Less-Than-Perfect Girl

[wishing_star]

Atten-shun!

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[tandoor]

Good post, wishing star

Wishing you luck!

 

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[silken_sarah]

You go, girl! Honesty is the only way to go.

PM sent, and good luck!

~sarah

 

[nawtybone]

hello

hey there girl
I would like to be your friend.. And its not pity ok, its basically a case of me thinking that EVERYONE has something good about them that i could learn, and maybe i could share some of myself and being far far away from you, we could exchange a lot re culture, customs, trends, etc.
Maybe i'm not what you're looking for, but hey..... You'll never know if you don't try.
I love the upfront honesty. I just wish everyone could be so bold.

He however, you don't reply, i still salute you for your boldness.

 

[NNJ LAZ]

Greetings from New Jersey

I would be please to have conversation with you, should you so choose to. It can be about whatever you wish. I am a better listener and sounding board actually. And I am not judgemental in the least, for what it is worth. Finally, believe it or not, I understand the things that you say, to the degree that I do. As I was a bit uneasy around most folks most of my life for my own reasons, it sounds like we have a little bit in common, long story short. Weather the story will continue beyond this shall be up to you. In any event, good luck on your lifes journey should I not hear back from you.

Be well

 

[wishing_star]

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[drew62]

Im sure you can find someone on Lit to get to know better and be yourself with. There are a lot of cool people on here, but as in real life there are those who will try and take advantage of you. It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, so just jump in and start conversing with people that seem interesting!

 

[Laletta]

Hope you find what you are looking for, I know how you feel I've been in that boat before and still am, but now i have a little boy to help so...Good Luck!

 

[nergis]

You sound like someone who's on my wavelength. PM sent.

 

[Borrowed_Mule]

You sound like a pretty complete person to me. I mean heck, many of us fear our shortcomings and tend to hide them under our sleeves.
You sound like you have very much to offer in a friendship.
A good life is a well lived in life, now matter how you choose to live it.
We should chat sometime.

 

[King_Arthur]

PM sent

 

[hotpup]

Best post I've ever read on here

Confused by the tone of some of my PM's, I just read over my post again, and realised how it must have come across.

I'm not depressed. My self-esteem is pretty high. Though my initial post focuses on the negatives, there are significant positive aspects of my character. I am intelligent, caring, great with children, dedicated, hardworking, a (relatively) good singer, and a great actress.

The reason my post dwells so much on the negative pieces is because I want to start some friendships with total honesty-- I don't want to come across as anything I'm not. And I don't want to waste my time with people who won't accept me for who I am.

I'm usually pretty content with my quiet life, but lately I've grown very restless. I grow frustrated by friends who only see one or two pieces of my personality and think of me as someone I'm not. I'm really searching, I suppose, for someone with whom I am fully myself, not a sanitised version that must be practised over and over until I am safe in my deception.

I'm not looking for a shoulder to cry on; I'm not looking for sympathy. I'm looking for an imperfect person who is willing to befriend another.

Your posts are honest and up front. I am only sorry that I don't fit your criterea but truly understand your feelings. I am honored to give your thread a bump so more folks will read it and increase your chances of finding a good friendship.
Take care from another Midwesterner

 

[x_factor_x]

hey there

PM sent

 

[wishing_star]

...still looking...

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[wolf00]

imperfections make people......perfect or at least that is what i say

 

[UCJ]

Congrats!!!

I applaud you. As many have already stated, it takes a brave and bold person to openly and honestly critique themselves. I'm working on getting there myself! Keep posting...

 

[King_Arthur]

PM sent

Wishing Star: You have not replied to my PM.

 

[wishing_star]

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[curiouslylookin]

Good Luck in your search.

 

[wishing_star]

Thanks

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[bones73]

wow

You have a very honest thread and wish you the best in your search we should hopefully become easier. By that I mean you can open yourself up more to online friends without the repercussions in your "real" life. After a while of talkign to friends online you may start sharing more facets of yourself with the people that have been by you all along. It may take a little adjustment on thier part but I am sure it will make that relationship more fulfilling in the end. If you would like to chat more just shoot me a PM I would be more than happy to chat with you.

 

[Malerick]

I have to say you are a very unusual person to find on message board - your honesty and willingness to express yourself honestly is something I find quite refreshing from the many bullshitters I have seen, and that is all to your credit.

 

[mastermars]

Loved your honesty and the way you expressed yourself about who you really are. Sent you a PM if you're still interested in getting to know someone else at this time.

 

[EndCredits]

You remind me of me, a little.