Question for guys

[samwonder]

Hi I'm new here and I signed up for the forums pretty must JUST to ask this question.. I've been on the main site for a while though so I think I will stick around.

Uhm... I'll get right to the point.

I'm a virgin and I DON'T want vaginal sex because I'm way too tight down there...even tampons hurt (sorry if TMI). However I really love anal masturbation. I've gotten to the point where I almost can't get off unless something is deep in my ass. How many guys are interested in anal sex (and how many aren't?) More importantly, like... what's the chances of a college age male freaking out if anal sex was suggested to him. Would he think it's gross? <---that's what I'm most afraid of...

I know most people on this site are more sexually "open" than most so I guess I'll take that into account. Thanks in advance.

 

[dude50]

Most guys like the forbiden hole. I guess it is a rush to see if the girl will let you have anal sex. I think that it is cool and it just adds to the love making. ......DUDE50....

 

[lidien]

sweety not to many guys period are gonna turn down anal sex

 

[Masterwhips]

There is no way a guy is going to turn down taking a woman's ass...

 

[lookingforplay]

Agree

Any young college kid, and most of us older guys, is/are not going to turn down anything that ends in with sex.
Oral sex, anal sex, phone sex, cyber sex, vaginal sex, etc...
It's all great!!!!!!!!

 

[Masterwhips]

Any young college kid, and most of us older guys, is/are not going to turn down anything that ends in with sex.
Oral sex, anal sex, phone sex, cyber sex, vaginal sex, etc...
It's all great!!!!!!!!

Great point! I second that thought...

 

[samwonder]

Any young college kid, and most of us older guys, is/are not going to turn down anything that ends in with sex.
Oral sex, anal sex, phone sex, cyber sex, vaginal sex, etc...
It's all great!!!!!!!!

I guess I knew that (sort of) but maybe I was more curious about the hierarchy of sex (for MOST guys). Heh not that such a thing exists. ie, PREFERRING vaginal sex over anal sex or something...

But you've all reassured me thank you

 

[sarahwillplay]

no worries

not only will most guys jump at the chance for a little backdoor lovin, you can have the best of both worlds by having them earn the pleasure with pleasure,can't be too tight for a tounge...

 

[Masterwhips]

not only will most guys jump at the chance for a little backdoor lovin, you can have the best of both worlds by having them earn the pleasure with pleasure,can't be too tight for a tounge...

would give lots of tongue lovin' for some backdoor action........

 

[samwonder]

Start him off with a small strap on, then work your way up to bigger one as his sphincter loosens up.

OMG. -rofl- That startled me. But are you volunteering!

 

[stickwork]

Hi I'm new here and I signed up for the forums pretty must JUST to ask this question.. I've been on the main site for a while though so I think I will stick around.

Uhm... I'll get right to the point.

I'm a virgin and I DON'T want vaginal sex because I'm way too tight down there...even tampons hurt (sorry if TMI). However I really love anal masturbation. I've gotten to the point where I almost can't get off unless something is deep in my ass. How many guys are interested in anal sex (and how many aren't?) More importantly, like... what's the chances of a college age male freaking out if anal sex was suggested to him. Would he think it's gross? <---that's what I'm most afraid of...

I know most people on this site are more sexually "open" than most so I guess I'll take that into account. Thanks in advance.

It's also an excellent form of birth control.

 

[george55]

I disagree with everyone. Guys aren't going to wanta start out with someone who wants anal only. It's counter to everything they've ever done. Furthermore they will continue to be at you to try vaginal intercourse. It's in the genes. Their psyche says they are the one who can make it alright for you. You had better be careful you never get drunk, or get in situation where you lose control, the line between yes I want sex and no I don't want vaginal will break down. And you better be very sure when someone is behind you that they don't go for it with or without your permission.

If I were you, and that's hard to say because I'm a male, I would be very open with my obgyn and make sure there isn't an avenue to help you overcome this condition.

I'm probably twice the age of anyone else who responded, but I think my experiences count for a lot more.

 

[e-trance action]

I agree with George55 that you should talk with your ob/gyn as there may be medical issues that you should have checked.

He also has a point that you will turned on during your sessions, but if you are choosy in the man/men you select, they won't pressure you to do something painful. Find a guy who wants to try some different things-handjobs, mutual masturbation, oral and anal can all be "spiced up" and make for a really good time for both of you.

That being said, you really should check out the "How To" forum to make sure the anal sex you have is both pain free and pleasurable for you-as many of the guys you will meet simply won't have experience in this area (pun intended).

Good luck to you

 

[samwonder]

Eeek that's scary. THANK YOU!

 

[coastal-boy]

Vaginismus is a severe but treatable syndrome. It usually requires both physical and mental treatment. You should do a search and see if you have these symptoms

 

[lostnfoundagain]

no college guy will turn down getting in your ass...so bend over and have fun

 

[george55]

Eeek that's scary. THANK YOU!

I guess it was meant to scare......more importantly to give you knowledge of male ego...........good luck with whatever your solution.......

 

[pickax]

Hi I'm new here and I signed up for the forums pretty must JUST to ask this question.. I've been on the main site for a while though so I think I will stick around.

Uhm... I'll get right to the point.

I'm a virgin and I DON'T want vaginal sex because I'm way too tight down there...even tampons hurt (sorry if TMI). However I really love anal masturbation. I've gotten to the point where I almost can't get off unless something is deep in my ass. How many guys are interested in anal sex (and how many aren't?) More importantly, like... what's the chances of a college age male freaking out if anal sex was suggested to him. Would he think it's gross? <---that's what I'm most afraid of...

I know most people on this site are more sexually "open" than most so I guess I'll take that into account. Thanks in advance.

we don't turn any down,or most don't
i do I am taken

 

[stickwork]

Dump your box

Can't dump in the box - this is the subject problem.

Hence my suggestion of dumping in the ass - and not paradoxically.

 

[samwonder]

What is dumping in the box?

 

[subgirl2]

we don't turn any down,or most don't
i do I am taken

I don't care Pickax, I'm not gonna stop asking you.

 

[A_Photo_Guy]

I disagree with everyone. Guys aren't going to wanta start out with someone who wants anal only. It's counter to everything they've ever done. Furthermore they will continue to be at you to try vaginal intercourse. It's in the genes. Their psyche says they are the one who can make it alright for you. You had better be careful you never get drunk, or get in situation where you lose control, the line between yes I want sex and no I don't want vaginal will break down. And you better be very sure when someone is behind you that they don't go for it with or without your permission.

If I were you, and that's hard to say because I'm a male, I would be very open with my obgyn and make sure there isn't an avenue to help you overcome this condition.

I'm probably twice the age of anyone else who responded, but I think my experiences count for a lot more.

The George55 is so right. And believe it or not, some girls have told me that some guys have actually turned them down to do anal. That came as a big shock to me though. You need to Google anal sex more as well as vaginal and like someone said, talk with a doctor that knows. With anal it's said it's easier to transmit STDs, so be aware of that also.

Most of the girls I've been with were open to trying anal things with me and some really love it. I'm kind of involved with someone right now and she LOVES it. Before we got physical she told me that she hadn't had anal sex in like 10 yrs, but would be open to doing it again and she was. Once we had it for just over an hour - it wasn't painful for her at all. It's a real turn on. The last time we got together I asked her to try to get on top and it went great. Then I sat on the bed, put my feet on the floor and had her get on top, but facing away from me. It was QUITE the visual!

Oops, I think I rambled too much here. lol Feel free to contact me directly is you have questions about my experiences with it.

Ps. You're still a virgin, that's great. Be careful of who you let experience you sexually - make it special.

 

[dave's thing]

Your subject reminds me of Susan in this story ...... for other alternatives try reading this and pay attention to Susan. The subject matter may not interest you but I am sure the character will.
On your own personal matter I think you will find that some do and some do not and that you will eventually will find the right one... communication is important.
Good Luck
Dave
the story

 

[OnDisplay]

Make Sure You Get A Guy Who Won't tear you a new one or you might need to train your hole prehand...

 

[yogiforlife]

re

Finding a guy to have anal sex should not be a problem for you but if thats all you want with no vaginal sex then most guys will find that odd.