19/m with questions

[dj211]

hi everyone

 

[sparhawk85us]

dude im in the same boat as u so i know how u feel

 

[dj211]

yeah man it totaly sucks and by the looks that this post got sent to the 2nd page so fast. its going to be that way for a while

 

[Comrade_Leila]

Good Luck!

hi everyone i think this is my first post. and i was wondering why do women dismiss younger guys for sexual activity's? i have said it before to other women and i will say it again i am a VIRGIN and want to learn how to PLEASE a woman. but no woman will give me the time of day since i am inexperienced. can someone help me out and tell me what to do? all help is greatly appreciated

I'm in a similar position. Guys flip out when they learn a girl's a virgin. And everybody thinks I'm too young for them!

Ah, well, good luck! Maybe if you stuck with girls your own age or younger, you'd have more success. And do keep trying. Not every girl is looking for a guy who's been with half the female population of his hometown.

 

[lilly85]

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[nergis]

Most young girls want experienced men because they know how to please them correctly. Girls your age have no idea how to teach you anything, they're still learning themselves.

Older woman are probably afraid of being a cradle robber or of you getting too attached.

Oh, but it can be so much fun to learn together!

 

[roamingpisces79]

Just don't tell her you are a virgin. It's not her business, and she's certainly not going to tell you about her previous experiences up front. If you've read enough posts and stories around here, it's pretty easy to know what to do to please a woman (in bed, anyways).

 

[NesiMarie]

I have always found male virgins to be attractive especially if they are confident in themselves regardless of the status of their virginity.

 

[dj211]

well i wish someone could help, lol i love the tought of an older woman just the same as a younger one. but i guess ill keep trying even if i do keep failing, wish me lucky and i hope you other guys get laid as well

 

[lilly85]

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[redbombr0]

You'll get laid I'm sure. Everyone can find people to fuck. Just takes time if you want it to be something special.

Wishing all of you luck in your sexual journeys.

See, I am totally in the same position. I have had a number of opportunities to "get laid," but I tell the women beforehand that I am a virgin, and they tend to disappear rather quickly...

i would love to meet an older woman who would work with me to become a good partner, but it seems that women willing to put forth such an effort with guys my age are only found in the stories on this site

 

[lilly85]

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[laelaai]

I agree with Lilly. It wouldn't matter to me if a guy were a virgin either. That's probably the last thing I would care about when considering whether or not to date someone. Unless someone is a virgin at 28 (in which case they might have some convincing explaining to do) just the pure fact that someone has never had sex before is not a turn off to me, especially if that person was waiting so that they didn't have to lose it to just some random girl at a party or something. In fact, I mean if I find that I really get along well with this hypothetical person, can engage in witty banter with them, and we are both attracted to each other, then I really don't see what the problem is. I would have to go into it knowing that there would probably be a learning curve, but I mean what am I going to say "Oh no, don't tell me you wanna practice ripping my clothes off again today!? That's so boring!" ??? As long as this hypothetical virgin guy is insatiable and we enjoy each other's company nonsexually as well then yeah, why not.

 

[dj211]

next time i am going to keep my mouth shut and not say anything. kinda suxs thoough because i would want to explore and learn everything!

 

[Elenia26]

I AM NOT OFFERING

But I did fuck a guy several years my junior some time ago. He and I had been friends for years first, and while for a long time, I was all "ugh, he's younger" when I went through with it it was quite nice.

I am in a relationship now, so i wouldn't do it again soon, but don't really young guys have great endurance, after the first time perhaps? Where do you live? There must be someone who is curious. Or try the Internet...be aware it may take a while. It took me a couple of years before I went to bed with him. I am outwardly very quiet about my sex life and like to trust someone fully before I fuck them but inside I am a smoldering volcano. Look for the quiet ones.

Also, things that impressed me about my young friend:

• He was quiet and serious, while I am chatty and friendly.
• He was mature for his age.
• He was completely honest that one day he did hope to fuck me.
• He made it very clear to me he would be discreet. I mean not even boasting to his friends. This was for him and me and him and me only.

Good luck!

 

[dj211]

i dont think there are any women in here around me. any women live in santa clara/san jose?

 

[_Anna_]

Whether the guy is a virgin isn't much of an issue with me. Of course, I prefer that he hasn't slept with every girl that spreads her legs for him, but being 'experienced' so to speak, implies (for me at least) that he has a good personality , is mature, and can be discreet. Even if you're a virgin, it doesn't mean that you're helpless to learn. You can at least put in some effort to learn things like which hole you stick it in. Which means reading a LOT about pleasuring women, and watching porn. If you can manage that, and you're a virgin, then there's no problem.

 

[licorice_n_ladybugs]

Personally, I'd like it if the guy were a virgin. Infact, I think it's really hot. It's fun to learn things together, especially if you get to teach them a little. That, and then I wouldnt have to feel so self concious about whether or not im doing things right. I'm not all that experienced myself <3

 

[Daniel1982]

imo

just cause you've had sex with a girl doesn't mean you know how to please them. just relax have fun and build friendships over fuck friends..you'll be amazed with what a little time and effort can do..

 

[dj211]

ok so more questions again... theres more then 2 holes to stick it in? and pronos really help to get you to know the womans body??? i dont believe that