Married But Sexually/Physically Unfulfilled

[every_mothers_lover]

Is anyone out there married yet unfulfilled with the sexual/physical nature of their relationship?

I'd like to hear from others, Ultimately, I'd like to develop an thread in which we can share/explore our desires, fantasies, likes/dislikes, sexual energies, etc...

 

[Patmedic417]

Same thing in PA

Married for 12 years together 17 - sex and relationship was good at the start - now we have not had sexual relations for more than 10 months - (OUCH) If it were not for taking MATTERS into my own hands I would get NO RELIEF !!!!!

So - I am in on the thread ......

Pat the BOARD (bored) Medic

 

[_666]

10 months? Try not having any for FOUR YEARS!!!! To say I'm unfullfilled is a massive understatement!

 

[Shadow Thief]

There are quite a few of us here, as evidenced by the many other threads on this same subject.

 

[civ2]

I have a unique situation...(or so I think). Married 5 1/2 years, together 7, my wife was my first lover. Now that we've been together for quite a while, I've been 'itching' to experience a few more women, but it's rough trying to create a free situation when a woman has had sole possession for a number of years.

Any suggestions?

 

[Daniel1982]

There are quite a few of us here, as evidenced by the many other threads on this same subject.

HAHAHAHA my thoughts exactly

 

[BaileyNyte]

So sick of trying and getting no where,

I am a 33 year old woman married 14 years to a 47 year old man who has lost all interest in sex. I have tried everything from just about EVERY known kink on the internet to inviting others to play with us. He watched but didn't join and then later told me he didn't even enjoy watching. Sex has all but disappeared in our house for well over 7 years. It's gone so far that my husband has told me repeatedly to go out and find me a 'boytoy' to play with as long as I make sure I don't fall in love. I quote, "do what you need to do with whomever just remember whatever you do with your body is your choice but your heart will always belong to me." I love my hubby and NEVER plan on leaving him but this is driving me crazy. I have recently decided I was going to take him up on his offer and find a part-time 'friend' but it's not as easy as it use to be. Hell I was 19 years old the last time I had to flirt, it came naturally then all I had to do was smile. It's difficult for an old dog to learn new tricks. But I'm trying to be honest about it all I just wish my hubby wanted me. He is truely the only man I've ever loved or wanted. So anyway I figured I would start out with an online 'friend' before I decide to meet anyone in person. Anyone with any advice, I assure you I'm listening.

 

[ltnsfr007]

I am a 33 year old woman married 14 years to a 47 year old man who has lost all interest in sex. I have tried everything from just about EVERY known kink on the internet to inviting others to play with us. He watched but didn't join and then later told me he didn't even enjoy watching. Sex has all but disappeared in our house for well over 7 years. It's gone so far that my husband has told me repeatedly to go out and find me a 'boytoy' to play with as long as I make sure I don't fall in love. I quote, "do what you need to do with whomever just remember whatever you do with your body is your choice but your heart will always belong to me." I love my hubby and NEVER plan on leaving him but this is driving me crazy. I have recently decided I was going to take him up on his offer and find a part-time 'friend' but it's not as easy as it use to be. Hell I was 19 years old the last time I had to flirt, it came naturally then all I had to do was smile. It's difficult for an old dog to learn new tricks. But I'm trying to be honest about it all I just wish my hubby wanted me. He is truely the only man I've ever loved or wanted. So anyway I figured I would start out with an online 'friend' before I decide to meet anyone in person. Anyone with any advice, I assure you I'm listening.

WOW

Good luck newbie

 

[tampa_919]

I am a 33 year old woman married 14 years to a 47 year old man who has lost all interest in sex. I have tried everything from just about EVERY known kink on the internet to inviting others to play with us. He watched but didn't join and then later told me he didn't even enjoy watching. Sex has all but disappeared in our house for well over 7 years. It's gone so far that my husband has told me repeatedly to go out and find me a 'boytoy' to play with as long as I make sure I don't fall in love. I quote, "do what you need to do with whomever just remember whatever you do with your body is your choice but your heart will always belong to me." I love my hubby and NEVER plan on leaving him but this is driving me crazy. I have recently decided I was going to take him up on his offer and find a part-time 'friend' but it's not as easy as it use to be. Hell I was 19 years old the last time I had to flirt, it came naturally then all I had to do was smile. It's difficult for an old dog to learn new tricks. But I'm trying to be honest about it all I just wish my hubby wanted me. He is truely the only man I've ever loved or wanted. So anyway I figured I would start out with an online 'friend' before I decide to meet anyone in person. Anyone with any advice, I assure you I'm listening.

no kidding on the WOW

 

[BaileyNyte]

So sick of trying and getting no where,

I am a 33 year old woman married 14 years to a 47 year old man who has lost all interest in sex. I have tried everything from just about EVERY known kink on the internet to inviting others to play with us. He watched but didn't join and then later told me he didn't even enjoy watching. Sex has all but disappeared in our house for well over 7 years. It's gone so far that my husband has told me repeatedly to go out and find me a 'boytoy' to play with as long as I make sure I don't fall in love. I quote, "do what you need to do with whomever just remember whatever you do with your body is your choice but your heart will always belong to me." I love my hubby and NEVER plan on leaving him but this is driving me crazy. I have recently decided I was going to take him up on his offer and find a part-time 'friend' but it's not as easy as it use to be. Hell I was 19 years old the last time I had to flirt, it came naturally then all I had to do was smile. It's difficult for an old dog to learn new tricks. But I'm trying to be honest about it all I just wish my hubby wanted me. He is truely the only man I've ever loved or wanted. So anyway I figured I would start out with an online 'friend' before I decide to meet anyone in person. Anyone with any advice, I assure you I'm listening.

 

[Aaronh]

I'm 33 and married to a 25 year old. I've been with my wife for 6 years this summer but married for 3. Our sex life isn't that great. She likes sex but isn't into anything other than just normal sex, she just lays there and does nothing. And foreplay, I give it to her but she won't even touch me. I'm into giving her oral but she isn't into returning the favor. She doesn't like her breasts touched unless its during sex, otherwise she complains. Thats really annoying for me since I have a breast fetish. I wish for so much more.

 

[mntcmn]

How?

How on earth did we all get into these situations? Certainly didn't plan it this way.
M

 

[firtfan]

(Is anyone out there married yet unfulfilled with the sexual/physical nature of their relationship?) 17 years now I love her like crazy ! The last 8 years disabled (spine disease) she is in constant pain. Its hard trying to have sex with the one you love and are afraid to hurt her in any way. Im 44 and have a crazy sex drive but keep it to myself ( I guess its why I just look around here). So would that be Physically Unfulfilled ??

 

[All_Woman]

Married for 34 years ..sexually unfufilled for the last 20 or so. Its been a tuff road. Til I met the man of my dreams..who's been married 36 and was 'put on the shelf' so to speak about 15 years ago.

So now were both stuck in loveless/sexless marriages so truley understand where others like us are comming from.

Thats why we started our own forum.. dedicated to helping others find what we've found.. or what ever it is they are looking for. I wont post the link here.. its already on my profile.

So.. all I can say to those of you who are unhappy.. dont give up hope of finding that someone who might be able to bring some happiness into your life and you theirs..

 

[SimpleGifts]

Fyi

The most informative thread on this topic is on The Playground:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=397302

Haven't had any activity on it for a little bit, tho'...maybe some new members are willing to stir the pot a bit? Lots of interesting perspectives are in the posts over there.

SG

 

[AliCat76]

So...those who are in a "sexually/physically" unfulfilled marriage....what do you do? Stay?...go?

Spend a lot of time on LIT? <grin>

 

[eljefe999]

married for 10, unfulfilled for 3 or 4

I plan on staying, but have been looking for a some other release. Not sure if I want to cheat or just keep it online. I love her, but it has become predicatble and infrequent. She is just not interested.

I am not sure what to do either.

 

[firtfan]

So...those who are in a "sexually/physically" unfulfilled marriage....what do you do? Stay?...go?

Spend a lot of time on LIT? <grin>

Im staying she cant help what has happened to her. This disease has affected 3 other of her family members. It would be just plain stupid to walk out on what we have minus my craving for sex.
I just think I will look around and admire what everyone else has..