yoursdiscreetly
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how can a bi curious male find a HEALTHY discreet male ?
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how can a bi curious male find a healthy guy
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well you can never know someones health 100% unless you get them to a doctor so you have to trust them
sucking another guys cock is odd, it is smooth soft and hard at the same time there is no describable taste or none at all if they have just showered. once they cum however there is obviously taste (you can taste your own to get an idea)
It most probably will hurt first time taking anal as you will be tense and nervous so remember to relax and after the initial penetration and a thrust or 2 it shouldn't hurt and after that it feels great
Big ones are good if you are confident you can take it, small/medium may be best if its first time but personally i started big and prefer big
sucking another guys cock is odd, it is smooth soft and hard at the same time there is no describable taste or none at all if they have just showered. once they cum however there is obviously taste (you can taste your own to get an idea)
It most probably will hurt first time taking anal as you will be tense and nervous so remember to relax and after the initial penetration and a thrust or 2 it shouldn't hurt and after that it feels great
Big ones are good if you are confident you can take it, small/medium may be best if its first time but personally i started big and prefer big
Friends.
For most men, who become curious to be involved with another man sexually, they not going to go out to bars and adult stores looking for their first experience. Too risky and really in some ways too gross.
I lived with those same fantasies and still was too frightened to pursue my dreams and take the risk. I had my first sex with a man earlier and I knew I wanted that activity to be part of my life. I decided there was a better and safer way to get to it.
I started talking about sex with a friend of mine, as a test, and I carefully brought up the subject of sex between men. After a while, he said he had often thought what it would be like to have sex with another guy. I suggested we watch a porno I had and to see what it might be like. It wasn't long before he couldn't take his hand off the bulge in his jeans. I suggested he take it out before it broke in his pants. Once he had it out, I reached out stroked it and finally went down on him. I had no longer finished and he was pulling down my sweat pants; he wanted his turn.
This is not to tended to be a sex story. But it is a way to safely live out that curiosity. With all the men I develop friendships with, I carefully get around to takling about sex between men. Most of them are totally against it and think it is digusting. When they do, I drop it. But on two different occasions, two of the men wanted to talk about it and it did end up with us having sex. One of the men I see on a regular basis. We both enjoy our sexual activity in our marriage, but we also love our side trips.
This has worked out for me and it has kept me safe and secure. I think there are many men who would really find out what it is like to have sex with another man, they just need to be safe enough and in control enough to give it a try............
For most men, who become curious to be involved with another man sexually, they not going to go out to bars and adult stores looking for their first experience. Too risky and really in some ways too gross.
I lived with those same fantasies and still was too frightened to pursue my dreams and take the risk. I had my first sex with a man earlier and I knew I wanted that activity to be part of my life. I decided there was a better and safer way to get to it.
I started talking about sex with a friend of mine, as a test, and I carefully brought up the subject of sex between men. After a while, he said he had often thought what it would be like to have sex with another guy. I suggested we watch a porno I had and to see what it might be like. It wasn't long before he couldn't take his hand off the bulge in his jeans. I suggested he take it out before it broke in his pants. Once he had it out, I reached out stroked it and finally went down on him. I had no longer finished and he was pulling down my sweat pants; he wanted his turn.
This is not to tended to be a sex story. But it is a way to safely live out that curiosity. With all the men I develop friendships with, I carefully get around to takling about sex between men. Most of them are totally against it and think it is digusting. When they do, I drop it. But on two different occasions, two of the men wanted to talk about it and it did end up with us having sex. One of the men I see on a regular basis. We both enjoy our sexual activity in our marriage, but we also love our side trips.
This has worked out for me and it has kept me safe and secure. I think there are many men who would really find out what it is like to have sex with another man, they just need to be safe enough and in control enough to give it a try............
cramer-FL
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Are you serious with this? I'll play along.
1a.) finding a healthy male partner is the same as finding a healthy female partner. There is nothing 100%.
1b.) I assume you are either married and looking to cheat or not openly attracted to men. Either way the best way to find someone you know will be discrete is to find someone that has more to loose that you.
2.) It is different for everyone. I would recommend buying a synthetic cock and putting it in your mouth. They make some these days that feel very realistic.
3.) See answer for question 2.
4.) Providing you have a functioning cock and balls, I would suggest trying your own cum to find out.
5.) This question is the most ridiculous. Take the synthetic cock purchased for questions 2 and find out. Odds are "longer and thicker" = less pain. Try let me know.
6.) This is going to be a personal opinion. Are blue eyes better than green? Are thin women better than heavy ones?
none2_none2
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cramer-FL,
Excellent post!!!
Excellent post!!!
tonethebone
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slarsit, you are right on the money. I close buddy of 15 years brought up the idea to me. I had already given it lots of thought anyway. So whenever he brought it up during conversation. I got more and more curious, and horny. Same sort of situation as far as the video goes. I finally asked him to show me. He did. And the rest is history.
Both married. But enjoy our get togethers every few months.
valen, best of luck. And please share the outcum
Both married. But enjoy our get togethers every few months.
valen, best of luck. And please share the outcum
robbie_boy1
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after you listen to all this stuff......abstain or use condoms....that is the only fucking way you can be safe....men are pigs...and so am i...so protect yourself...getting laid should not be a death sentence.
Just my opinion....good luck
Just my opinion....good luck
ReluctantCav
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This is the concern that will likely keep this fantasy of mine in the fantasy realm...
nakedboater69
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young and dum with no experince would bne the safest but would love to feel a cock cuming in me some place mouth ass or where ever or phone sex
young and dum with no experince would bne the safest but would love to feel a cock cuming in me some place mouth ass or where ever or phone sex
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Why's it fucked up? We may be bicurious but that doesn't mean to say that we're reckless. I'd rather end up having a good guy on guy session with no chance of picking up an STI than storm in fuck away and end up regretting the experience.
none2_none2
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Would you have started a thread "how can a bi curious male find a healthy gal"?
You should find out whatever you can about any partner you have regardless of gender.
Quite true, however, this is a thread started by a bicurious guy. Isn't he right to ask advice from those interested in helping other guys find their way to a healthy bisexual adventure?
none2_none2
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Surely you comprehend where the title itself is rather insulting. I'm thick skinned, so I don't take it personally, but it is still demeaning. If you don't understand, let me give other examples:
"I'm traveling to the UK, how do I find clean/healthy British men?"
"I would like to try sex with blacks, how do you go about finding healthy ones?"
"I would like to have sex with a sex worker, how do I find clean ones?"
People whether by gender, race, nationality, etc are not livestock. If you are worried about STD's, then you need to know your partners and take precautions regardless of who they are. Sure there are men gay/bi that have AIDS or for that matter other STD's, but so can women or any way you slice/dice the human population.
Bottom line: There isn't some special thing to do to find clean guys vs clean women. It is everybody's personal responsibility to know any partner, otherwise there is always a risk for STD's.
Point taken.
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LOL i cant stop laughing
yoursdiscreetly
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thank you
thank you, your reply was most helpful
and compassionate. i think others
most be having a bad day.
thank you, your reply was most helpful
and compassionate. i think others
most be having a bad day.
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1. Why discreet? Discrete brings up dangers - you might end up with another closet-case but with a violent streak.
2. Only one way to find out.
3. What does what feel like?
4. Taste yourself. Find out. Sure it might get mustier or might go sweeter. Meet a guy who is well kept, groomed if that is such a major concern.
5. The guy will likely know you're a virgin. He'll walk you through.
6. Which do you prefer? We can't really say.
