riverbend09
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having his nipples sucked and pinched. I absolutely love it. It gets me off way too quickly if she doesn't watch it..
Is it feminine for a man to enjoy...
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Is it feminine? I guess it would depend on who is doing the sucking and pinching and how you feel about it and respond, don't you think? But, I can't imagine that it matters one way or the other because men's nipples certainly have a direct connection to our groin! So, I'm with you on how good it feels!
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Even if it is, I don't give a shit. I like having hot mouths on my nipples while an even hotter mouth sucks my cock.
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It does feel great. When she first started doing it, I had a bit of a mental hangup, thinking it as girly. Then I started imagining myself having tits when she did it. I guess that is feminine! Now I just enjoy it and don't think so much.
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I wouldn't think about it. Many guys I know like it, some like it quite a lot.
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Seriously, this is just about a direct nerve connection to the pleasure center in your brain. I know, because my medical condition interferes with the nerves and I don't enjoy it nearly as much as I used to. Just sit back and enjoy it for all it's worth you lucky dog!
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I do! I hold her head tight to my chest and she sucks at it for all she is worth, tonguing it,teasing it...mmmm..wish I was home!
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Dude! So, like where are you?
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Out of town for a few days for work
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I don't care if its feminine or not I love it.
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sometimes I just enjoy stroking myself while shes doing it if she is not in the mood for anything more
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maybe
Maybe it is, but I know what comes after is not.
I love doing it and having it done.
Maybe it is, but I know what comes after is not.
I love doing it and having it done.
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i agree, i could care less if its feminem...what i dont understand is why is everyone so hung up on labels. If it feels good...do it!
I've always had long (as long as most women's) nipples. At first, I was embarrassed by them, but when a girl started to pinch and bite them when we we getting it on, I learned to enjoy nipple pleasure. When I was in my early twenties and just getting into bondage, a woman used alligator clips on me and I nearly came from the pleasurable nipple pain.
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My man loves it! Actually, there are times when I'm ready for him to get off so I play with his nipples. Works like a charm. 
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Ready... Set... RANT!!!
Feminine? Masculine? I like to believe that these labels are only useful when conjugating verbs in French class, or when used in reference to the differences between men and women that leave no room for interpretation (e.g., penis vs. vagina).
I firmly believe that the misuse/misinterpretation of these words and their synonyms has long been preventing men and women from discovering things about their sexuality that could very well be saving some marriages -- maybe even since as far back as when God graced us with erogenous zones; and along with them, the ability to engage in sexual acts for pleasure rather than only for procreation (that's just no more than a penis doing its thing in a vagina).
The way I see it... your question (and the answer for that matter) would have the exact same meaning if you had simply said:
"Is it feminine for a man to have nipples?"
The only way to fully enjoy and have complete confidence in your sexuality is to acknowledge the things your body and mind are already uncontrollably urging you to enjoy in the first place. Mind you, this has absolutely nothing to do with where Dr. Kinsey says you stand in line.
If it feels good when you touch it (or you even think it might if you do)... then fucking touch it already!
What's the use in wasting shred of concern over whether or not your buddies would call you a "homo" if you tell them about how hot you get when a beautiful woman stimulates your nipples? Hell... for that matter, what about when you tell them how hard you came last night when she showed some attention to your prostate?
If whomever you are discussing your sex-life with is so out of touch with their own sexuality that it compromises their maturity, then perhaps you should just leave the juicy details out. These guys are obviously way too manly.
So... I don't know about you, but when my lover and I are behind closed doors and we're touching and kissing each other everywhere that feels good... we don't typically notice that Alpha-Jackass in the corner of the room with us -- who is just radiating all things testicular -- gathering evidence of all the "politically incorrect" things we're doing. Maybe we're screaming too loud?
Obviously this isn't really directed at riverbend09... I'm sure he was cool with a simple no. The topic just got my wheels turning about the shit MOST men struggle with every day.
Feminine? Masculine? I like to believe that these labels are only useful when conjugating verbs in French class, or when used in reference to the differences between men and women that leave no room for interpretation (e.g., penis vs. vagina).
I firmly believe that the misuse/misinterpretation of these words and their synonyms has long been preventing men and women from discovering things about their sexuality that could very well be saving some marriages -- maybe even since as far back as when God graced us with erogenous zones; and along with them, the ability to engage in sexual acts for pleasure rather than only for procreation (that's just no more than a penis doing its thing in a vagina).
The way I see it... your question (and the answer for that matter) would have the exact same meaning if you had simply said:
"Is it feminine for a man to have nipples?"
The only way to fully enjoy and have complete confidence in your sexuality is to acknowledge the things your body and mind are already uncontrollably urging you to enjoy in the first place. Mind you, this has absolutely nothing to do with where Dr. Kinsey says you stand in line.
If it feels good when you touch it (or you even think it might if you do)... then fucking touch it already!
What's the use in wasting shred of concern over whether or not your buddies would call you a "homo" if you tell them about how hot you get when a beautiful woman stimulates your nipples? Hell... for that matter, what about when you tell them how hard you came last night when she showed some attention to your prostate?
If whomever you are discussing your sex-life with is so out of touch with their own sexuality that it compromises their maturity, then perhaps you should just leave the juicy details out. These guys are obviously way too manly.
So... I don't know about you, but when my lover and I are behind closed doors and we're touching and kissing each other everywhere that feels good... we don't typically notice that Alpha-Jackass in the corner of the room with us -- who is just radiating all things testicular -- gathering evidence of all the "politically incorrect" things we're doing. Maybe we're screaming too loud?
Obviously this isn't really directed at riverbend09... I'm sure he was cool with a simple no. The topic just got my wheels turning about the shit MOST men struggle with every day.
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This reminds me of a question I've seen before about whether enjoying having your asshole licked makes a guy gay. My answer to that was only if you if you just like doing it with guys. I guess nipple play could be feminine if you do it with women.
Jaded
My first ignorant thought was if a man is allowing a woman to be agressive by sucking his nipples or licking his ass it is gender reversal and therefor feminine.
These may just be old ideas. Growing up in the 70s women never licked or chewed nipples on men. In fact you would think men of that period had been sanded smooth before each sexual encounter. Ass licking was just unheard of for either gender (Pussy eating was a big favor you did for the woman...we were fairly stupid back then).
The first time I saw a woman licking a mans ass was in a Russain amatuer porno and I loved it. I thought it was so subversive and naughty.
Anyhow, when a woamn is being agressive, working a man's tit, eating his ass or even pegging him with a big ol' strap-on, does that make her the man and him the girl?
Isn't this really the kind of discussion you have with your aunty who has only had sex one way because she had to? Or your old world uncle who has never had to satisfy anyone but himself?
My first ignorant thought was if a man is allowing a woman to be agressive by sucking his nipples or licking his ass it is gender reversal and therefor feminine.
These may just be old ideas. Growing up in the 70s women never licked or chewed nipples on men. In fact you would think men of that period had been sanded smooth before each sexual encounter. Ass licking was just unheard of for either gender (Pussy eating was a big favor you did for the woman...we were fairly stupid back then).
The first time I saw a woman licking a mans ass was in a Russain amatuer porno and I loved it. I thought it was so subversive and naughty.
Anyhow, when a woamn is being agressive, working a man's tit, eating his ass or even pegging him with a big ol' strap-on, does that make her the man and him the girl?
Isn't this really the kind of discussion you have with your aunty who has only had sex one way because she had to? Or your old world uncle who has never had to satisfy anyone but himself?
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I don't think aggresion is necessarily feminine or masculine. It's simply being dominating/controlling. Naturally people equate those traits with men, but to me sex is so fluid their aren't really gender specific roles.
I never had it done to me by a woman before. It was only after I had my first gay sex experience did I ask for a girlfriend to do it. Either way, from a guy or a woman, it drives me wild.
The first time I was with a guy, he was going down on me and reached up and squeezed my nipple, a jolt of pleasure shot right through me. He noticed this and did it again, lightly at first then a little harder. I got even harder and came like crazy. Then he moved to kissing them, fingering just to see how hard he can get me without touching my cock.
The first time I was with a guy, he was going down on me and reached up and squeezed my nipple, a jolt of pleasure shot right through me. He noticed this and did it again, lightly at first then a little harder. I got even harder and came like crazy. Then he moved to kissing them, fingering just to see how hard he can get me without touching my cock.
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