Married yet seeking something...

AliCat76

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I will admit, this is my first time posting. Please go easy on me!

I am married to a wonderful and great man. Unfortunately, I am starting to feel that I married him on a rebound from a man whom I was very much in love with but it didn't work out. My husband is great and I'm very fond of him but I feel like the passion is gone. We are great friends and I do love being intimate with him, but the spice is gone.

I did have another "relationship" with a friend (in fact, hubby's friend). We began as friends, but I did develop a crush on him. It developed into flirting, eventually sending pictures and fantasies to each other. Long story short, he left the "relationship" because he thought he was "bad" for me. It was hard to take and I'm a little bummed about it.

I'm looking to find another friend. I don't want to jump into a cyber "thing" (for lack of better words). I would rather start off as chat friends and see where it goes from there.

Anyone interested? Or am I stuck in my fantasies?

MWF/32
 
Hi

Interesting post.... i'd be interested in chatting to start if you have Yahoo...

Brad
 
I will admit, this is my first time posting. Please go easy on me!

I am married to a wonderful and great man. Unfortunately, I am starting to feel that I married him on a rebound from a man whom I was very much in love with but it didn't work out. My husband is great and I'm very fond of him but I feel like the passion is gone. We are great friends and I do love being intimate with him, but the spice is gone.

I did have another "relationship" with a friend (in fact, hubby's friend). We began as friends, but I did develop a crush on him. It developed into flirting, eventually sending pictures and fantasies to each other. Long story short, he left the "relationship" because he thought he was "bad" for me. It was hard to take and I'm a little bummed about it.

I'm looking to find another friend. I don't want to jump into a cyber "thing" (for lack of better words). I would rather start off as chat friends and see where it goes from there.

Anyone interested? Or am I stuck in my fantasies?

MWF/32

There's a first time for everything. I'd enjoy a chat. :rose:
 
I will admit, this is my first time posting. Please go easy on me!

I am married to a wonderful and great man. Unfortunately, I am starting to feel that I married him on a rebound from a man whom I was very much in love with but it didn't work out. My husband is great and I'm very fond of him but I feel like the passion is gone. We are great friends and I do love being intimate with him, but the spice is gone.

I did have another "relationship" with a friend (in fact, hubby's friend). We began as friends, but I did develop a crush on him. It developed into flirting, eventually sending pictures and fantasies to each other. Long story short, he left the "relationship" because he thought he was "bad" for me. It was hard to take and I'm a little bummed about it.

I'm looking to find another friend. I don't want to jump into a cyber "thing" (for lack of better words). I would rather start off as chat friends and see where it goes from there.

Anyone interested? Or am I stuck in my fantasies?

MWF/32

19 year old single male. If you're interested pm me. You can never have too many chat friends :)
 
Very interesting thread...

I'm a 28m and I have to admit I had a very similar situation that I'm now out of.... but it is hard to keep that sort of thing going. If you need to chat send me a pm....
 
I know where you're coming from, believe me. I'm quite a distance from you, but if you'd like a friend who understands, feel free to contact me. :)
 
Ali you sound very interesting and your story is quite familiar to me. I would thouroghly enjoy talking to you if you are interested.
 
Am here

Tempting post. :D But I know where you are coming from.
I would love to be in touch in case you send reciprocal.
From my side, we will go at your pace...including race!!
Consider G-talk or Yahoo to begin with. we will take it from there.;)
c ya.
 
Wow...I wasn't expecting this response. Last time I talked to someone about my "problem", I was advised to go to therapy and get a divorce!

Thanks for replying everyone!
 
Hmmm

IM definately interested in chatting and taking it from there. I am from southern WI and 33. I have pics and cam also. Do you have any instant messengers?
 
Located in Indiana.......Hey neighbor!!

Is it normal for the romance to dim with time? I like to think not. It's easy for two people to take each for granted after being together for a while.

I am in a relationship that leaves me wondering most of the time.

Wondering why I don't feel that driving passion?

Why is communicating so hard for her?

Wondering about the sensations from a different woman.....The fell of her skin, the smell and taste of her........

M
 
Interesting Post - Would Enjoy Learning More

Enjoyed your post. Would love learning more. Sent a pm... hope to hear from you soon!
 
Aw, C'mon WL........We can't solve ALL the problems....Some of them require a hands on approach.


Grinning,
M
 
tried

the hands on thang....i touched myself all morning
yep....probs still there....go figure
 
Bad is better that's for sure. Four hands enough? Mine on yours? That way you could show me right where you want me
 
mae west was quoted as having said "when I am bad I am good but when I'm really bad I'm even better!"

hope this thread does well would love to chat with a lady.
 
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