Distance Domination-Support Thread

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Hello, yafah. I just posted here for the first time. Just had to express it somewhere, and, well, here was the place.

I miss you, kitten. The weather is cool and sunny, and the skies are clear and blue. Wish you were here to enjoy it with us.

:heart:

myinnerslut said:
missing him. hating the distance. wanting to be with "our family" down south. hate being stuck up in the land of ice and snow.
These made me smile.

Can't wait to meet you!
 
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im new here. this is how i get also. very grouchy & i tend to not follow my set rules properly.we go days without playing/talking other than quick emails, so its hard for me at times. often all it takes is one email form me giving him major attitude & i get some extra attention.NOT always the desired attention though lol

does a double take...

shakes head...

triple take...

ummm humnahumnahuma...

welcome to the board...

just was thrown off because my girl posts on here as lil_slave_rose. so the lil rosie threw me off...

again welcome...
 
Just an update on my LDR..I think it has officially ended..Tomorrow will be a week since I have heard from him...Things had been going down hill for a while..so I am really okay with it all..He was NEVER around...it is for the best..I will be okay....I deserve better...

I am sorry to hear that...

if you need a friend, my PM box is always open... and you know I ain't a troll...

will keep you in my thoughts.
 
Random thought for the day, as told to me MANY years ago by a long lost friend...

"If you have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow, you are pissing on today."
 
Just an update on my LDR..I think it has officially ended..Tomorrow will be a week since I have heard from him...Things had been going down hill for a while..so I am really okay with it all..He was NEVER around...it is for the best..I will be okay....I deserve better...

congratulations and im sorry all at the same time.

i was in a similiar situation with A, downhill for a good while. youll find the somebody you deserve. i know its hard.

if you want to PM me to talk feel free as i was literally JUST where you are

*hugs*
 
These made me smile.

Can't wait to meet you!

i feel like i already know you. cant wait till the summer where it will be face to face but as far as im concerned we already know each other, and pretty well at that.

which is why i can honestly say i am missing you as well as missing him.


and my blurb of the morning: i woke up with him on my mind first thing. it was such a happy way to wake up, but now i miss him.

but im wearing the shirt he bought me.
 
Just an update on my LDR..I think it has officially ended..Tomorrow will be a week since I have heard from him...Things had been going down hill for a while..so I am really okay with it all..He was NEVER around...it is for the best..I will be okay....I deserve better...

DWB- as we have been speaking all week Wharf doesnt deserve you. and YOU know I am here for you . and I am so glad we became friends... YOU will find yourself a wonderful loving caring person who will show you the world.. and Wharf will crawl back and you can tell him NO.... I am always here for you ..

:rose:
 
but im wearing the shirt he bought me.

My fourth smile for today. Thank you, yafah.

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Rolled over last night in my sleep. Planted a kiss on viv, and said "I love you. And I miss you." Apparently I was dreaming about MIS. viv, being the coolest person in the world, didn't mind. If anything, she felt bad for me.

So to the rest of you out there, don't ever share a bed with me if we're at the same convention or something. I get friendly when I am missing someone as badly as I'm missing someone right now :(
 
I just wanted to say that I'm the luckiest guy on the planet to have these two gals. I really am.
 
I just wanted to say that I'm the luckiest guy on the planet to have these two gals. I really am.


Thats awesome, love to hear happy stories. I dont even really know you and Im happy for you. And wish you continued happiness.

I think that we are all lucky to have found the one(s) that we need to be with....the one that makes everything right in our worlds....and the mere thought of them brings a smile to our faces. It makes the hard days just a bit more bearable. I'm in the same boat most of us are on here...I miss Him terribly.

I am blessed to have Him in my life once again after being out of touch for over 30 yrs. I truly believe in fate and destination.
 
Thats awesome, love to hear happy stories. I dont even really know you and Im happy for you. And wish you continued happiness.

Thank you =)

I am blessed to have Him in my life once again after being out of touch for over 30 yrs. I truly believe in fate and destination.

And I still think this is so very romantic. Good on ya both.

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So I went to a munch last night. While I was getting ready to leave, I got a phone call that irritated me badly, as someone was making life difficult for my girl. I'm a big freaky gorilla when it comes to my gals, so I immediately got all kinds of fiery and scary looking. The folks at munch, all great people, started asking me what was wrong, genuinely concerned. I explained that my girl was far away, and there was an individual being a toxic nuisance in her life, and it was driving me crazy that I could not just casually pop over and be the gorilla I naturally am. And then I said "LDR sucks" and 75% of the folks at the table were all nodding their heads, commiserating, and making mention of their own tribulations in LDR's. While it did not really calm me down completely, it helped a whole lot to see that my peers had been through the same exact thing.

Yet another reason to dig my fellow kinky people.
 
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I just wanted to say that I'm the luckiest guy on the planet to have these two gals. I really am.

wow. im only blushing a little bit. :eek::eek::eek:

i wanted to reflect a day or so ago but i never got the chance and here is as good a place as any and better then most.

the past two weeks and a half have been a complete whirlwind for me. i ended a relationship that was emotionally not very good for me. there was a lot of emotional insecurities and unavailability, broken promises, dissapointment, and being set up to fail. shortly after ending that, i entered into a relationship of wildly different expectations, feelings and connection. perhaps the only common thread in my life has been that somehow i remained in an LDR.

which led me to thinking. as i was in an LDR before, i was used to the loneliness. i was used to not being held and not getting a good night kiss. i was used to the lack of time spend just being together. i was also used to talking on the phone shortly before bed... most nights. i was used to feeling like i came second in life. i was used to feeling the distance due to limited contact. i was used to hoping for the e-mail that never came. i was used to dissapointment.

though my relationship now is LDR its day and night. i feel wanted. i feel like im worth spending time with. i see this guy going out of his way to make time for me. to send me a letter. to talk with me. to be there when im upset. and im amazed becuase im not used to being treated this way.

and the point of this semi-rant is... an LDR is not an LDR is not an LDR. dont ever take a bad situation becuase you are "only in a LDR" and arent worth it. cuase guess what, you are.
 
That last paragraph there is an important one.

I'm, ahem, blushing a bit now too.

:heart:
 
wow. im only blushing a little bit. :eek::eek::eek:

i wanted to reflect a day or so ago but i never got the chance and here is as good a place as any and better then most.

the past two weeks and a half have been a complete whirlwind for me. i ended a relationship that was emotionally not very good for me. there was a lot of emotional insecurities and unavailability, broken promises, dissapointment, and being set up to fail. shortly after ending that, i entered into a relationship of wildly different expectations, feelings and connection. perhaps the only common thread in my life has been that somehow i remained in an LDR.

which led me to thinking. as i was in an LDR before, i was used to the loneliness. i was used to not being held and not getting a good night kiss. i was used to the lack of time spend just being together. i was also used to talking on the phone shortly before bed... most nights. i was used to feeling like i came second in life. i was used to feeling the distance due to limited contact. i was used to hoping for the e-mail that never came. i was used to dissapointment.

though my relationship now is LDR its day and night. i feel wanted. i feel like im worth spending time with. i see this guy going out of his way to make time for me. to send me a letter. to talk with me. to be there when im upset. and im amazed becuase im not used to being treated this way.

and the point of this semi-rant is... an LDR is not an LDR is not an LDR. dont ever take a bad situation becuase you are "only in a LDR" and arent worth it. cuase guess what, you are.

*hugs*
 
Thank you =)



And I still think this is so very romantic. Good on ya both.



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So I went to a munch last night. While I was getting ready to leave, I got a phone call that irritated me badly, as someone was making life difficult for my girl. I'm a big freaky gorilla when it comes to my gals, so I immediately got all kinds of fiery and scary looking. The folks at munch, all great people, started asking me what was wrong, genuinely concerned. I explained that my girl was far away, and there was an individual being a toxic nuisance in her life, and it was driving me crazy that I could not just casually pop over and be the gorilla I naturally am. And then I said "LDR sucks" and 75% of the folks at the table were all nodding their heads, commiserating, and making mention of their own tribulations in LDR's. While it did not really calm me down completely, it helped a whole lot to see that my peers had been through the same exact thing.
Yet another reason to dig my fellow kinky people.

You are very welcome, anytime.

And thanks, He's pretty special. I am a lucky girl for sure.

Yea I agree, thats why I love reading this board hearing everyone's own story on here, makes me feel just a little better because I can sooo relate.
 
Thank You HM, Mis, MP and SKL for your kind notes..they are much appreciated!

Mis..thanks for the offer of the pm box...I appreciate that! :)

SKL..thanks for being there this week..has been wonderful talking to you!
 
*sigh*

Just having a bleh day.

It's just so frustrating that so many people get to see/touch/talk to/joke with/see her beautiful smile in person everyday and I don't.

Bleh.
 
Just an update on my LDR..I think it has officially ended..Tomorrow will be a week since I have heard from him...Things had been going down hill for a while..so I am really okay with it all..He was NEVER around...it is for the best..I will be okay....I deserve better...

Even though you know in your heart that it's over, it would be nice to have some closure....instead of waiting for a week to hear something....anything. Some people just don't have the balls they were born with :(

Sorry it's ended this way for you DWB :rose:
 
Even though you know in your heart that it's over, it would be nice to have some closure....instead of waiting for a week to hear something....anything. Some people just don't have the balls they were born with :(

Sorry it's ended this way for you DWB :rose:

Yeah closure would be nice but it is not going to happen...you are so right about some people not having the balls..

I am really okay..It has been brewing for a while! :kiss:*hugs*
 
Just wanted to let my friends in this thread know that I was DomWharfsBitch and have killed that one off and am going with KayKat as my handle...This is the safest thread for you to know who I am...
 
V, Homburg, and MIS

I am so happy for you.. it's so good to see you three gelling together as a family.

It's hard to realize sometimes that it's ok to be in love with more than one person. And sometimes it's hard to hear your loved one say they love someone else, or pine for someone else.

You three are starting out on a hard road, a fun road.. and hopefully... a long long road... and I couldnt be happier
 
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