Bi - Curious Female needs instruction

[showustheway]

Hello Ladies –

I am a 35 year old married woman wondering, how in the world do I approach other women. Like parenting, there isn’t an easy “how to” manual, and would prefer to be approached.

For years I’ve been interesting in exploring my sexual curiosity towards other women. It began years ago when my husband and I would tease one another about me being with a woman. Those thoughts have grown into a true desire.

I would like to start at the chat stage and see how it flourishes.

Thanks

 

[mackkjackk]

would love to help you out here miss maybe i could pretend!?

 

[showustheway]

I will always have my first "love"

 

[bequ23]

Hello Ladies –

I am a 35 year old married woman wondering, how in the world do I approach other women. Like parenting, there isn’t an easy “how to” manual, and would prefer to be approached.

For years I’ve been interesting in exploring my sexual curiosity towards other women. It began years ago when my husband and I would tease one another about me being with a woman. Those thoughts have grown into a true desire.

I would like to start at the chat stage and see how it flourishes.

Thanks

I'm in the same boat. Been desiring women for a long time, even before I married my husband, but I never had the nerve to approach another woman.

I am 41 years old and now I go on Lit and chat on line and read lots of lesbian erotica...but I still want to be with an actual woman.

I am communicating with a couple from Lit, (for 1 on 1 with the wife) but they live far away, so something can only happen if there is travel involved.

It would be nice to find someone close by to help lead the way.

 

[showustheway]

I'm in the same boat. Been desiring women for a long time, even before I married my husband, but I never had the nerve to approach another woman.

I am 41 years old and now I go on Lit and chat on line and read lots of lesbian erotica...but I still want to be with an actual woman.

I am communicating with a couple from Lit, (for 1 on 1 with the wife) but they live far away, so something can only happen if there is travel involved.

It would be nice to find someone close by to help lead the way.

I understand that. Living in Kansas makes approaching other women a challenge.

 

[prettipussykatt]

Im an okie . send message please!

 

[welikeu]

Im an okie . send message please!

Hi,
Are you just into females or do you also enjoy couples? We are in East Texas.
Love entertaining a pretty female....

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

I'm not looking for an involvement, but I would be more than happy to offer suggestions or advice. Not that I'm an expert. But, I have been loving women for about 20 years (relationships, love affairs, the gamut), so I might be able to provide the odd suggestion here and there, if you like. PM if you wish. If not, good luck to you in all you seek, my friend.

 

[SDlexus]

Approaching Women

Do you have a woman in mind of are you looking to meet one? What about a Craigslst ad for your city? Start by email and then go from there.

 

[slarsit]

I struggled for a long time to live my fantasy of having sex with another man. I wasn't about to go to gay bars or to hang out at adult book stores. I finally started to casually mention to men friends what they thought about men having sex with men. Most of the time the message came across clearly they were pretty shut off with the idea. Finally, one friend mentioned he had thought about it a lot and asked me if was going to judge him for telling me about his thoughts. We decided to buy a couple of dvds showing men in sexual activity. We were about half-way through the first dvd and we had our pants down. It went from touching to going down on each other. We had a great time. I don't think either of us will ever go 'trolling' for men. We still have our times and I still check out my male friends.
For me there is something special about having sex with a man or a woman where there is some familiarity and intimacy. Go easy and see where the conservations go. Trust me, you will be surprised how many men and women have thought about it. One thing for sure, younger women are more open and receptive to exploring more of their sexuality than older women.
One, what I thought was a hot story, was when two women were having a private party while their husbands went deer hunting. It started out with dancing, then slow dancing and then hot kisses. It can happen to you. Don't give up.

 

[possiblities]

bi curious and married

I am a 46 years old, married, and bi-curious. I have always thought about being with a woman in a discreet relationship. I have often wondered how I might be albe to meet someone with similar interest who is new to this also. I would love to chat.

 

[touche]

I too understand this issue. I couldn't imagine talking about my desires, even in a round about way with my girlfriends. Atleast one has openly said she'd never consider it. (her husband wanted to have a 3way with someone) And I wouldn't want to jeopardize the friendship with sex. Now if I could find someone who was already interested in a sexual relationship that we could also be friends with I'd be in heaven. Alas haven't found anyone in the area. Hopefully one day.

 

[VampGirl]

Touche i understand i have talked about it with my friends but they don't understand, its hard to just be open about it but when you find someone you can talk to about anything its wonderful!!!

 

[touche]

Touche i understand i have talked about it with my friends but they don't understand, its hard to just be open about it but when you find someone you can talk to about anything its wonderful!!!

Yes VampGirl it is! Finding the forums here have been wonderful! Although I have yet to have a 'real' experience, I have had several AMAZING experiences online through PM's. If the reality comes anywhere close to those sessions, it'll be explosive!

 

[VampGirl]

they are my dear...they are the greatest experiences of your life.....its what we live for

 

[touche]

they are my dear...they are the greatest experiences of your life.....its what we live for

sigh now if only I could find someone to share that with me!

 

[welikeu]

I too understand this issue. I couldn't imagine talking about my desires, even in a round about way with my girlfriends. Atleast one has openly said she'd never consider it. (her husband wanted to have a 3way with someone) And I wouldn't want to jeopardize the friendship with sex. Now if I could find someone who was already interested in a sexual relationship that we could also be friends with I'd be in heaven. Alas haven't found anyone in the area. Hopefully one day.

Wife and I read this entry with interest. We are in the East Texas area. Are you anywhere close to this part of the South?...

 

[bequ23]

sigh now if only I could find someone to share that with me!

Me too, me too, me too......
I have had some wonderful experiences online and chatting, but I so want to have the real thing. All the women I have spoken to who have shared their experiences with women just make me want it more.
And to the lady with the sexy eyes (you know who you are), I would love to be explosive with you!!

 

[welikeu]

Me too, me too, me too......
I have had some wonderful experiences online and chatting, but I so want to have the real thing. All the women I have spoken to who have shared their experiences with women just make me want it more.
And to the lady with the sexy eyes (you know who you are), I would love to be explosive with you!!

We are just curious as to why you failed to return our greeting a little over a half hour ago!!!!...

 

[PatchIsMe]

I am happy that my dear wonderful friend shared this site with me ! I too am curious and meeting other women is not an easy thing to do! I have run into the people (from a dating site) who are only looking for sex and I am searching more for a relationship then a one night stand !

 

[welikeu]

Bi-Curious

I am happy that my dear wonderful friend shared this site with me ! I too am curious and meeting other women is not an easy thing to do! I have run into the people (from a dating site) who are only looking for sex and I am searching more for a relationship then a one night stand !

There is a lady in your state that is looking for sex with another female. Not a one night stand either....she wants someone to share things with like you.....

 

[showustheway]

I am happy that my dear wonderful friend shared this site with me ! I too am curious and meeting other women is not an easy thing to do! I have run into the people (from a dating site) who are only looking for sex and I am searching more for a relationship then a one night stand !

Hell, I'd take the one night stand! One night (with the right lady) to be completely uninhibited and spontaneous. Sometimes that first time can be awkward and clumsy when there are expectations of a future. Just to be able to give it your all with gusto and explore every naughty little desire that’s been building to this point. *sigh – down girl* Then of course on the other hand, it would be greatly enjoyable to be able to continue a relationship with a woman and learn all the ins and out’s that make her moan.

I would just like to have a….beginning.

I live in such a rural area that the possibilities don’t come knocking on my door. Even if I went the route of the suggested classified, I’d end up driving hours for the encounter. Huh.

Anyway, the fantasies in my head are DELICIOUS!

 

[touche]

I too, at this point would enjoy one night of bliss filled passion. I'm not looking for a relationship, but it would be nice to have a special lady that I could get together with for some lady loving when the desire arises.

 

[VampGirl]

Hello my ladies your vamp is back to offer soem friends bites to whoever needs them!

 

[gloriann]

question...

I'm not trying to be a wet rag, but I've read so many comments by married women... Do you not consider having an affair with a woman cheating? Look, I've been there and done that, so I'm not throwing stones, but I will say, it will never happen again.

And, of course, if your husbands are cool with it, completely disregard that statement...