rgraham666
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Um. I don't think the people who support gay marriage would be pleased to have such a dishonest tactic pulled on their behalf, Box.
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Um. I don't think the people who support gay marriage would be pleased to have such a dishonest tactic pulled on their behalf, Box.
Um. I don't think the people who support gay marriage would be pleased to have such a dishonest tactic pulled on their behalf, Box.
yep, Rob, it's just politics as usual-- both parties!Those who oppose it are already using extremely dishonest tactics. Defense of Marriage, my ass. Contrary to what some may say, the fact that two men are married does not make them any more likely to molest children. If a mother of a young daughter married her gay lover, she is not putting the daughter at risk of molestation any more than if she had married her straight lover.
I remember in 2000 reading the opposition to gay marriage described as wide but not deep. Meaning that most of those who oppose it just don't like the idea, but are not rabidly against it. I said "most" not "all".
By the way, Stella, I would presume the Dems. use the idea just as much as the Reps. Politicians are crooked, whatever their party affiiation. However, this is not the place to argue relative honesty of politicians.
Of course the amendments just confirm the prevalent attitudes. The point is that they calcify them in state constitutions, so even if those attitudes change to the point where anti-gay passion becomes dulled - which will happen in most of those states over the next 20 years - it will be impossible to gradually reform state laws to reflect that. And also impossible to repeal the amendments, because it's an easy issue to demagogue when a high-profile initiative campaign is launched (as opposed to incremental statutory changes).I disagree with you, for the same reasons that Pure gives. These oppressive attitudes are far too deeply entrenched. The constitutional amendments were merely ratifications of the default.
One point addressed, a few to go. One of them being that those attitudes are going to take much longer than twenty years to change.Of course the amendments just confirm the prevalent attitudes. The point is that they calcify them in state constitutions, so even if those attitudes change to the point where anti-gay passion becomes dulled - which will happen in most of those states over the next 20 years - it will be impossible to gradually reform state laws to reflect that. And also impossible to repeal the amendments, because it's an easy issue to demagogue when a high-profile initiative campaign is launched (as opposed to incremental statutory changes).
why would she assume that two different couples, who are marrying for personal reasons, would care to combine ceremonies?
An activist? No. But when it comes up I speak up. I occassionally travel in some circles where this position is surprising, and have actually changed some minds there. (My most effective polemic: Your darling daughter, neice, etc. is suddenly orphaned. Two couples want to adopt her. One is the obese heteros you saw at Walmart calling their kid "stupid," etc. The other is a pair of gentle, urbane queers. Who do want to get the kid? I get explicit and graphic describing those two couples.)One point addressed, a few to go. I'd like to ask you once more, Roxy; are you planning to be activist about this during this year?
I'll suggest one generous interpretation: In this time and place a gay marriage has a political signifigance (like it or not). Thus the public "mass marriages" we occassionally see.I should NOT be surprised by the conversations I am getting on the subject. I said that I've been invited to two weddings on the same day? One person suggested that I ask them to combine their ceremonies. She reassured me that she meant it seriously, and was not being snarky.
Only-- why would she assume that two different couples, who are marrying for personal reasons, would care to combine ceremonies? What makes her think they even know each other? (they don't, as a matter of fact.)
Tell me, please, would anyone make these assumptions about two straight couples-- without even asking first? I think not, myself.
In my view the democratic accountability of legislatures is hugely signifigant. No one can argue that a legislature "improperly exceeded the scope of its authority" on a matter of public policy matter like this (within constitutional constraints). They can and do argue that the "SOB's are out of control and should lose their seats," which of course is a legitimate political judgement. Maybe they will lose them and maybe they won't - and if they don't you have a genuine advancement that even Boobus A. can't do more than grumble about (because even Boobus accepts our democratic creed).would you not agree, however, that the argument re backlash could equally be applied to legislatures: they err if they get 'ahead' of the people.
How long do you think a Pill ban would have stood up in even the most benighted state absent Griswold? Immediate effect: Create a black market. Long-term effect: Wreck the state's economy as the best and the brightest get up and go. (Personally it would have been fun to watch had any attempted it, and would have provided a valuable over-regulation case-study.)then you think griswold v connecticutt was a bad idea, also.
I notice you've changed the subject.rox In my view the democratic accountability of legislatures is hugely signifigant.
as you know, the founders, while setting up a measure of 'democratic accountability' for the House, greatly hedged it in, for the Senate, which was UNelected (directly). perhaps that was not a bad idea, and shouldn't have been tinkered with.
i find your enthusiasm for more thorough democracy puzzling: not aristotelian or randian or murray-ish. don't you realize the 'democracy' has long since spoken re unregulated capitalism--e.g. in all of Europe. further, democracy has endorsed the 'quasi welfare state' in the US, e.g. social security.
your beloved property and 'buy and sell' rights do NOT stand up to democracy very well at all.
I'm not sure if this is a difference in political views, or in political systems (because you have a different view based on your country's differences from ours), but this is the point exactly. Newt Gingrich got a huge change in our political landscape via the Contract With America. He got enough people to believe it was a good idea that you saw Republicans take over the majority in the House & Senate. When they backslid on the very things that got them elected (or the people finally decided they didn't like the ideas any more....whichever way you choose to look at it), the Democrats replaced them. That's why our legislature makes the laws, because people feel they can do something about it when they disagree (hence change feels less radical).would you not agree, however, that the argument re backlash could equally be applied to legislatures: they err if they get 'ahead' of the people.
Adding to the last point, Roe v. Wade has greatly skewed our politics in unhealthy ways. A strong case can be made that this has been far more destructive than if a third of the states banned abortion, a third had no restrictions, and the rest fell in between.
"Best and Brightest" is not the criteria; "Unusually heroic and/or idealistic" might be the better term. People do NOT like to leave their home of choice, and it usually takes war and famine and hurricanes to turn them out. A matter like a missing Pill will only swell the schools with the children of women who could not get a supply-- if their husbands (should they have such) can find enough money to subsist, they will stay put. If they can't find the money-- they won't be able to make a move. If one or two of those happen to be potentially best and bright-- their potential will likely never be realised.How long do you think a Pill ban would have stood up in even the most benighted state absent Griswold? Immediate effect: Create a black market. Long-term effect: Wreck the state's economy as the best and the brightest get up and go. (Personally it would have been fun to watch had any attempted it, and would have provided a valuable over-regulation case-study.)