The hardest of the hard......

[SweetGigi]

.....limits that is. What is the absolute for you? The end all be all no-no that NO ONE, not even the most beloved of your life, could convince you to take part in? The one thing which just the very thought of turns your stomach like so many rotten apples. Is there anything that you won't do- flat out, no matter what won't do? If not, why and how did you come to this place of willingness and consent?


(ETA: Frak, this was totally supposed to go in the Talk forum. Crap, sorry guys.)

 

[WriterDom]

Rap music.

 

[SweetGigi]

Cute.




*wags finger*

 

[WriterDom]

Seriously. My old gym was owed by a 20 year old. I guess his daddy bought it for him. He'd play rap so loud the windows would shake. The only good thing about the place was having a card that would get you in 24/7.

But a serous answer. I don't handle blood well at all.

 

[sexycaz22]

For me, it would be knivesplay = I mean the most sharp knife, or any other sharp blades...that would be a hard limit but I will be more than willing to come to a compromise and with trust and comfortable with the PYL in that I would be blindfolded and that I did not even want to know any sharp knives was used on me. I know that I want to FEEL the sharpness, but I don't want to SEE any, if I do see one used, then I would go into a state of fear, for that I have had a really bad memory where my father and I had this heated argument, and he waved a sharp knife in front of me, hence why I don't want to SEE any sharp blades unless I was blindfolded and not knowing what it was, and afterwards I might ask, but then I might not.



EDITED: no blood play either

 

[SubKekiLee]

For me... Is K9 play or animal play... or anything involving a child or a role play involving something that mimic child play I know he would never go there either as we have already spoke about this but I could never be convinced to that.. It just would be too far for me...

 

[trisquel_astur]

For me... Is K9 play or animal play... or anything involving a child or a role play involving something that mimic child play I know he would never go there either as we have already spoke about this but I could never be convinced to that.. It just would be too far for me...

I agree!

Kids and animals are out my limits at all!

 

[00Syd]

Anything with kids, animals, shit, piss, vomit. I would consider knife play but thats veering dangerously close to being included in the list.

 

[Netzach]

Religious conversion.

Kids go without saying, I can't imagine being with someone where this really needs spelling out.

 

[HottieMama]

Kids go without saying, I can't imagine being with someone where this really needs spelling out.

AMEN!!!

Vomit play, and animals are my ultimate No-no. Anything else is up for discussion.

 

[Ladythunder]

Kids, shit, vomit, death

The list could go on most likely but those are absolutes that come to mind instantly

 

[Stegral]

first one would be children... abso-freaking-loutley....


*I rather enjoy knifeplay, but am terrified of percussion...*

Scat & vomit are running a really, really close second
(almost a tie for/with first)

most of the other stuff scares me but with the right person...

trust, it is all about trust...

 

[madetotakeit]

Performing sexual acts on another woman...not in my nature even as a curiosity and just couldn't bring myself to do it.

Scat...just ewww. I try to avoid Ecoli as much as possible. I take my chances enough on the rare times I eat at Taco Bell.

Knife play...I'm not sure. It could either bring back bad memories or it could help move past them. Could go either way. In any case the fear factor would be high which is enough to make me say it may not be a hard limit in the end.

 

[chelleb]

...............

 

[graceanne]

Religious conversion.

Kids go without saying, I can't imagine being with someone where this really needs spelling out.

Yeah, same here. On the conversion and the kids. Frankly, bringing it up would be ground for divorce and a restraining order.

Also, animals and anything involving poop, pea, or vomit. I'd say knife play, but I've learned that if he wants to do something badly enough I'll eventually go for it. *shrugs*

 

[HottieMama]

most of the other stuff scares me but with the right person...

trust, it is all about trust...

This is SO true... I have done several things I thought were "no-nos" because of the trust I had/have in my partner.

 

[madetotakeit]

This is SO true... I have done several things I thought were "no-nos" because of the trust I had/have in my partner.

I haven't had anyone that wanted to push the "no-no's" but I certainly considered which ones someone I trusted could push me to do. Isn't pushing past those limits part of the thrill?

 

[HottieMama]

I haven't had anyone that wanted to push the "no-no's" but I certainly considered which ones someone I trusted could push me to do. Isn't pushing past those limits part of the thrill?

Yes....absolutely...for me at least.

 

[FurryFury]

I won't tease or eat animals.

I won't do anything sexual with underage kids.

There may be others but those are the first two that come to mind. Most things are negotiable with anyone I love and trust.

 

[TeachMeSir]

......

 

[BiBunny]

Vomit and shit, for one thing. I just don't have the stomach for it.

I heard of a chick who was into having her limbs dislocated once. I've had enough awful joint and bone injuries that that's gotta be a hard limit for me. The same goes for dismemberment, too.

 

[HottieMama]

I heard of a chick who was into having her limbs dislocated once. I've had enough awful joint and bone injuries that that's gotta be a hard limit for me. The same goes for dismemberment, too.

Dear christ... Have "you" ever just gotten to the point where you think that some people just MIGHT be too fucked up for human interaction?

 

[Netzach]

Vomit and shit are going to be part of any long term relationship worth its salt, so to me these aren't that big a deal either way. They're not "oooo whee sign me up" but there's a time and a place and I could see them making sense in certain ones.

 

[Netzach]

a few more:

non prop gun play

knife play done in the fucking stupid manners I've seen it done

suspension done by idiots

suspension of inexperienced panicky weird people

 

[BiBunny]

Dear christ... Have "you" ever just gotten to the point where you think that some people just MIGHT be too fucked up for human interaction?

LOL. I guess if that's what floats her boat, fine, but she obviously hasn't spent as much time in emergency rooms with bone and soft tissue injuries as I have. *Shudder*