better be prepared for it.

I also have a broach I wear at work that he gave me. It wasn't given to me to symbolize anything. Not something from master to slave, but a Christmas gift from one lover to the other. I cherish it and wear it mostly every day to work now. I've even started requesting work shirts that I know will match it. It's simple, silver kind of an elongated diamond shape, with little crystals embedded and one rectangle emerald in the center. Very fitting as Ireland is "the emerald isle" he's the center of my world, as the emerald is the center of the broach.

We used to talk about branding, but i think he might not be as interested in that anymore. The idea has come up of getting my nipples pierced when I'm over there, but so far it's just a passing thought.

I did have a collar I wore from some one else. I treasured it immensely. It was simple, made from two bicycle spokes (biking a passion of his) and locked in the front. In the front the lock was silver, and had a rhinestone 'g' on it for my pet name "giggles". I wore it barely taking it off. it was nice enough that I could wear it to work even with out anyone making a fuss. but it wasn't comfortable to sleep in.

 

[Homburg]

I did have a collar I wore from some one else. I treasured it immensely. It was simple, made from two bicycle spokes (biking a passion of his) and locked in the front. In the front the lock was silver, and had a rhinestone 'g' on it for my pet name "giggles". I wore it barely taking it off. it was nice enough that I could wear it to work even with out anyone making a fuss. but it wasn't comfortable to sleep in.

I still really dig the idea of the bicycle spokes. So cool to make it out of something from his life. I've made a few things like that before, such as the keychain woven from the popper from my whip that MIS carries.

 

[the captians wench]

I still really dig the idea of the bicycle spokes. So cool to make it out of something from his life. I've made a few things like that before, such as the keychain woven from the popper from my whip that MIS carries.

It was very special to me, and ment more to me than anything that could have been bought in a store. It was also the first collar that had been given to me by some one else, I bought the collar and tag that I wear that has Jounar connected to it. It will probably always be one of the most touching gifts I have ever recieved, and it will always be dear to my heart. Even if it doesn't don my neck anylonger.