*gulp* posting an ad here.....

[sexycaz22]

Hi and thank you for looking at my personal ad.

After a year of exploring and experimenting and trying a variety of kinky activities with some really nice people I have met off Informed Consent, ALT or CollarMe, oh and Literotica, I have came to realise who I am, how I describe myself, kinky-wise, and how do I fit into the BDSM lifestyle.

I would like to share with you; I am a scene bottom, in which that I will bottom for a Top; exploring pain play (being rough, floggings, spankings, breast torture etc), bondage (any kind of bondage - restricts, ropework etc) and sensual play (feather, cold play etc). I am not interested in a D/s play session or even a D/s relationship.

However, I am also a Top (or a Domme, depending on the situation and what kind of a play session it is). I love being in control, to inflict pain in a play session. I have explored objectification (foot-seat, chair etc), pain play and bondage but I would like to explore them some more with a regular play partner (whether it be a sub or a fellow switch). I am interested, especially, in domestic services, where a sub/slave would come and do some domestic chores for me, to pamper me, to wait on me, and do foot worship, wearing a certain dress code, or perhaps in the nude!

I am looking more locally, i.e. in Edinburgh or Scotland.

I am looking for a regular play partner who can be a friend first, to have regular play sessions, exploring different activities together as two consenting adults.

I am open dating and having fun, and if things progress well, it could become something more for both of us, but it is not essential. I am looking for guys whose age is between 21 - 45 years old.

 

[sexycaz22]

<a little bump>

If you have any questions, do ask away please! Either in this thread or by PM, but please, no one liners.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Hello..

Hey Caz.. I'm a 39yr old Dom who likes to get to know people outside of the US (especially sub females). If things click between the two of us, I would be willing to finance a trip to the US or possibly come to Scotland.

I am not really looking for a 24/7 relationship but I do think that things would naturally progress to a point that our bedroom rolls would spill over into the rest of the day.

I'm into spanking, orgasm control and erotic photography among other things.

Outside the bdsm realm, I am into history (military and political), photography, good movies, good theatre, and good books.

I hope you will read this post and consider it worthy of a response.

 

[erick07]

Your post is really well-phrased and sensible. I've never delved too deeply into a dom/sub relationship, but they're fascinating especially as the sub, ultimately, is really in charge. It's such a sharing, trusting, give-and-take thing. I'd like to talk with you more about it... no promises but maybe we have some common ground. Best of luck!

 

[NapoleanDom]

I am quite interested by your post. You seem like a very mature, level headed woman and I admire that. Also enjoy the friend then something more aspect as I dont like to just jump into something. If nothing more, I would certainly enjoy your online company sometime and a good chat. I look forward to your response caz.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Bump



Thought it was time to give my friend a "bump"

 

[sexycaz22]

Thought it was time to give my friend a "bump"

Thanks

 

[WolfBane1986]

**UPDATED: 26/8/07**

I am a shy girl who likes to take it slow, making friends and with time, the potential of a real meeting and to a D/s relationship or a play-mate relationship.

What am I looking for?

I am looking for someone who is caring, loving, very encouraging and kind, but with a playful and mischief streak in him. Someone who can make me laugh, is willing to be patient, and willing to learn new things or to teach me new things, someone who can push my limits but knowing when to stop.

I am looking more locally, in the UK or in Scotland.

I am not interested in 24/7 D/s relationship AT THE MOMENT, but who knows, what will the future hold for me? I rather to build up a good friendship, and going through the "getting to know each other" period before seeing if we are matched to each other and taking the decision to move forward to a real meeting and then seeing where that goes from that first meeting. I might be interested in play-time sessions but ONLY if the right person does come along and after we become friends either online or in real life.

What are my experiences?

I have been an online submissive for a few years now but is looking to move from being an online submissive to a real-life submissive.

I am very new to the BDSM scene, but have been meeting people at a munch, joined a BDSM forum, meeting other people (Doms and subs) and asking questions and learning more about safe words, and what could be my limits.

Recently, I have met with one lovely man who was more than happy to spank my lovely bottom, and I am so happy to tell you that it was an awesome night for both of us. I now know that spankings is and won't be one of my hard limits *wink* It was my first spanking session and I am looking forward to exploring some more of my limits or BDSM activities.

So, what are my hard limits?

I am very curious about bondage (being tied up and in restraints) and nipple torture . I am also very open-minded and will try anything once (except kniveplay, scat and blood - I had an awful experience with a knife in an argument)

Some hard limits can be discussed and negotiated, but there are one hard limit which I won't compromise on and that is kniveplay. It is an emotional trigger for me, and just the image of a sharp knife will put me in fear and a frightened state.

What are my other interests, other than BDSM?

I love to watch movies. To be more relaxed, I love to read books in a quiet spot. I also dabble in painting sometimes, and is hoping to do some more painting during the summer time.

I love to go out with friends (with no bdsm interest) to pubs or nightclubs every other weekend.

Thank you. *smiles* and I hope to hear from you.

My link:

My journey - where you can read all about how my journey of becoming involved in the BDSM lifestyle/community/world.

Caz

Hello my name is Steve i'm from Manchester, if you like we can chat over msn or yahoo for a while and get to know each other and see how it goes? I've read your ad you seem pretty cool and together so just drop me a PM if you fancy it and I look forward to hearing from you.

xXx

 

[pellso27]

wow

I say hello

 

[Clint Taurus]

Hi, I've read about your journey and love your honesty.

I really hope you find what your heart truely desires

 

[sexycaz22]

Hi, I've read about your journey and love your honesty.

I really hope you find what your heart truely desires

Thank you very much.

 

[sexycaz22]

*bump*

Just updated my personal ads!

Still looking for some kinky fun!! So if you are in Scotland, do drop me a line! I might consider you if you live in England but is able to travel or to accommodate!

 

[ranix2k]

Superb ad Caz, great to see someone who knows exactly what she wants, and is very sensual as well! looking forward to meeting up soon...

 

[sexycaz22]

Superb ad Caz, great to see someone who knows exactly what she wants, and is very sensual as well! looking forward to meeting up soon...

Glad you like the new updated profile, and I am also looking forward to meeting up!

 

[secretclub]

Hi there, your post sounded really interesting
Are you still looking for someone to chat to? If so, just drop me a pm
x

 

[Chris_Xavier]

BIG OLE BUMP!!!!!

 

[sexycaz22]

Yet again, a little bump and to announce the new edited personal ads.

((please I am not looking for online fun, got it? I am not INTERESTED!))

Thank you