Guys, Am I alone on this?

[cramer-FL]

For some reason the idea of kissing another guy grosses me out, but I am totally okay with giving a guy oral to completion or letting him fuck me. Heck, I wouldn't mind sucking him until he cums in my mouth while his best friend fucks me. I am just curious if there are any other guys out there that feel like me. I think I enjoy the sex part between M-M but not the intimacy the a gay couple has.

 

[rbone04]

I know I definitely feel the same way. I have had relations with a few men and I have come to realize that I only like the sexual aspect. The first time I had sex with another man, we kissed and it totally turned me off. But since then, I still crave the sex. Although I do have a girlfriend and am completely turned on emotionally and physically by women, I rather prefer to be fucked by a man (e.g., bottom more than top) when I am with one. Further, most of my masturbation experiences involve anal stimulation (butt plugs, dildos, etc.) while looking at straight porn or fantasizing about women. Maybe more than everyone wanted to know, but what the hell right?

 

[zipz32]

Right on the Money

For some reason the idea of kissing another guy grosses me out, but I am totally okay with giving a guy oral to completion or letting him fuck me. Heck, I wouldn't mind sucking him until he cums in my mouth while his best friend fucks me. I am just curious if there are any other guys out there that feel like me. I think I enjoy the sex part between M-M but not the intimacy the a gay couple has.

I have talked to so many guys that feel exactly the same way.

 

[intruder52]

You are not alone but you have to admit that not everyone enjoys the same things when it comes to sex. Me personally I enjoy long makeout sessions with both men and women. Sharing tongues, rubbing our bodies together, stroking those special bits, licking all those wonderful body parts. But if you don't enjoy it then it is not for you. But I love to kiss a well built hot man.

 

[Svejk]

Theres about 8 different threads on this theme already, so no, you're not alone.

 

[Etoile]

Theres about 8 different threads on this theme already, so no, you're not alone.

Ya beat me to it!

Search is your friend. Searching for "kissing" would have been good.

 

[Fatemaster]

Kissing Boys

I actually have no issues with kissing guys, but I am not interested in guys romantically.

I kissed a guy with a light beard during sex once, and it was totally hot...but then again I'm not really into anal sex, so to each his (or her) own!

 

[Bill3250]

The first couple of times a guy kissed me, I had trouble dealing with the five o'clock shadow scraping my face, but eventually, I found it to be exciting, espically if the guy had just sucked cock (mine or someone else's) it was a huge turn-on. Once, in the baths, I kissed a guy as he was sucking a cock and enjoyed the cum drooling from his lips as the cock shot its load.

 

[valen1971]

I'm bicurious but only for mutual sucking and fucking. Anything else and you can count me out.

 

[cramer-FL]

Ya beat me to it!

Search is your friend. Searching for "kissing" would have been good.

So are you saying that you have never, duplicated a thread before. I am sure that if duplication were not allowed then there would never be any new thread here, just ones that are thousands of pages long.

 

[Creutair]

My experiences with men are limited, but the same. I can't stand the idea of kissing a guy, and the idea of hugging is vaguely perturbing in a way. Watching two men make out leaves me feeling somewhat disturbed (not that I'd ever stop them; they can do what they want. It's just my personal glitch.)

But I have no problems going down on one, milking them to the last and swallowing it all or just bending over and letting them ride my ass until I'm sore and they're spent. Just don't expect me to nuzzle you afterwards, I'd rather just shower and get on with doing something else.

 

[none2_none2]

I have to say this whole thing of "I'll suck, but not kiss" seems kind of silly. Do you really think that when two guys kiss it is always about love and commitment? A kiss only means as much as the people doing it. It can be just as much a purely sex act as sucking, fucking, j/o'ing, etc. Some guys even like combining sucking with kissing so that they swap semen... The mouth/lips are full of nerve endings so just like sex a lot of sensations can be involved. When I was single and on the prowl, I used to pick guys up and carry them into the bedroom and first give them a long lasting back rub. It wasn't because it was a honeymoon or that we would be setting up house. Rather, it just seemed that if I was going to fuck the guy, at least I was going to give him an experience to remember and not just be cock #X that had been where some man may have gone before.

Personally, I could never understand why it wasn't the other way around. A man's mouth is a lot more similar to a woman's mouth than a man's crotch is to a woman's crotch.

 

[ColinGraham]

I must admit I'm in the "hate kissing" corner on this, but I have an idea it might be related to something beyond my control... something from my youth.

Imagine for a moment that you had a father you were close with--at least when he was home and not drunk--and sometimes a kiss on the cheek and hugs were exchanged. Nothing sexual--just boy/dad stuff.

Years later you become interested in exploring that "other" side of sexuality and get together with a guy. You have a lot of expectations built up about the sex part, the stroking, the oral, anal, etc. and it all seems fine. But when you get together and--inevitably--you get to that grizzle-cheeked kiss, you freak out. You're suddenly repelled but you don't dare say anything, because you care about your partner and you don't want to hurt his feelings. Besides, you sense that it's not him that's the problem anyway...it's you.

But you can't bring yourself to be honest with him. He senses something is wrong but you lie and avoid saying what's really on your mind: that kissing him "grosses you out" (but I sure like sucking your cock, and, by the way, could you please stick your lovely manpole in my butt?)

Sorry, for the long post, but this was my experience with a truly warm gentle soul, who I saw a couple times but will probably never see again, and--sadly--he'll never know the real reason why.

 

[timjam]

Not with you on this one. I love a good long make out session with a man or a woman.

Even more so I like to vary the types of men. Sometimes going for a more feminate type where I can be top, and also sometimes going for a top and playing the feminate bottom. Desire is totally varied between guy to guy. While I don't like to make out with all of them, still always look forward to the next time with one of them

 

[ColinGraham]

I hear you, Timjam, and that--plus some of the other comments here--have caused me to do some serious thinking (the sign of a good thread, no?)

I now recall that my "rejected" kisser--like me--was submissive. In truth, he was almost effeminate, though a gentle and lovely person to be sure. Maybe if he'd been the opposite, things would have gone quite differently. Say if he'd taken my shirt off and pulled me into an embrace, cradling the back of my head--maybe even grabbing a fistful of hair--and pressed his mouth to mine, while reaching down and clutching my buttcheek in a firm grip with his other hand...

Seriously, not poking fun here. I'm actually getting hot thinking about that, and that tells me something about myself. I'll try to keep a more open mind. Thanks to all on this thread who've provided thoughtful comments.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Check it out
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=569635

You are definitely not alone!

 

[Tom Bishop]

Kisses

It was harder for me to Rudely put suck my young mans tounge then to suck his cock for the first time
One day he asked after we had been together several time but never Kissed on the mouth "come over here and give your man a good horny kiss" My mind went right to kiss his ass or his cick but he put his hand out and pulled me to him his tounge felt small and pointy going into my mouth nothing to say my beard rubbing agaist his stubble was a whole new thing
Now he gets a big kick out of necking as he puts it He says the way I act timed and shy turns him on

 

[jaked99]

I have to agree with the other guys that kissing is great.

During my first experience with a guy, he started to kiss me and I was turned off and asked him to stop. Probably that he was so aggressive and wanted to push his tongue down my throat. I started to kiss but lightly and no tongue until I was comfortable. Eventually it got to the point where we start kissing furiously, it was so hot and increased the pleasure immensely.

Just because I like to kiss when I with another guy doesn't mean I'm looking for a relationship. It just heightens the act.

 

[Bill3250]

I have to agree with the other guys that kissing is great.

During my first experience with a guy, he started to kiss me and I was turned off and asked him to stop. Probably that he was so aggressive and wanted to push his tongue down my throat. I started to kiss but lightly and no tongue until I was comfortable. Eventually it got to the point where we start kissing furiously, it was so hot and increased the pleasure immensely.

Just because I like to kiss when I with another guy doesn't mean I'm looking for a relationship. It just heightens the act.

Kissing a guy is great, espically if he has just sucked your cock and you can taste your cum on his lips and tongue!

 

[DanielOC]

I am in the no kissing crowd myself. I am hoping to have my first guy/guy experience in a couple days and we have both agreed we would rather not kiss. I can't really explain why, it just doesn't turn me on where as sucking and fucking does.

 

[SirLeo]

Incest Connection

I must admit I'm in the "hate kissing" corner on this, but I have an idea it might be related to something beyond my control... something from my youth.

Imagine for a moment that you had a father you were close with--at least when he was home and not drunk--and sometimes a kiss on the cheek and hugs were exchanged. Nothing sexual--just boy/dad stuff.

Years later you become interested in exploring that "other" side of sexuality and get together with a guy. You have a lot of expectations built up about the sex part, the stroking, the oral, anal, etc. and it all seems fine. But when you get together and--inevitably--you get to that grizzle-cheeked kiss, you freak out. You're suddenly repelled but you don't dare say anything, because you care about your partner and you don't want to hurt his feelings. Besides, you sense that it's not him that's the problem anyway...it's you.

But you can't bring yourself to be honest with him. He senses something is wrong but you lie and avoid saying what's really on your mind: that kissing him "grosses you out" (but I sure like sucking your cock, and, by the way, could you please stick your lovely manpole in my butt?)

Sorry, for the long post, but this was my experience with a truly warm gentle soul, who I saw a couple times but will probably never see again, and--sadly--he'll never know the real reason why.

There might be something to the subconscious connection that kissing a guy reminds the subconscious of times with your father and the connection evokes a stark response related to thinking of your father sexually.

 

[bill_philips]

I agree

cramer-FL

I understand and Feel the same way.

 

[mtdan]

So are you saying that you have never, duplicated a thread before. I am sure that if duplication were not allowed then there would never be any new thread here, just ones that are thousands of pages long.

been there.. it is not as open as it should be.. i asked the wrong question once and I too was told to search.. I guess it is who you are that makes the difference..

 

[Runner_3]

the thought of kissing another guy doesnt do anything for me either. I dont think I would like it. I've never done anything with a guy but I would do oral and probably anal but not kissing. It just seems weired to me and not a turn on at all.

 

[mannis]

kissing guys

Sometimes the whole atmosphere makes you do things you wouldn,t normally do, and kissing a guy may be one of them. your both naked, your heated bodies grinding and writhing sensuously and ardently against each other, cocks rampant, breathing is ragged and short, hands are roaming feverishly, then....he kisses you, his lips mashing lightly on yours, his tongue flicking and searching, and the next thing....BOOM...your kissing him back. It happens guys, get on with it and get over it cos after all the resultant sex is usually great...isnt it?.