Enjoying Catching Her Out

[TenJed69]

So usually I think of my favourite feelings or moments in D/s being when my little girl succeeds, when she makes me proud. Whether it's doing something unpleasant or difficult just because I told her to do it, or doing something to an incredible standard because she wants to please me, or learning to doing something that makes me happy without me having to say anything, or succeeding in her own life, improving herself with my guidance or at my instruction... these things all make me swell up with pride and, frankly, happiness.

But sometimes I also get a cheeky kick from seeing her fail. Well, not so much her failure, as my ability to trip her up. For instance, today I asked her a series of questions and she was just answering "yes". This is something that annoys me for a couple of reasons. Firstly because I like to hear her repeat things. "Yes sir, I want to suck your cock." That sort of thing. Not just "yes" when I ask But also because anyone can sit there saying "yes yes yes yes" and never understand or accept what they mean. Being made to explain yourself, to say "Yes sir, I'm a filthy worthless whore", "yes sir, I do secretly want to lick [best friend's] pussy" helps to ingrain it in her mind, and (for that example at least) can be more humiliating.

Anyway, I'd told her not to do this before, so she got her ass beat a bit for forgetting. I had her gagged, and, when I was done, I asked her if she was going to forget again. She shook her head. I then took the gag out and explained "if you just say yes to everything, you won't understand what you're confirming, will you?" She replied "no, sir." And as she saw my eyes boring into her she realised, a split second too late, what she'd done and desperately started trying to correct herself, as I reached for my belt...

She had failed the test, but for some reason it made me grin

 

[WickedEve]

And as she saw my eyes boring into her she realised, a split second too late, what she'd done and desperately started trying to correct herself, as I reached for my belt...

She had failed the test, but for some reason it made me grin

Of course it did. Made me smile also. Though I've been the one on the receiving end of the belt.
I do agree about the "yes, yes, yes" answers. Not acceptable.

 

[Harlet_Minx]

Of course it did. Made me smile also. Though I've been the one on the receiving end of the belt.
I do agree about the "yes, yes, yes" answers. Not acceptable.

*grins ear to ear* the receiving end.

The mental games are a huge part of playing. As much fun as a crop can bring, nothing compares to a few well chosen words or a simple act. Also, this type of play, minus the belt is exceptionally fun in public. You know what you're doing, your sub knows what your doing (and probably worrying if anyone else knows what your doing).

 

[EmpressFi]

So usually I think of my favourite feelings or moments in D/s being when my little girl succeeds, when she makes me proud. Whether it's doing something unpleasant or difficult just because I told her to do it, or doing something to an incredible standard because she wants to please me, or learning to doing something that makes me happy without me having to say anything, or succeeding in her own life, improving herself with my guidance or at my instruction... these things all make me swell up with pride and, frankly, happiness.

But sometimes I also get a cheeky kick from seeing her fail. Well, not so much her failure, as my ability to trip her up. For instance, today I asked her a series of questions and she was just answering "yes". This is something that annoys me for a couple of reasons. Firstly because I like to hear her repeat things. "Yes sir, I want to suck your cock." That sort of thing. Not just "yes" when I ask But also because anyone can sit there saying "yes yes yes yes" and never understand or accept what they mean. Being made to explain yourself, to say "Yes sir, I'm a filthy worthless whore", "yes sir, I do secretly want to lick [best friend's] pussy" helps to ingrain it in her mind, and (for that example at least) can be more humiliating.

Anyway, I'd told her not to do this before, so she got her ass beat a bit for forgetting. I had her gagged, and, when I was done, I asked her if she was going to forget again. She shook her head. I then took the gag out and explained "if you just say yes to everything, you won't understand what you're confirming, will you?" She replied "no, sir." And as she saw my eyes boring into her she realised, a split second too late, what she'd done and desperately started trying to correct herself, as I reached for my belt...

She had failed the test, but for some reason it made me grin

maybe I'm just too tired to understand.. but what had she done that made her "desperately start trying to correct herself" by saying "no sir" to your question.. or did you want her to say, "No, sir, you're correct, if i say yes to everything, I wont understand what I'm confirming." ?

 

[Harlet_Minx]

maybe I'm just too tired to understand.. but what had she done that made her "desperately start trying to correct herself" by saying "no sir" to your question.. or did you want her to say, "No, sir, you're correct, if i say yes to everything, I wont understand what I'm confirming." ?

The last one. "No, sir, you're correct, if i say yes to everything, I wont understand what I'm confirming."

 

[ataxia.girl]

This is why i always just shake my head no and smile prettily.

 

[Adakgirl]

But sometimes I also get a cheeky kick from seeing her fail. Well, not so much her failure, as my ability to trip her up. For instance, today I asked her a series of questions and she was just answering "yes". This is something that annoys me for a couple of reasons.

Look, it's none of my business how you treat your submissive. But I just have to say- To purposely trip your submissive up on something, then watch her fail, without any hint from you she is forgetting something, without the chance to correct herself while she is doing it, then to punish her for it.......well
IMO that really sucks. It strikes me as rather strange how she would forget such something so simple as repeating your words back to you along with her affirmative reply.
Not something that is easily forgotten a rule like that. Unless you asked her so fast she had no time to think. Or you had not instilled that particular rule in her head in the first place. Could it be that positive re-enforcement, correction and praise may work better with her? Maybe she replied with your questions with only a yes, because fear made her mind go blank?

Then again, she may not have forgotten at all, but was allowing you to trip her up, because she knows you enjoy that and she is purposely doing it to please you. Submissives are very clever people, they find ways to please....they will even displease to please. She may enjoy this secret power she has over you. Watch this..I can give Sir pleasure by pretending I forgot, cuz then he will punish and yield his power over me, it feeds his ego, it makes him feel good and I like making Sir feel good.

 

[ataxia.girl]

i do this. Be naughty to please him.... and me both i guess. i don't like this rule of repeating back what you say for some reason, its hard to say why exactly right now as i am drinking but i don't like it, not one bit.

i guess i figure i am smart enough to parrot back responses that he wishes and it would irritate me to think that he thought by repeating a few words it meant that i had actually internalized what i actually hadn't....but i am stubborn like that so i stick to shaking my head if i am not in total agreement and nodding it furiously if i am and demonstrating with my actions i mean what i indicate. i will beg and plead if i really have to but only if it is true. i do so detest lying that much that i will allow myself to be injured before doing it to any Top i truly respect. i will do it to those i do not out of perceived necessity but it creates great anxiety and i will usually wish to get rid of the anxiety by confessing as soon as possible....to someone at least.

 

[Adakgirl]

Yes, parroting irritates me as well. Gives me the impression that the Dominant thinks you are stupid. It's fine and natural to repeat things...but not to be forced to repeating the same things over and over automatically. I feel it defeats the purpose of ingraining anything in the mind. I'd much rather show that I am your dirty whore, and say it because I believe it my heart, I want to tell you that, I need to say it to you. Not just simply repeat YOUR words back, but really feel they are true.

 

[TenJed69]

Look, it's none of my business how you treat your submissive. But I just have to say- To purposely trip your submissive up on something, then watch her fail, without any hint from you she is forgetting something, without the chance to correct herself while she is doing it, then to punish her for it.......well
IMO that really sucks. It strikes me as rather strange how she would forget such something so simple as repeating your words back to you along with her affirmative reply.
Not something that is easily forgotten a rule like that. Unless you asked her so fast she had no time to think. Or you had not instilled that particular rule in her head in the first place. Could it be that positive re-enforcement, correction and praise may work better with her? Maybe she replied with your questions with only a yes, because fear made her mind go blank?

Then again, she may not have forgotten at all, but was allowing you to trip her up, because she knows you enjoy that and she is purposely doing it to please you. Submissives are very clever people, they find ways to please....they will even displease to please. She may enjoy this secret power she has over you. Watch this..I can give Sir pleasure by pretending I forgot, cuz then he will punish and yield his power over me, it feeds his ego, it makes him feel good and I like making Sir feel good.

I've told her before not to keep saying yes or no to questions, to say things in her own words or, if she can't think, to repeat back. Only when we're 'on on', in a scene or in a very D/s place at that moment. Just in normal life I don't expect her to say "yes sir I remembered to shut the window", "yes sir I'd like to eat at this restaurant," just a "yep" is fine So she had been told not to do it, so when she did it she was either disobeying or had forgotten. Either way she failed where she could have succeeded, so I punished her. Before and after punishment I explained why she was going to/had been punished and the very next question I ask, she does it again! Was I not justified in punishing her again?

Having said that, I did deliberately set things up in a way which I thought would probably trip her up. But then, challenging her is what I do. It doesn't mean much for her to do little easy things all the time and succeed at those, but when she succeeds at something difficult it makes us both happy. But also, in cases like this, I can get a kick out of her failure too. She got a kick out of it too, afterwards she was calling me grinning and playfully calling me a motherfucker and slapping me on the arm and stuff. I love it when things like that happen, because I know she loves being manipulated like that. If she had answered correctly I'd have been disappointed in myself for not tripping her up, but I'd have been proud of her and overall it'd make me happy. As it was she didn't and things were the opposite but I was still happy overall. The same for her too, I think. Win win.

 

[EmpressFi]

Yes, parroting irritates me as well. Gives me the impression that the Dominant thinks you are stupid. It's fine and natural to repeat things...but not to be forced to repeating the same things over and over automatically. I feel it defeats the purpose of ingraining anything in the mind. I'd much rather show that I am your dirty whore, and say it because I believe it my heart, I want to tell you that, I need to say it to you. Not just simply repeat YOUR words back, but really feel they are true.

*cheers*

thank you. He may have me repeat something that he thinks is important to stress, but every little thing... /shrug

makes me all the more thankful of who my Master is and who he isnt